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So... :) Months ago, we were really flirty, and hooked up on a few occasions, but then out of no where he disappears. but comes back into my life

Last night, I texted him, and he responded and called me, confused. he told me he was drunk, and we were texting for a while; and he said something like he was naked, and I asked him if he was trying seduce me, and he said maybe.but somewhere during the texts he said he wanted to come to my area and hang. and let me add, it was 2 in the morning, and so we did.

before we meet up I told him I didn't want him drinking and driving. but then he responded with 'i only said I was drunk so it would give me an excuse to talk to you'

and I SAID he never needs an excuse, and I asked why he felt like that, and HE SAID he 'doesnt have the balls', and he went on to say 'i feel like I have to be drunk or say I am to say or do things.' and then he said he was very bad at the whole being smooth thing, etc.

sooo we meet up. nothing happened, he drove over an hour to see me, to only spend an hour.

I don't know what to think, I guess he likes me, but I don't want to get hurt again. and to be honest he is the only guy that can make me laugh in any situation...

What do you guy, and ladies think?

P.S. If you guys need more info please ask! :)

okay the first guy is nice, experienced in bed, is 17 and interested in me but has other options and told me so. he literally said "...by the way, you know I won't be single forever right? someone might beat asking me out before you, just saying." he said this knowing I've been going through a rough time and don't want to dive into a relationship. he's bright, mysterious and wants to just take the time to get to know me, till tonight when he said this, I'm not sure what he wants any more. I asked him if I actually meant something to him or just another option to date and he said I mean something to him but there are other people he thinks that are hot. he's been perfect up till this point and I was actually about to say I wanted to start a relationship with him but now I am wary because of what he has said. (ive known him for 2 years but haven't really started talking till about a month ago)

the next guy is sweet, innocent virgin (doesnt get most of my perverted jokes), a month older than me, never had a girlfriend, trustworthy and I've known him since middle school and would hang out in a group of 4 people and sometimes there were more that came by but mainly 4. I'm not sure if he is interested in me but I used to like him in middle school too and tonight after the way guy #1 acted, I was fed up and hung out with guy #2 because our group hasn't hung out in a long time. I started to like him again and was flirting a bit. we all had a nice timeand he accidently touched my b**b and wouldn't stop apologizing ALL night. while we were driving to his house to drop him off, I was leaning my head on his shoulder partly because I was tired and the day at the mall was exausting. then as the car stopped, I got out of the car to let him out and as we hugged goodbye I kissed the base of his neck discreetly so our friend's mom wouldn't notice even though he definately did. he didn't jump back or anything, just kind of froze for a second. then we hugged for a little longer then let go and waved goodbye. I didn't hug anyone else goodbye and neither did he.

who do you think is the best choice? and why?