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So my friend and I were planning all week to go clubbing today. She turned 21 two weeks ago. I invited my aunt along and my cousin. There’s a pre season football game so I told my friend it was a bad idea. My aunt suggested going to this farm show today but my friend isn’t into that kind of stuff. I told her maybe. I also have a boyfriend of two months that I see about once a week and I text and call him everyday, we get along really well. My friend kept spamming me with messages asking what are we doing today (for the past two days) and I didn’t know what to tell her because I didn’t know. My friend suggested going to this bar tonight and I said I would like to go but didn’t know for sure. She called me last night and gave me an attitude and my boyfriend called in about 30 seconds into the phone call so I told her I had to go. She texted me 4 times today asking what are we doing today. I was at work until 3 so I wasn’t able to respond and now I am at my moms house and I don’t know what I plan on doing later. Still no response from my aunt about the bar. I log into Instagram and she wrote this indirect nasty long paragraph towards me. My parents are super strict about what I do plus I have two younger siblings I might have to watch and she knows this. I haven’t even asked them yet. Her parents don’t care what she does but mine do. I hang out with this girl like 2-3 times a week. If I’m allowed to go, should I? Knowing her she’s gonna yell at me and be all bitchy and she’s also mad that I show up late all the time (as well as everybody else). Am I in the wrong? Or is she? I don’t know what to do? She doesn’t really have other friends either...

So this really shouldn't be that big of a deal and I'm wondering if I'm making it more than what it is. I hate velvet. Like it seriously disgusts me. It's the texture. I have no idea why but for whatever reason when my fingers touch it I literally feel as if someone has taken their nails and raked them down a chalkboard. ekkk

This is the deal my sister is getting married in Dec. I asked that she could pick a place where I can try on as well because I don't live in the same state as she does. However last week when she went to look for another wedding dress (now she doesn't like hers because someone else said they didn't like it) she brought all the other bridesmaids and they tried on dresses. She sent me photos of all of them trying on a dress and asked my opinion.

It's velvet. You can't wear a bra. I'm small with broad shoulders, meaning that going without a bra I'll look like a child. It isn't just that however it's also the cut of the dress. I'm a personal stylist and I know that this wouldn't flatter my body type AT ALL. I'm an inverted triangle. I have little to no curve. I nicely said it looked great on my cousin (hourglass body) but it wasn't my favorite dress.

My mother then blows up my cell phone wanting to know why I'm hurting my sisters feelings by not liking the dress EVERYONE else likes. I said that I find it shocking because she, my sister, and my cousin all know how much I hate velvet. I have to wear winter gloves to fold velvet shirts we get in our store during winter. I told her that I can't understand why nobody said anything. My mother comes up with, "It's your sisters wedding not yours." My father is now blowing up my phone wanting to know why I'm starting a war? wtf?

I've spoken to my sister. She said she knew that I wouldn't like the dress and I'm slim so whatever. In her own words, "It's my wedding so you have to wear what I want. I like that dress."

Am I being bitchy?

So, I'm a girl who is overcoming social anxiety. Communication was never my thing, I never had boyfriend, ever been on a date or been kissed. I can be fun and chill with people I know well, but it's harder with people who I just met. This weekend I was at my cousins wedding. I was bridesmaid and I got paired up with guy I don't even know. Everything was going fine for me, I was rellaxed, because there were a lot of people that I know, and get along well with. My pair was talkative, but he was overly self-confident and kind of obnoxious. It was kind of obivious, that he was expecting something more than just talking that night, and he wanted to get me drunk. However, it's not that easy to get me drunk, so the one that got really drunk, was him. Night was passing by and I decided to go to sleep. I had to sleep in a room with 10 other people, which included my pair too. There was only 3 girls and 8 guys, and most of them were my cousins. So me and my cousins were ready to sleep, because it was really late, when my pair and few other guys showed up to sleep too. They started acting like a jerks and throwing things around, especially my pair, because, he was trying to get my attention. So basically I get to sleep for 1 hour, because of them. I wake up really mad and pissed (hungover too), so in the morning, I was kinda bitchy to him and I think I made him a little mad. Now, when wedding is over I feel this weird guilt, that doesn't leave me alone. For some reason I feel sorry for that guy, and I can't stop thinking about it (but it's not like I insulted him or anything, I was just being sarcastic), not to mention, that last night I kind of bruised his ego by not giving into his charms. However, I feel this urge to mend things, to say something like sorry. I just don't know if is it worth it. I just get this uneasy feeling, I don't like the way things ended. So what do you think I should do?