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Search Results: putting her on a pedestal
Opinions on old fashioned personalities?
I am 20 year old guy who just happened to grow up with old fashioned and romantic traditions in relationships (opening a door for a woman, pulling out a chair, romantic dates, maybe some ballroom dancing, general...
LightKnight40
Xper 5 Age: 32 Why does he make jokes about how he's "going to hell" for being with me?
The man I'm dating thinks I'm "the sweetest, purest, and most innocent thing" in his life, but I feel like he's putting me on too much of a pedestal. Sure, you could say I'm a nice girl, and yeah I haven't had sex and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Conflicting feelings about girl I barely know, how to proceed?
I met a girl on my university course back in October. At first I was really excited to get to know her, in fact I was excited enough to approach her to start another conversation which I'd normally feel too nervous to do...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is it so very hard & intimidating to talk to & make eye contact with hot females anywhere?
The reason I've asked this question truly is because for a half tough & shy guy I just see myself freezing up when it comes to having a conversation with naturally beautiful females. When it comes to talking with my best...
ncannon18
Guru Age: 34 The female pedestal?
before I say anything more, yes I understand there are double standards for both men and women. I was just reading a my take and a few females used the term female pedestal and saying in comments to stop putting women...
KenM9215
Xper 7 Age: 33 Must I date the guy my friend keeps insisting I should date?
My friend keeps putting this guy on a pedestal; praising how a perfect gentlemen he is and how sweet and caring he can be as a boyfriend. That's great. That's really great but I don't want to date him. It's not because...
Anonymous
(36-45) 101: How to not fall for a Player...
So, I’ve spoken about flirting, about love, about keeping a conversation going…. Yes, I’ve checked those off, but here is one that bugs me. Players! Now, sure, I know how it’s done. Have I used it once or twice? Sure. On...
MarkyyG123
Yoda Age: 30 Why do White girls hate Asians?
They rarely do this to other races of people. But I often see them gossiping making fun of Chinese people or whatever. They are saying "omg this creepy stupid chinese blahblah" and they making fun of Asian languages and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can't get over a jerk?
My ex broke up with me out of the blue a month ago and I decided to have no contact. He didn't even want to have a conversation about the break up other than its over and a few text messages that he didn't want to talk to...
nurselady
Xper 4 Age: 41 I'm a black girl, but black girls embarrass me?
Dont get me wrong, i'm a very proud to be a black girl, people always expect the worse from me and i LOVE proving them wrong. But there are some things that i see black girls (especially African American girls), do that...
Anonymous
(25-29) The line drawn between Creepy and Cute?
I'm pretty new to the relationship game and have only been in one 'serious' one that lasted 6 months. I never had a problem with being called creepy or whatever, but I guess subconsciously that is my problem. I am worried...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why can't gamers respect each other? Especially PC gamers?
I mean, seriously, come on. I wish PC gamers would stop that Master Race bullshit. Yes, PC is awesome, we get it, but by saying Master Race, you are basically insulting other gamers and putting yourself on a pedestal....
AnimeDreama
Xper 7 Age: 30 Relationships can't work with me, please help?
So i am friend zoned by about every girl i know, my friend told me i reek of desperation, and he is entirely right. I have texted girls a lot in the past, but it always ends the same way. I recently asked a girl to come...
Anonymous
(25-29) It's been 4 months and my ex won't move on and won't stop emailing me... I just don't know what to do anymore?
So I dated this guy for 6 months and broke up with him about 4 months ago. I stayed with him longer than I should have because at some point I realized that he was actually a really insecure, depressed, lonely person who...
vgh419
Xper 4 Age: 39 How do you survive in a Extrovert world where everybody wants to always open their mouth?
People talk too much. They don't know how to just be quiet and think. I know black people have a stereotype of being loud etc., but I always been the quiet kid in High School. When your introverted, and observant, you can...
YoungFitOne
Xper 3 Age: 33 I turned into a doormat and was "too nice" with her, is there any way that I can show her that I've learned/changed?
Okay first off I hate the pity party for "nice guys" and that's not what I'm looking for. I am a self-aware "nice-guy," I don't try to be that way, it's just that when I'm attracted to the girl I try too hard to impress...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think putting a girl on a pedestal is the main problem guys have?
I think I am having an epiphany for why I have been having such a hard time with girls in the past few months. I think it's all because of me putting them on a pedestal. Because by putting her on a pedestal, you: 1....
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls: does guys putting you on a pedestal annoy you?
That they think you can't make mistakes and that you always have to be perfect? Does it put a lot of pressure on you and does this annoy you about guys?
Anonymous
(30-35) I am having a hard time fully understand the evil of "the pedestal."?
I know that men and women both agree that putting a woman on a pedestal not only isn't effective at getting women--it just isn't enjoyable to them. But, I cling to it as a real thing (I continue to put girls on a...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Who gets affected more by being rebounded?
Just out of curiosity. Who gets affected more by being used as a rebound/transition, people with relationship experience or people with no relationship experience? Now I've never been in a serious relationship, just...
Anonymous
(36-45) 