Recently I've been seeing A LOT! Of memes or jokes In general about shorter men, are not men.
I find It very degrading and It uspets me that It's not a highlighted issue because feminism right? Just "man up".
So let's talk about why It does not matter!
Preference.
We all have them, maybe you like blonde women, thinner women or maybe women with bigger behinds, or maybe girls prefer a taller guy with dark hair etc. As much as these preferences are normal and justified, they're a mere fantasy! As It's very rare we get exactly what we want!
I myself love dark haired men, who are tall yet ended up dating and loving a blonde haired man and I didn't care for his hair being a different colour I loved It how It was! That gets us to the next topic,
Relationships.
A girl or guy may fantasize about having a certain look! But In the end when you start liking or falling for someone, preferences seem to fly out the window, at least for me they do haha! When you're with someone you end up loving them for who they are whether they fit preferences or not, because as mentioned before these preferences are slightly cliche and a tad bit silly.
So just because a girl says she likes taller men, don't be put off because you're shorter, she may still end up dating you, More importantly when with her don't think "I wish I were tall for her" In most situations If you love one another, she would not want you any other way, and also we're born so our bodies are in proportion, If you were stretched I'm sure you'd look a tad weird!!!
Yourself.
If she won't date you simply because of height, she Isn't worth it anyway trust me when I say that, as she will be looking for her ideal man into her 40's too choosy women are not worth the hassle. Obviously you should date someone you're attracted to, never date someone who you aren't but personality can make that attractiveness level boost high into the sky!
It would suck If you met her preference but your personallites didn't click, I guess you can see It as an automatic filter for toxic women.
Conclusion.
So are you "less" Of a man because you're short? NO LOL! You still have a dick as far as I'm concerned! You'r personality could be way more manly and dominant then lets say a taller man! Which In reality outweighs height preference, I was once with a tall guy who don't get me wrong loved me! But his personality was nowhere near as dominant as his looks, so therefore we didn't really click :)
Obviously not every woman Is like me, and I should never generalise but I assure you unless you're going for a VERY high class ignorant rude woman, the majority of us will not be holding a clipboard and checking off the criterias you meet and do not meet!
Important note.
I'm not one of those libtards who scream "ONLY PERSONALITY MATTERS!" Of course not, be attracted to the person you're with sure! I'm just pointing out how big personality does actually come Into play when dating or looking for someone, More than you expect.
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