Polls

she attractive?

Hinge has become a shitstorm

I asked this guy if “Craig” was his real name before going out… I didn’t feel like it was… on the date I asked him what’s the name his mother gave him… he’s not American… he said “we do have American names in our country “…. I asked him again and he told me…

So that wasn't his real name…. Is that worrisome? He didn’t want to tell me/ didn’t plan on telling me.

He didn’t even want me to know his real name
So he asked me what I “wanted “ relationship wise… I wanted to know what he was going to say so I let him go first. He said he wasn’t ready because he’s not where he wants to be career wise. So then he told me to go and I said the same thing.. because it was kind of true and I actually mentioned it prior…

He said..” noo you're just summarizing what I said “ and seemed a bit fustrated that I said it …

But what did he want me to say? What did he want?

My oldest is 22 but I didn't raise him. I was a teen mom. I was basically child free for years and then fell pregnant 18 years later.

Many days I looked back into my carefree peaceful and spontaneous life. Random naps, outings and most of all I did have peace and was a tiny bit happier.

And now here I am with my second child who has ADHD, ASD and ODD. And I'm miserable and wonder why I did this to myself. I always wonder would I be happier if I never had a second child or is it only because my second child has such awful fucked up and challenging behaviors.

Normal or not?