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Search Results: my shyness is ruining my life
Is it unprofessional to ask physical therapist for his number?
So today I had my first physical therapy session and I was in a room full with very handsome physical therapists, but my physical therapist was the most handsome. The main Therapist was a woman who asked me what I thought...
Why would a married man keep looking at me?
I have met this man at common friend's house on the occasion of a festival. I didn't care at first. This guy is married to very rich but fat lady. She is a nice person as much as I have heard from others. They have done...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are girls inreachable?
All my life I could not reach girls. I am almost 30 years old. And this thought even ruins my sleeps. I love women really really so much. But can't talk to them, can't touch them. Maybe because of social anxiety, shyness...
Anonymous
(36-45) What would you suggest to this person?
There is this 16 year old who has dealt with some messed up stuff from their family. Basically the family causing issues is very narcissistic. Others have agreed that it's not normal situations to have to deal with....
Anonymous
(18-24) A Letter to a Surprising Friend, and His Help in Climbing Out of What Seemed to be a Bottomless Black Hole
I know this will be more helpful to me than anyone else, and also since this is anonymous and the person I'm writing about doesn't know about my account nor that this site even exists, then its not going to get to back to...
19magic
Guru Age: 29 Is shyness a turnoff? How do I get over mine?
I’ve been an introvert my entire life. Over the past couple of years however I’ve become insanely shy. I won’t go into the details but a number of things have caused my self-confidence to kinda drop and I think that’s why...
rosebouquet
Xper 4 Age: 23 How to “fake” confidence?
I’ve reached a point in my life where my shyness is really becoming a hindrance. It’s a huge struggle to talk to people, even people I know. It’s ruining relationships and preventing me from starting new ones. I’m...
heyitsmemorgan
Xper 3 Age: 24 How do I either get the guy I like to call me or how do I initiate calling him?
I met this really cute guy, a while back, at let's just call it a convention with our school. Anyways fast forward to now: we have been texting each other back and forth a lot. Usually I text him first. However, on...
Anonymous
(25-29) I just wanna disappear?
So I met this guy and we have been texting. We went out together and it was horrible. I was so nervous and awk. I was stuttering and spilling drinks and food everywhere. There was a lot of awkward silence. It was...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can a social late bloomer catchup in dating?
I never really tried dating until my super late teen years. I was socially awkward all through high school.. It's only been within the last year or so I've had a few intimidate partners and dates.. I still don't seem to...
Trippycoolthangs
Xper 2 Age: 31 I'm a good looking guy whose shy how can I work on changing it?
Most of my life I've been in a shell due to bullying all the way from elementary school through high school. I had a few friends at best. And never wanted to leave the house. I'm 21 now and have a decent sized social...
Anonymous
(30-35) Overprotective mom?
I hate how she raised me. She over protected me all the time. I could rarely if ever play outside with the other kids, I couldn't walk to the bus stop by myself. I couldn't go over friends' houses or to birthdays. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Quiet Power and the Extrovert Ideal
Foreword: the following article largely based off of the book "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain, published in 2012. Page references are included throughout. There is a...
ChromAzonyx108
Yoda Age: 34 Girls, I'm an older guy starting college in September. How do I answer these questions without bringing up my embarrassing truth?
Why do people ask me such difficult questions about how many people I've dated and so on, when the only answer I can give is that I have mental health issues and a compressed childhood. The idea is to be honest, right?...
Anonymous
(36-45) Shyness is ruining my life?
Being shy is making me depressed. I really wish I wasn't so shy and anxious. I've came to the realization that I won't be able to live my life , due to my shyness/anxiety. I have so many stories but I'm not gonna do a...
AngiePark
Xper 4 Age: 29 Will I never have another girlfriend?
I think I got into dating too late in life. I had a couple relationships when I was younger, but nowadays I rarely date. I'm 35, so the girls my age are married, divorced, or have kids. I want to start a family some day!...
bDizzie
Yoda Age: 46 Girls please help me?
To start off with, I recently turned 19 years old. I've been told my whole life I'm a good looking guy and socially I've had people set high expectations of me. They either think i'm stuck up, confident and talkative, or...
TheJerseyDevil
Xper 3 Age: 30 How to make new friends and meet people?
So I like the ones I do have but I want to make more friends. The problem is I am deathly shy. I don't know how I have the ones I do now. My shyness has ruined my life. I'm done college, so I can't meet people there...
Cupcake2637
Xper 6 Age: 32 I don't understand his feelings. Please please help
There's been a guy in my college. I met him at a party and from the moment we laid eyes on each other I knew there was something there - we had a moment. I'm super shy so when ever he got close or came over I got über...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm Stuck on this Lady (Has BF) - Thoughts Gentlemen & Ladies?
There is this lady @ work, we'll call her Aly. Aly has a boyfriend. Is older than me, but young like I. She has a boyfriend, also has a *new born*baby. Note: Found out she had slept with someone from work, but seems...
ianm91
Xper 3 Age: 34 