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I have 2 Facebook accounts, and yes he's on both of them. Please read before you assume things. I used to be super active in online chatrooms so I decided to make 2 Facebooks, one for my online friends, and one for my family friends. No I'm not hiding anything, I just like my privacy. When it comes to online people you can't trust everyone, I've had a guy try to track me down before and that's the main reason of my paranoia. And hence why I have two accounts. My boyfriend can't seem to respect my privacy. He tags me in everything. I understand he just wants to show me off but you dont need to put it on public. I asked him over and over to switch it to only friends can view and he refuses. Once he tagged both of my Facebook and I warned him if he does it again I'm going to have to block him. The funny thing is, he's always wondering "how do they know this or that?" And I tell him cause you put your shit on public and he still refuses to private it. He said he'll protect me if anything happens, he lives 2Hrs away 🙄. Honestly I think he wants his ex girlfriends to see it, he won't own up to it and it's ok but i just want him to really respect my privacy and he dont seem to care. Do you think I should just block him on one of my facebook page?

I know most of you will say you dont believe in leagues but we’re going to discuss it anyways. If i’m being 100% honest, if i feel someones out of my league, its likely because i dont see myself working to get to their level. For example, if i got all dolled up and Brad Pitt took me on a date, I’d end it with “I had a great time but you're so out of my league.” I say that because 99% of the time, I’m going to be dressed in sweats and walking around with that “i just woke up” bed hair 😂 I’m not willing to make the efforts to get on his level in the long run, so I may as well say he’s out of my league, send him on his way, and save him from my lack of efforts since I’m not willing to change. Now lets say, he likes me for the tomboy i am. Its happened before. But i dont fully trust they’ll stay happy. I liked this guy Robbie in college. He was 9/10 gorgeous. Dude looked like a model but he liked plain jane ole ME. However, I overheard comments he made to other guys about how cute he found the girls covered in makeup and wearing dresses. It was clear that my lack of efforts to appear more feminine would mean that I’d never truly be enough for him. So why waste my time if i refuse to be that girly girl that he would find MORE attractive in the long run. So i quit pursuing him 🤷‍♀️ I had an ex who told me “youre too much” and literally followed up with the fact that he didn't want to get a job and do his part in the relationship. He said he wanted to let his parents take care of him as long as possible so that he could sit around and play games all day. See he wanted me to stay but that warning was a way to save me from himself. I say take it with a grain of salt and see the statement as a compliment rather than just someone being insecure.
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When my boyfriend and I started dating I asked him how many girlfriends he had before me. His answer was 1. Later I found out there was someone else. When I asked him how many girls he kissed he told me 5. I feel that its important to know your partners past because that way no one can say shit to you that you dont already know. 2days ago I found out he had so many more gfs and claimed yo not remember any of them which is bullshit. He responded by asking if I remembered every boyfriend or all the people I kissed.. which I do actually. He got more upset for me and said any person would think I am overreacting. But he never ever wants to speak about them or anyone in his past and when he does it is ow clear that he lied/lies about them. DO I HAVE A RIGHT TO FEEL HURT HERE? I dont even believe him about how many women he has slept with either. So how can I trust him when he has been lying to me for 8 years. He says everything before me doesn't matter.. but to me it does. WHAT DOÈS ALL OF THIS SAY ABOUT HIM. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME...