Questions

So I'm a 17 year old girl I got accepted to several colleges one is close and the other is far by 4 hours away. I am not responsible by any means and I completely rely on my parents, I have been trying to get a job, and I have been trying to learn how to drive but my dad doesn't want to continue to teach me because he's always tired from work, and I really love my family including my dog I literally can only be myself around them and i only spend time with them, the reason I want to go far is because I am Muslim I want to have the freedom to practice it and go to a mosque which I have never been able to go, I want to have a new start, and I have been through a lot of drama at home especially with my mother she constantly has been bringing me down, and yelling at me, and is very mean to me I even told her that she is the reason I want to leave and my parents tell me that going far away will be too hard for me I told my therapist this and she told me that the reason I don't get better is because of my parents and that How my mom treats me is mentally damaging to me anme that I should go and I don't know how it will actually be until I try. I'm not sure of the career I want to do I'm thinking maybe sonography but maybe pre vet if I go close , and another reason I don't want to go close is because my ex goes so that college. I'm sorry for all the ands I'm in a rush