Questions: Fashion & Beauty

If you don't understand what I am saying, what I am getting at here we all tend to have motivation whenever we are engaging in a hobby, or designing our homes or the type of style you want to wear. There are some people who mostly do these things because they actually have an interest in doing them despite knowing others doesn't think it looks good on them but that doesn't usually stop them from doing them.

While there are others who do want to appeal completely attractive to others especially for the opposite sex, so they do a ton of research and asking around to find out which hobbies, career, and clothing are considered the most beautiful for others. Sure these people might be putting to much pressure on appealing good but hey if beauty was either we all would be doing it and it wouldn't be that beautiful anymore. So ladies and gentlemen my question is when you trying to live your life do you usually do it because it something that you enjoy doing or because it considered the most attractive in terms of your specific gender? Me personally I would sometimes try to ask about certain things that might appeal attractive towards women but for majority of the time I just rather do or wear something because it's something I actually want to do. Like one thing I definitely wouldn't mind wearing is leather pants and a leather jacket, I know most people might not consider this to overly masculine but who cares I just really love fashion. But that is me what about you boys and girls how do you want to live your lives? by the way! The pictures doesn't have to do with the question but I am a black man who loves fashion and with the white girl usually women in bikini looks hot oh wait I guess it actually does relate with this question after all. 🤣🤣 But back on topic so which one is it ladies and gentlemen!

Now, in the US and Europe. Just your opinion. Thanks :)