Why does my boyfriendkeep his phone on "do not disturb"?

[Southerngypsi113]

Before me and my boyfriend got together he used to always have his volume turned up on his phone. He used to blow my phone up. Now that we are at a year mark since we have made things official he has totally switched up on me. (Let me note, me and him have been best friends for over 10 years! he's chased me that long) so I'm confused why someone would waste time and make someone fall in love with you , just to break them down. I used to trust him now I dont so much. My gut feelings never lie to me and I know somewhere he's slipping, he NEVER texts my phone anymore, I will send him 100s of texts and if u scroll through them you want see but maybe 1 that says I love you at the very beginning of the list. He keeps his phone on silent around me and it now has a lock on it. he's always around me so I dont think he's cheating, but he's a compulsive liar when it comes to porn. (Which he will sit right in front of me & watch it!) Disrespectful asf! But he says he loves me and can't lose me.. i need some advice...

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of problems that I see here from reading this. The communication isn't as solid as it was originally.

Why haven't you said any of this to him? And if you did, what was his response? Has he communicated or attempted?

You say that he is playing games but you mention that you were letting him chase you for 10 years...

Does he hide the phone or angle it away? Chances are than not that there's something going on.

As for the porn situation, that's a whole can of worms.

[chHaynes]

That sounds like he's cheating on you cuz if he were to trust you and he don't want to lose you he wouldn't have his phone on silent I get to have your phone a lock screen everybody needs their privacy but the kind of stuff that you're saying he's doing sounds a lot like he's stepping out on you he's cheating on you basically I would have him take a lie detector test

[Walamagicc]

It could simply mean nothing. But if he’s decreased in texting you, I would consider this a sign of cheating

[Mijopapii215]

So you don't look at it to see all the girls he is sexting with.

[killerboots]

Use your gut feeling because it's usually right but at the same time, use logic to catch him slippin

[Avicenna]

That’s a legit question only he can answer

[Iron_Man]

Don't put up with his kind

[ManHater]

get some help professional.

[portlandjason]

Because he does not want to be disturbed...