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When I logically lay out statistics and biology as to why promiscuous behavior is toxic to relationships and the individual, the default response is that men are insecure. My response to that is, what's wrong with having some insecurity? I don't know what guy who wouldn't be at least a little insecure dating a girl who has a huge sex history and reputation for putting out for almost anyone. Logically, it makes more sense that they have a higher chance of straying. It's only natural for those insecurities to arise at some point in the relationship, and to suggest that you're supposed to be entirely absent of this insecurity even when your girl has a strong history indicating a higher chance of infidelity seems irrational.

I think I have a unique understanding to the topic given that I've been on both sides. The thing is, I slept around a lot during my college years. I experienced first hand what it was like, and I can personally attest that it's very toxic. When I dated, and girls knew my reputation, I completely understood as to why they had trouble trusting me or if they didn't want to emotionally invest into me. I didn't shame them and force my lifestyle down people's throats expecting acceptance. That's very immature in my opinion.

But concluding, why is it a crime for a woman or man to feel insecure being with someone who statistically has the highest chance of cheating, or straying? Why would it be a crime to be insecure when you're wondering how you compare to his/her huge list? These are very natural responses to promiscuous behavior. No man or woman wants to imagine their life partner being fucked by a ton of strangers who didn't give a shit about them. No man wants to imagine his wife being used as a locker room story about her in her most intimate state. That's degrading.

If a man was sexually humiliated by women and posted on Facebook., YouTube etc would a woman ever be willing to date him. for example say a man was forced to do degrading humiliating sex acts, stripped naked and seen begging for mercy against his will by women and had the video posted on the internet.

I believe I'm one of these people, who actually find happiness in just being rich.

I still remember one of the teachers telling us, that we students in high school likely think, that as soon as we earn a lot of money or get rich, that we become happy in life - and that this conclusion is likely not going to be the outcome.

At some point I believed it myself as I had my ups and downs in life when I had enough money to live alone.

But time went on and I realized, that money is actually the source of my happiness.
But why money you might ask.
Well because that's the only thing that I can control in my life - as in how much I earn and how much I spend and what I spend it on. And as everyone knows big money can bring us around the globe.

For comparison women on the other hand - while I have 0 desire to control them or script who likes me - are out of my control. They either like me or they don't. So in the end I just let it go and focus on things, that I can actually have an influence on. Which is getting rich and having fun with whatever money can buy me.

Someone told me, that it's common for people to get sort of rich, then they get sad and just degrade down to being just financially stable and try to find their happiness otherwise.
I on the other hand am one of these folks, who actually will find happiness in life by being wealthy.
Now my question here is: Am I the only one?

A man's story about his open relationship that was heart wrenching, even though his spirit cried out in pain and protest obvious from the way it was written. He still continued the self abuse in the name of true love that his wife still loves him. The woman he was with seems like a monster. Utter horror was what I experienced when I tried to connect and look at him as a friend. The worst thing about it all was that he was doing it all in the name of feminism and when his selfless love is utterly degraded in the name of righteousness it makes me feel like life is utterly worthless.

I don't think any woman would be lacking in the emotional intelligence that allows them to wake up from such sustained torture. Many of my gender were raised without their emotional intelligence for the benefit of society to make them cold blooded fighters.

The story has made me lose faith in my own purpose as a living being. It makes me feel like life is such a horrible thing and curse the day it was created.