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When asking a girl out and she decides to reject you, which do you prefer?


1) Her being direct and honest with you

2) Her flaking on you several times when you arange dates with her until you get the hint she isn't interested.

3. Her ignoring your text messages when you bring up the idea and stop talking to you.

4. Her ignoring your text and then pretending she never got it.

5. Her lying to you about having a boyfriend, being gay or some other version to spare your feelings.

I know for a fact one of my guy friends is gay due to a couple of situations and other friends of his I know who have told me as much (who are also gay), yet he continues to pretend that he likes girls around me which is stupid. I have gay friends which he knows, I've gone to gay rights rallies with him, I have zero problems with gay people and I feel like, if we are friends, at least privately I should be able to just tell him I know he's gay and he doesn't have to hide it around me anymore. I would never out someone publicly, ever, and I've told him about other situations with friends who came out to me to essentially let him know, its cool, he can be himself, but it had no effect. Should I let him know or leave it alone?