Search Results: why guys don't make moves

So Sometimes, even if a guy is interested but has not been clear about it , he will get annoyed that i am asking him if he is interested. Why don't they understand it is for their benefit as much as mine? Also why is it not 'ok' for me to get clarification. I would understand someone wanting to know yes or no if i was being asked- -especially bc it will give the information needed to handle things appropriately.

For ex.

If a person I like turns out to NOT be interested, then I know to leave them be and i move on. This saves both of us time.

If they turn out to be interested, I know 'leaving them alone' might not feel that way- instead may will feel ignored , so I can be more careful of that.

If they are not sure, I am a patient person and i do not need things to happen immediately. I think its important to feel ready'. They will know I know they are not sure and then they do not need to worry if they do not do something quickly I will lose interest.

If there is some other issue, i am giving them a chance to talk about it without having to wonder if i even care..
I am not even talking about jerks or strangers. just guys i might otherwise think of as decent, but for some reason they get strange over just wanting to know yes or no. I am happy to answer that question if asked, i dont see why it makes people upset. Why would anyone want to not be understood and why does wanting them to have a chance before i move on, sometimes bother them? remember i am referring to guys who can be interested, not just guys who are not.