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me and my boyfriend had been dating for a year and 4 months. it was a long distance relationship but we made it work we texted EVERYDAY and talked on the phone every Saturday. we where both happy and I know this because he said it. we where MADLY in love we had NEVER gotten into a fight ALWAYS agreed on EVERYTHING we had our lives planned out because we where going to start it very soon, we had TRUE love...honestly. then this past Saturday we where going to meet in person for the first time (we had sent each other pictures; we only met picture to picture) we met at a park and we where both SO exited just minutes before we saw each other we had told each other we loved each other (no more than a half hour before). then once we met and saw each other and where standing in front of each other he stood about 6 feet away and I was almost about to cry out of tears of joy. I started shaking because I was a bit nervous. I slowly walked up to him til we where about a little less than a foot apart. then I asked him if he had found the park easy enough (just small talk) then 3 minutes later he said "just tell me one thing... why did you lie to me?" I looked at him confused. I NEVER lied to him id NEVER EVEN DREAM ABOUT HIDING ANYTHING FROM HIM I LOVE HIM! we talked about it and he just kept saying "i don't know if I can or can't believe you...i need to get my thoughts and feelings together...I'll go my way and you'll go yours so I can think about this" he had also said he was so depressed and heartbroken over this. we stood there talking about that for an hour and a half. I never even got to touch him (I thought that if I did what if he pushed my hand away and that would hurt me even more) he was only planning to visit for a week for my birthday that was on Wednesday. I also told him that if he still didn't believe a word I said to at least believe this... that I love him. he was staying with his aunt along with his mom out of town and originally was going to stay in a hotel somewhere in town where I live. I gave him his time that he needed. at the beginning of our relationship he had said "if we ever stop being in a relationship I still want to be friends with you" so I asked him before we parted that Saturday if we could still text or talk and he said "yea we can still talk but it might not be the same". he said he needed "a lot of time to thing this over" Sunday night came and I texted him just a few times (maybe 6 times) and he would reply but not saying much. then Sunday night he texted me saying "i thought about it and where better off being just friends" this broke my heart. I agreed I didn't want to lose him.

ever since we still text but he had said that it would be best that I don't call him (when I asked if I could still call him) I tried to have him come back (he went to stay with his family instead of staying in a hotel in town with me) he said he'd try, but didn't come.

BUT he still says that he's still thinking things over is there still a chance?

My boyfriend and I have been dating over 6 months. Our famous saying is "I don't get you". Because neither one of us understand the way we feel around each other. We dated 2 months before he moved about an hour away. because of our age we are unable to date. it is against our religion but we have been hiding it from our parents for 6 months. Last night I had to break it off due to the fact I knew it was wrong. I am best friends with his sister so that how I am able to see him and his family absolutely adores me. I have even been to the family reunion. But last night we both agreed apart of our hearts were with one another and that this isn't goodbye forever. We want to get back together when its time I guess my major question is IF you have connections with someone can you end up marrying them? or at least get back together?