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I'm visiting my extended family since Nov of last year
Well I told my boyfriend what had happened and his family is is in law and enforcement. soo.. every time they try to come and get me. Something else ends up which is not there fault.

Well my extended family especially my grandmother and aunt they did numerous oc things to me here are a few :

My grandmother:
won't take me to the doctor nor dentist..
She threatened to slap me
She smokes in the house car and etc even though I told her I'm allergic
She gossip and judges me and my boyfriend
She lies
Etc

My aunt :
She gossip and judge me and my boyfriend
She lies
She assaulted me
She called my boyfriend a PC of crap
Etc

What should I do?
My boyfriend is on the verge calling the police and getting me out of here asap

Hi, so I am from India, and which is pretty conservative place. Lately I am dating a guy from tinder, and after couple of dates the guy wants me to go to his place, which I agreed even though I knew that he lives in a rented apartment with 5 other guys. As I entered the house, he asked me to go to his room and lock the door. Which I did later he came in 15 mins, and after some time.. we dropped me back to my place at around 5 pm. But it was weird, the house was full of cigarette smokes and coz of me the other guys had to sleep on the couch.

I kinda felt weird, would you girls feel weird too.

Also, Guys, esp from india , how do you think of a girl visiting your house...

My boyfriend told me about a situation and I'm having trouble seeing it from his perspective. I'd appreciate your feedback.

He says a woman "took advantage" of him. In the past, when he was with another woman, he was friends with a woman who he admits he was attracted to. His girlfriend was on tour at the time, so out of town. He says he had one drink at a party and felt messed up. He says he may have been drugged.

He says he went to his friend's house because he was "scared". He said he doesn't remember anything else. The next morning, she said "you were so out of it, I had to drink a bunch to not feel like I was taking advantage of you". He freaks out and says she raped him. His girlfriend I guess believed him because they moved on (he went on to sleep with 2 more women during their monogamous relationship). No one else believed it was rape. Their mutual friends saw it from her perspective (she felt humped and dumped).

First of all, I believe men can be sexually assaulted by women (inappropriate touching, sexually exploited, etc). I don't think men are animals. BUT in this case, why did he show up at HER place? And she didn't feed him booze and drugs. How is she held responsible? If a guy I really liked who also flirted with me made a move on me when he was drunk, I wouldn't think he was in a vulnerable state.

He has acquainted the situation to a male friend of mine trying to penetrate me in my sleep. This man and I had no romantic history. There was no suggestion of romance. I was visiting from out of town and stayed over. When I woke up to him on top of me, I left and wandered the streets of New York in shock (and almost jumped on the subway tracks, I was in such a state).

Did this woman take advantage of him? Did we experience something similar? Am I being a dick? My emotional response is FUCK THAT! HE'S A CHEAT AND BLAMES THIS WOMAN 😡 but maybe I'm missing something... or it's not rape and I'm so pissed he would compare our experiences. Thoughts?