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I've known this guy named Drew for almost two years. We actually work together (that's how we met) and he's been a sweetheart to me & there was chemistry between us from the get go. We had to remain friends at the time because we were both in serious relationships. I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago due to many issues. He broke up with his girlfriend 4 months ago for many issues as well. We got closer as friends and our feelings made it to the surface. We really like each other... A LOT but we both don't want relationships right now because we both want a break from the drama relationships can bring and to work on ourselves. I've asked Drew if he has feelings for his ex and he said he does not. The only thing he has is anger towards her because of the crap she put him through. It's the same for me with my ex. He put me through a lot of shit, I was angry at him for a while but now I'm over it.


However, when Drew and I had sex... It was amazing. We held hands during and after. We cuddle afterwards and he doesn't want me to leave. We both have admitted getting attached to eat other. Outside of the bedroom we are basically inseparable. We see each other three times a week (outside of work; he works in a different department so I don't see him anymore at work) we text and call each other every day. We actually go on dates in public with each other. We both know that we like each other. But today... Well first off I have the flu. He actually came by my house and brought me Gatorade, water and soup. I was amazed because no guy has ever done this for me. It was a really sweet gesture and it warmed my heart. It was 10pm and he had to get up early for work tomorrow but he didn't care. He wanted to bring these things to me and didn't want to wait. I live with my dad so he knew sex was not happening and respected that. When he left he gave me a kiss on the forehead because he was worried about catching the flu. So... Does he like me?

I’m not sure if this would be considered friends with benefits because we were formally coworkers but we worked for the same company but in different cities. He is a manager and I recently left the company for a new job. We have only met once. So we never really formed a friendship either. We have been texting a lot though to get to know each other and most of our conversations are sexual. Since he travels for work he said he would come here to see me and for us to have sex. All this only started after I resigned from the job which was almost 2 weeks ago. Is texting everyday too much? Is him coming here just to have sex with me too much? I feel like he is actually becoming more attached to me because he’s actually willing to come here to see me. And today he got upset about me lying to him about something little, but he told me I shouldn’t lie to him. If our relationship is just sexual why would me lying upset him? I don’t know how this type of situation should be