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Okay, so I met this guy about a year ago. He's a real sweetheart. We have only seen eachother in person but when we were together, he followed me around like a puppy dog. We met at his brothers bonfire party. The first day I met him, we hung out the entire time. Talked about quite a lot. He even showed his sensitive side by confiding in me about his ex whom just recently left him. About 5 months passed before I saw him again. But as soon as I got to the party, he ran right up to me and acted as if we hadn't missed a beat. He's your typical country boy. Works full time managing a farm. Drives the box body trucks. Dresses in blue jeans, flannels, and work boots. Im into this type of thing! lol thats why I am telling you. Now my question.. He wants me to go hang out with him this weekend and wants me to be his date to his friends birthday party. I find myself really attracted to this guy in more ways then one. But the thing is, I am scared shitless. He is the only guy who has ever been able to break down this wall I've had built up for years. Everytime I hear his text notification come through my phone, my heart instantly starts pounding and I get the biggest smile on my face. And then, I find myself waiting around for him to text again. Here's where it gets tricky, I have heard nothing good about this guy. Everyone tells me to watch out. he's not good for me. He has an attitude problem. He will hurt me. Etc. But yet, to me he doesn't seem to possess any of them qualities. He even gets upset with himself when they is any slight indication that he may have upset me. What should I do?

My crush knows I startle easily and he loves to sneak up behind me and give my shoulders a quick squeeze, like "gotcha!". He also used to give me hugs from the back where he'd drape himself over me and my chair like a blanket and slump his whole weight on me. Now when we hug it's a really long, tight front hug that he doesn't seem to want let go of. We have never made out or had the chance to kiss yet but he did kiss my cheek once in school.

We see each other before and sometimes after school. He knows my schedule and likes to surprise me between classes. In the one class we share he stares at me with goofy eyes or last week he was taking my pen and playing mumblepeg with my hand, like the pen was a knife. He did this for a long time while our friend watched. I think our friends know we have some undefined something because my crush gets really mad if any other guy tries to sit next to me or talk to me if he's talking to me. Not like raging mad, but pretending to be raging, and yells things like " how dare you try to talk to her!" and marks me as his territory.

We texted a ton all summer but that stopped some the first week of school but he texted and messaged me on FB at nine on Saturday morning to ask me for a mutual guy friend's number. I didn't have it and he could've asked any other of our friends for it. So then we talked a while and later he jumped on FB to message me the second I was online.

He suggested that all of our friends go together to a street fair that's a month away. Is this a date of some kind? He's been even flirtier than usual since school started. He used to be sort of like vaguely sexual and just talk about sex acts in general or sing "pussy, pussy, marijuana" in front of me, but now he is more direct and the sex stuff is about me. He asked me to sit on his lap. I just blushed. Last week I got caught in a rainstorm walking to school and my clothes were drenched so I was (stupidly) said "I'm SO wet!" and he says it's bc of him!