How come my boyfriend gets mad if I visit him at work?

[livelaughlove86]

we've been together almost 4 years now and we recently just had a baby together he works as a manager at a store and it isn't busy at all he calls me like every 2-3 hours. and his family all come to the store and visit a little bit. but when I ask if it is ok that I stop by and visit for even 5 min he gets all bent out of shape. I ask him why he don't like me to come visit and he says because he has sh*t to do this is a very little store I've even worked there before for him it is so slow that all you have to do is stock the coolers for an hour and sweep and mop.. and he's always calling and complaining that there's nothing to do and he's slow and he's bored..it makes me feel like he's hiding me from some other girl.. but we live together and he don't have a phone and we are always together I don't see how he could make time for her... maybe some I can get a guys point of view?

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AND NOT TO MENTION WE ARE ENGAGED .. WERE GETTING MARRIED JULY 15TH

[thelittlethings]

WTF is with all the answers you have gotten? Good Lord. I expected some more along the lines of what I thought.

I would be annoyed too. I would absolutely LOVE if my man came and visited me at work. He can't because I build jet engines and missles for the government and everything is totally locked down and nobody is allowed in. And it sucks because I wish he could come visit. If he has flowers sent I have to go get them at the gate, they can't even be brought to me. I guess you don't realize what you're missing out on until you don't have it, because I miss it a lot. And for him to be bugged, rather than excited to see you, is really strange. I don't think he is cheating or anything, but maybe he is a bit more flirtatious or maybe he acts different at work, like more vulgar or something and he doesn't want you to see him behaving that way. I don't know why he feels this way, but I would also be bugged. You are not naggy. And I can't believe the one girl said if you're just dating cheating isn't a big deal... cheating is freaking cheating no matterf what! I don't know why, but it is weird he feels this way. It would hurt my feelings too. Have you tried talking to him about it?

[SUPERCHEERCHICK]

if your no married, its not like anythings serious, your boyfriend and girlfriend that's it, so cheating isn't a serious deal.

Its your fault for trusting him.

Also, maybe you shouldn't be that clingy, give him spacee.

[WeaponZero]

quit being so clingy. holy crap! leave the man alone when he's at work. if I had a girl who nagged me as much as you're nagging him id drop her like a bad habit. maybe when he's at work is is "me" time. he doesn't want to be with you 24/7. no sane guy wants to be with their girlfriend 24/7. get over it.

[livelaughlove86]

Lol first of all we live together, so obviously when he's not working we are together.. on his days off I like to visit my parents BY MYSELF but he won't let me because he wants to be with me.. maybe this retard needs to get more detail on stuff before he goes accusing.. I am not nagging my man its not like I want to hang out at his work.. and my man calls me about every hour while he's at work...helllloooo

[Anonymous]

I think he's p*ssed because he thinks you're nagging him. You won't even leave him alone when he's trying to pay his bills!

Back off. Show him some respect, and he'll give it back to you.