Search Results: insecurity in long distance relationship

Is our 4 year relationship really over? How do I make this right?

I stupidly ended things with my boyfriend Saturday night when I was drunk. We have been together 4 years and have been long distance the last 3 months . Its been hard and when I was drunk I msged him saying I couldn’t do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

This guy is insane or just playing mind games?

Been having a long distance relationship with this guy I meet through a mutual friend... its only been about a month- it was only suppose to be a play thing- phone sex- he told me he didn't want to be some random dude...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationship went too fast... how to start over?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I'm 19 and he's 21. we have very opposite personalities, he's very laid back, patient, and quiet, while I'm extroverted, impatient and a bit neurotic (he said so). we had to...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Dating

I liked guy - would have taken friendship or more.

I liked guy – would have taken friendship or more. Guy (I think) liked me – only really wanted more. We went out – twice. I was uncertain of our relationship and without talking directly, more by actions and comments...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

My boyfriend is planning to study abroad although he promised me not to before we got together

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months. We were from the same university, that's where we got to know each other. I was at the end of my 3rd semester, and he was in his last semester when he asked me to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people expect you to act like a typical young adult, when you're of those ages?

I'm in college, but the thing is, I was raised differently than most kids, and it kind of shows to be honest. a lot of older people think I'm mature for my age. and I dislike the way most people my age act and behave. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did he start the no contact rule?

I have been a long distance relationship for about 6 months and things were really good in the beginning. I went to visit him and I had a great time and I was really looking forward to going back. At times I would make...

lilcritt3

Xper 3 Age: 43

Currently having doubts in my relationship?

I've been with my boyfriend for over an year now. We always had small fights about silly stuff and some big ones too, which lead me to be suspicious of some things. Except that I'm suspicious of everything now, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get rid of my insecurities?

I've been through several relationships recently, both long-distance and in-person, and have found that a large part of their collapse was due to my insecurities. Insecurity about my physical appearance, about how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

One day left and I may have blown it?

I really need some advice. I've traveled abroad to spend time with my Girlfriend who I have been in a long distance relationship in for almost a year she is studying abroad and I came to visit her for a few weeks. Things...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Tired of being less than perfect, advice?

Sometimes when I come across a stereotypically pretty girl's Facebook page and browse all the comments she gets from guys, I get really insecure and feel like hiding under the rock because I know I will never be that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Long distance relationship advice?

My boyfriend. We will be dating a year in October. Before he met me, he was the type of guy who got around with the girls, if you know what I mean. He has been in a long relationship before with a girl for a year and a...

AnnDavis

Xper 5 Age: 32

Serious feelings, but distance is an issue. Tips and pointers?

I met a guy at a summer camp over a month and a half ago and we really hit it off. He lives over 11 hours away driving and about 2 hours away flying. At camp, we spent 24/7 with each other and were incredibly happy....

sweettangerine

Xper 5 Age: 32

Family & Friends

My best friend's girlfriend hates me, advice?

My best friend's fiance really dislikes me. Has anyone ever been in this situation before? Essentially my best friend's girlfriend has a lot of 'issues' peterning to my relationship with him. She thinks I'm out to steal...

heatherlu

Guru Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

Do all parents think their children are beautiful?

I suffer from extreme low self esteem- where sometimes I never leave my room for a whole day because I get depressed. I have issues with body image as I imagine myself to be plain or unattractive to men since I had no...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Need advice in my long term boyfriends feelings for me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We live together and are very much in love. The problem is I have some built up resentment towards him and its causing some distance between us. I was an emotional mess...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I think my boyfriend is about to break up with me...can I prevent it?

So, we've been in a LDR for about 3 years now. We had a "break" for a period of time, but were still in contact like we were together, while he was "trying to get over trust issues". We've officially been together again...

Anonymous

(36-45)