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So we've been texting nonstop for a month now, talked on the phone a handful of times and met up in person once. (Yea we had sex when we first finally met each other after a couple weeks, but the chemistry was FIRE! since we've been waiting so long to meet) We text each other good morning and goodnight EVERY day. And talk about how we can't wait to see each other. I asked him what he's looking for and he replied with "someone to relax, cuddle with. if something comes with it then id be ok with it. but not to rush into anything". Ever since we had sex he brings up how much he enjoyed it and just extremely flirty and sexual things. I dont want him to think that this is just about to be a friends with benefits type of thing.

So there's this guy, and we were dating for a couple of months but kind of decided it wasn’t really going anywhere romantically (tbh he wasn’t really ready for the bf/gf thing cuz he had just gotten out of a relationship when we got together) plus he didn’t really treat me the way you would a girlfriend respect wise. We were basically just really good friends throughout this “relationship” because he was never really affectionate and we didn’t go out much. But We enjoy each others company, we play video games, watch movies, eat good food etc. and yes we have sex.
When we broke up I wasn’t really heart broken because I expected it to happen. And he said we can still hang out and stuff and even have sex. The sex part was what through me off because I've never done a friends with benefits and kind of always viewed sex as a sacred thing you do with someone you love (which i already broke because i dont love him in that way)
I guess I was just trying to force something that wasn’t there and dont want to be viewed as “trashy” but I also like the idea of being friends because i just wanna focus on school and not date seriously till I graduate. So what should I do? Explain why.