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In high school I was really close to a boy. He was 16, I was 17 going on 18. I got pregnant. I love kids, but he's never wanted a kid. I had to choose my baby or my guy, and I chose my baby. I never asked him to take care of her. I didn't even ask for child support until he asked me why I hadn't filed for it yet when she was a few months old. He paid $30 /mo the first year, then he hit 18 and has paid $148 /mo ever since after we had it adjusted.

He's never had to take care of her for a single day of her life. She does not know that he exists. I have not asked for an increase in child support in 11 years. He and I have stayed good friends, and we rarely discuss her together. During one discussion he said he listed she and I in his life insurance policy, and he plans to buy her a car and help her with a house when she's older and we tell her about him.

We've been struggling a bit financially. I would like to be able to continue to provide her with the best quality of life possible. I have tried to bring up an increase in child support, and he brushed it off with saying that his money is tied up in real estate investments. I didn't ask for a specific number, just whatever he could spare. I don't want to push him to want to help provide for her, and as his friend I don't want to go through child support enforcement to force an increase when we could just talk it out.

Would you simply offer more in this scenario or would you also have the mother of your child go through courts to increase the amount? I'm mostly just curious about how other people would respond.

He has no other kids or financial obligations other than the basics and some slight credit debt. His wife makes more than him, so he's not supporting her. He has a house, cars, steady work, etc. I paid for him to get fixed when he was ready for that and money was tight for him. He's offered to help through tight spots before, but I always told him we'd be fine.

Lets say you he's 23 years old. He's a high school dropout, lives at home with his parents, works part time at a restaurant and for the first date he wants a woman to the cheapest places possible or have her pay for the majority of the date. He got a 17 year old girl pregnant and he was often verbally abusive and presured her to get an abortion. He has a short temper as well. Would you date this guy? - in the past I almost started dating a guy like this... He threatened to kill me several times over the phone and we had to stop talking... And he wasn't joking. He had really bad anger issues

I’m 18. There’s this guy that’s 21 years old. He lives in my friends neighborhood. She lives in a very rich neighborhood. She wants to hook me up with this guy for whatever reason. He is 21, has a 6 year old daughter, 4 year old son and two girls that are currently pregnant with this kids. All kids have different moms. He lives at home and his parents support him. Doesn’t work or go to college. Drives a - 2017 Bentley or lamborghini. Probably his parents, because he has no money so it is his parents. He doesn’t see his daughter and son often - only like once a month. He isn’t allowed to be in the one kids life when it’s born and the other girl is 17 years old and pregnant with his kid. He does online modeling but doesn’t get money for it. My friend said that she had sex with him and he’s really good at it. He screams fuck boy and a walking STD to me but my friend thinks I’m crazy to not go for him. Let’s see - I don’t want to get pregnant, I’m going to college in the fall, I don’t care how much money your parents have, it’s not a good look to be 21 with all these kids and doing nothing to support them, and yeah no. All my friends think he’s hot but I’m not really seeing the appeal. Should I give it a chance and go out on a date or just forget it all together?