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Soo since i'm going back and forth on what I want to do I am asking you guys what i should do lol.

My story:
I have been on dating sites for at least 3 years on and off, all I've got was thirsty and shitty people, however I have met some decent people and the odd time I do meet good people. I've been on dates and they all didn't go so well, most guys wanted to hook up or weren't "ready for relationships" . I am at the point where I want to give up on these dating apps. Some people have told me the one will come when you least expect it, aka take a break from dating apps. others have told me still be on them but have less expectations etc. I've installed and uninstalled dating apps so many times and whats keeping me from installing it is curiosity.

I am almost 25 and have no dating experience. I hear feedback either along the lines of being too picky or just having bad luck. Everyone says love finds you, so why hasn’t it found me? Don’t say that I’m still young because there are women who marry their high school sweetheart and stay together indefinitely.

I was chunky in my teens and have lost a good amount of weight, almost 80 lbs. I have maintained it for a year and do my best to look good. Yet, I’m never approached by guys. I don’t think I’m ugly and have been complimented throughout my life a few times. I feel like I’m doing wrong or men don’t find me attractive. Must I say, dating apps do not work for me.

I know a lot of men use it for sex but I hear a lot of relationships that have formed from them too. I meet women who dumb their ex boyfriends and these guys were wrapped around their fingers. I wish I had the power and control to have a man desire me that way.

When I do attract guys (rare rare occasions), it’s ugly guys. I know I’m no model or beauty queen but are decent looking men repulsed by me too? Oh, I don’t have any friends by the way.