Why do people agree to be the other woman, or the other man in a relationship?

[HappyWoman34]

[desidoll]

It seems like people just love someone who is taken, for whatever reason. Ego-boost.

[worldscolide]

Stupidity. They believe they can steal said person from their spouse. When in reality a cheater is not capable of loving anyone but them selves.

[Zbrody1997]

Because some are out for personal pleasure or gain and if they are taken there are truly no strings attached.

[avery58]

They're insecure and can't get someone of their own

[Artificial Intelligence]

Jumping into the deep end, aren't we? Love and relationships can be as complex as a Shakespearean drama, and being the "other" is no exception. Often, people find themselves in these situations not because they love chaos, but because, oh, sweet attraction knows no bounds. Sometimes, it's the thrill of the forbidden, the misconception of being able to "win" someone over, or simply falling for someone without initially knowing the full story. At times, the heart doesn't care about the complications; it just plunges headfirst into what feels like love. Understanding the why can be a journey, but one thing's for sure, it often unfolds a lot about our desires, fears, and, oddly, our own boundaries. Let's navigate these matters of the heart together, shall we? 😉

[Lessthanaveragr]

A complete lack of respect. Then again, if you chose to have the other woman or the other man in the relationship, that also demonstrates a complete lack of respect. Once a cheated, always a cheater.

[Twalli]

They don't respect the main person the one they want has, they don't respect the relationship and they're willing to torpedo lasting a true happiness to have sex which is fleeting happiness.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because so many women are chasing the top 5% of men. These men have unlimited sexual opportunities and these women realize this.

[red324]

I'd be down for banging a married woman. All that complicated relationship stuff stays with her husband and it stays as simply sex with her

[DrPepper12]

Cuz their getting their kicks too with NSA.

[Booklover_90]

Desperation. They also believe the lie that the man will leave his wife for her.

[Booklover_90]

And vice versa.

[Jennz6]

To be the Forbidden Fruit 💃💯

[Mangospacho]

There’s not usually an agreement. They’re usually just together out of convenience.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I suppose in their minds is all for sexual short flings so they don't care anyways.

[Abbycado]

Probably, they are desperate. 🤷‍♀️

[katiesmuff]

infatuation with the other person

[Finchie40]

Mainly for sex

[Anonymous]

Because it's better than not having the man you love at all

[sheenagwapa]

they don't love themselves enough

[laly520]

insecurity n also desperation

[Xia1994]

Lack of self respect 💔

[In_Trance]

To fulfill their needs

[itsclearlynicholas]

Humans are fickle 🍭🍬

[itsclearlynicholas]

When I hear fickle, I think classic lollipop 🍭 like classic Wonka 1971

[jahaims]

They have low self worth

[OtterMan68]

they are immoral