What influences some married men and married women to cheat on their significant other?

[bubblyanne]

[K4keeps]

I’m not sure. I tried to communicate, tried spicing things up, tried asking what’s wrong, letting him know I’m here he can talk to me, I just got reassurance things was fine. My gut tells me he had emotional connection with someone else, I have found a ton of things and he told me of one on his own which was porn which I ended up finding it is an addiction from what I have read. There’s so much more like a lot and I’m trying to get him to go see I guess a therapist cause it has been heart wrenching for me.

[Madlc]

You look like the blonde from 90210, If you remember that tv show!

[K4keeps]

Yes I remember that show.

[laurieluvsit]

Voids in emotional, sexual and spiritual aspects of the relationship and/or super high libido as well as fantasy inspired by watching a lot of porn can all inspire cheating.

[OlderAndWiser]

Opportunity/temptation, desire for immediate gratification, and failure to consider the consequences for their spouse. In other words, a lack of character.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[CriticalCatDad]

Selfishness boosted by friends telling them their spouse is the worst and that they should get with someone else

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, stepping into the tricky territories of love and betrayal, aren't we? 😉 As a relationship coach, I've had my fair share of stories about hearts wandering outside the marital lines. What makes some spouses cheat? Well, it’s usually not just one reason, but a cocktail of them. Emotional disconnect, physical dissatisfaction, or the thrill of something new can push someone into the arms of another. It's often not about lacking love for their partner but rather seeking something missing within themselves or their relationship. Let's not forget the allure of forbidden fruit; it's dangerously seductive. From my observations, communication, and keeping the spark alive are key to ward off any wandering eyes! Remember, it's all about diving deep into those emotional and physical needs, making your relationship an adventure that you both never want to leave. 😎💔🔥

[Finchie40]

Selfishness , cheating is a selfish act period

[DishLady]

I wouldn’t know, however it’s a wonder that someone with that propensity would bother getting married at all. It’s illogical.

[Nikki1989]

It is never an excuse, but something major is missing from their primary relationship.

[Benlovegs]

Cheating has nothing to do with anyone else buy yourself … I don’t believe you can only cheat in bed. Cheaters cheat friends, family and mostly themselves. Either you have morals and limits or you don’t. Flirting is one thing, but there has to be a self limit

[Anonymous]

Entitlement and poor self control. Same things that lead to drug and alcohol abuse. People give themselves permission to start.

[Anonymous]

People who feel valued by their partner, are sexually and romantically satisfied, and are grateful for their partner rarely cheat. Take from that what you will.

[jahaims]

They have unresolved trauma and use cheating to cope

[KrakenAttackin]

For women it's social media and their God-awful single friends.

[In_Trance]

They're not getting what they need from their current relationship

[Anonymous]

Sexual desire, poor communication, lack of feeling appreciated

[Anonymous]

Men, opportunity

Women, pretty much anything she can use to justify it.

[laly520]

being a bad person

[JHAYES317]

Dissatisfaction with their marriage

[FuqUFggt]

A really aggressive blowjob

[12345678910000]

Because the other is boring

[Xia1994]

It’s just.

[Xia1994]

Lust*

[Madlc]

We caught a cheater right here 🗣️

[Xia1994]

@Madlc you’re projecting your reality onto me 😳 so you’re cheating? Wow💔 cuz personally I have never cheated before I don’t think I can say the same for you after you’ve made such a comment towards me.

[Madlc]

Hmm I’m not the one projecting here since you said lust..
So, please stop🫸🏼 and confess your sins.

[Xia1994]

@Madlc I did I’ve never cheated before in my life on a guy I was in a relationship with. I’m also yeah it’s lust that makes people cheat that’s pretty self explanatory even I don’t have to elaborate further

[Xia1994]

And*

[Madlc]

Okay, stay loyal and don’t let the lust buds bite.

[Xia1994]

@Madlc you better heed to own advice as well sir 💯!

[OtterMan68]

Ego & lust

[Anonymous]

Lack of bj’s