Polls: Dating

In your opinion who is the better bad boy?
Dean the Hunter

Damon the Vampire

My ex used to always pressure me into drinking because he thought I would have sex with him more easily. (Honestly, if I did drink, I'd get really sleepy and pass out but, he said he'd still try having sex with me.)

Other guys I've talked to hate it when their girlfriend gets drunk. They think it's annoying because they have to watch out for her and refuse to have sex with her until she's sober.

So, my question is: Do guys like when their girlfriend get's drunk, yes, or no?

I never really considered it as an actual date per say but i'd like to get views of other people.

We all know single parents, both moms and dads, are discriminated against when it comes to the dating scene. Many of us single people will run into someone, have a connection, and chemistry, but once we hear the word 'kids', we run. But who gets shot down more?

Let's say there's a man and a woman, both are single parents, both have the same level of education, and say one kid each. Which of the two would have a more difficult time finding a quality partner?

he used to be a really fit athlete, but here's the last pic he sent me (i cut out his head and under the pic) and he's looking unfit. we haven't talked about it, but he's gained a lot of weight recently.

He died not that long ago. I miss him so much, and I keep seeing his brother everywhere. Literally. He looks so much like him. It's hard because I don't know if it's right to even feel this way but I've been having a lot of weird dreams with him in it since his brother passed. In fact it's actually kind of mind blowing that I've been having more dreams about his brother than him when he's the one I was in love with. I feel guilty about it because it's his brother. Obviously right now is not a good time to even consider that but I'm thinking maybe a couple years in the future who knows. I just don't know what feelings are right, and just when I feel like I'm being pulled into two different directions.

If you are a girl, choose the one you think guys like. I saw one research it says guys like girls the same height as them or slightly shorter but mostly date shorter girls cause shorter girls like them? I'm relatively tall, I'm 5 foot 8.5 and 14 years old and I sort of feel like a giant. Most guys are around my height so I was wondering. My brother told me it doesn't matter as long as they are shorter. My other guy friend said they prefer around the same height. This research said around the same height but my girl (friendzone area) friends said that that guys prefer a lot shorter and short in general which I don't have. Anyway, if it turns out they like around the same height, then I guess I will find a guy around the same height so that way he would like me for who I am. And if it's a lot shorter well, I'm screwed. Unless I can find a guy who is like 6 foot 2 or 3 lol. But if I can't then, i guess i will be the next cat women! :3 Anyway please state! :) oh and I don't really have any preference in my opinion. I mean I did have a crush on a shorter guy lol.

This includes appearance, approaching, attitude, manners, education, everything. Not just getting up the nerve to ask someone out.

I know that everyone has different opinions but I want to know your preference. do include the reason of your choice. thank you 💕

Would you ever find interest in a girl dressed in boy clothes and a girl with short hair? Think of it as if this person had a pretty attractive body and a cute face. To give you an idea of what I mean;

This question is really about whether you value beauty (thinness) or health (absence of illness). They are not necessarily the same. Someone who refuses to eat vegetables may eat an unbalanced diet, but because of a restrictive diet, that someone may be very thin.

"I thought dating was going to be the fun part, the easiest part... I was in for a mountain of rejections, but to be a guy I had to get out there...

"No, thanks"...

Simple enough, right? A brush-off. No biggie. But as I turned away and slumped back across the room toward our table, I felt like the outcast kid in the lunchroom who trips and dumps his tray on the linoleum in front of the whole school.

"Rejection is a staple for guys," said Curtis, laughing as I crumpled into my seat with a humiliated sigh. "Get used to it."...

[There is a] monumental power of female sexuality [that gives us an] immense advantage... over men. Dating women as a man was a lesson in female power... I saw... their superiority, their accusatory smiles, their entitlement to choose or dash me with a fingertip, an execution so... effortless, it made the defeats and even the successes unbearably humiliating. Typical male power feels by comparison like a blunt instrument, its salvos and field strategies laughably remedial next to the damage a woman can do with a single cutting word: no.

Dating women was the hardest thing I had to do as Ned... I have never felt more vulnerable to total strangers, never more socially defenceless than in my clanking suit of borrowed armour.

But then, I guess maybe that's one of the secrets of manhood that no man tells if he can help it. Every man's armour is borrowed and 10 sizes too big, and beneath it he's naked and insecure and hoping you won't see.

That, maybe, was the last twist of my adventure. I passed in a man's world not because my mask was so real, but because the world of men was a masked ball. Eventually I realised that my disguise was the one thing I had in common with every guy in the room."

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2006/mar/18/gender.bookextracts

Accurate for you?

I was at a tournament on my bf's birthday but I found out he got together with 5 of his guy friends and 3 girls because of a school project and apparently he barely knew the girls he invited to his house. Like they've talked before but aren't close at all.

One of his friends told me at the end everyone left but this one girl named Alyssa and I asked my boyfriend if it was true and he said she passed out and slept on his bed and I asked him where he slept and he was like "on my bed but we didn't do anything". I trust him but this feels like it could count as cheating? I think? Since he basically got in bed with another girl.

And I should mention that before this thing my girlfriends told me that he often looks at this Alyssa girl when it's just him and her. I never noticed him looking at another girl when he's with me but my friends say that when I'm not around he would look at her.

I was just wondering. Since I'm a tall girl! I'm technically 5 foot 8 but I'm closer to 5 foot 9. I know some guys don't like my height but I don't care about them! Some guys like tall girls. I also think that some short guys are super cute! I mean I like to say "Chubby chubby choooo" while squishing their cheeks (not the bottom cheeks lol) I don't really care about height but I was wondering who has it worse? Tall girls or short guys? (I wouldn't mind dating a shorter guy... just my parents would...)

I love my boyfriend to death, and I would do anything for him. And he's also my best friend, and I care about him so much. And I think about him all the time, and he sometimes is even in my dreams. I am crazy about him, but the thing is sometimes I forget I am w/ him. I've liked him for 3 years, & I've known him for 2 years. But we started dating almost 2 weeks ago. And I don't know why, I forget that I have a boyfriend sometimes. Maybe it has something to do w/ our relationship being new? I was single for about 6 months, before I started dating him & I was used to it for so long. And now that I'm dating someone it's different, but good different. I am extremely attracted to my boyfriend, I think he's so handsome but I just forget that he is mine.

Like sometimes I run into attractive guys, or I might spot one & I think "he's cute" or something like that. But I never talk to them or make a move, bc I realize I'm dating someone & I'm not the type to cheat.

Is this a bad thing? Yes or no?

She's clean and doesn't cheat.