Make a woman happy today!

[Nadim171]

Today is a usual normal day, not a special holiday but why don't you try to make a woman happy today, women are so valuable and beautiful and just one women's day in a whole year isn't enough to tell them how grateful we are for them. So here are a lot of ideas to be useful and good to women today! For me it would be tomorrow since today is already over.

Obey your female teacher/boss

If you're a student like me and have female teachers, obey them, work hard in class and participate to impress them and offer to do extra work. And if you have female bosses at work offer to do your work quickly and carefully and never complain about her decisions. You will see your teacher or boss smile!

Be chivalrous

NOT BECASUE WOMEN ARE WEAK but because you want to show them how much you appreciate them, you can hold the door for a random woman, give your seat in public transport, hold a female friend's bags for her. They will appreciate this.

Please your wife/girlfriend

If you're living with your girlfriend or have a wife you can wake up earlier than her and make her breakfast and bring it to bed, or clean the house instead of her, and if you arrive before her you can wait when she arrives and give her a foot rub and let her rest or surprise her with dinner! Show her how thankful you are for her to be in your life.

Help your female coworkers/students

If you're at school and have female fellow students offer to do their homework instead or copy things from the board for them, or even take a punishment instead of them. And if you see they're bullied defend them even if that means you will risk your life. And help your fellow coworkers or stay extra hours to replace them and do their work for them.

Help a homeless woman

If you see a homeless woman in the street don't necessarily give her money but offer to give her a drink or take her to a restaurant. Show her that someone cares about her.

Tip a female waitress

Give a female waitress a big decent tip and let her know that you're thankful for her service

Give your turn to a woman in a line

If you're in a long line give your turn to a woman.

Visit/help your mom

Your mom is the first woman you meet in your life and the one who raised you. So it's important to thank her for that and for accepting to take the pain of giving birth. All for you.

Offer a woman a ride

Offer your female neighbor/relative/friend a ride for them to not get tired

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I wish more women would see this myTake and make them smile :)

[Mickey9999]

Old or old fashioned so be it. I think this is sweet. You will however run into women in your future that won’t appreciate you for you or your kindness and appreciation of women. That’s sad and unfortunate. I hope you can overcome it and be true to yourself. Just remember that your kindnesses should be returned with kindnesses. Most of the men responding are talking about women that just accept the kindnesses and don’t reciprocate. It shouldn’t be left to scorekeeping but a true lover will want to make you happy a priority.

[Anonymous]

Some of these are too much, but some are very nice! I see you’re only 14. I hope you don’t become bitter, women hating sexists like most of the men here.

[englisc]

Guys who are like this are actually usually the ones who end up becoming bitter misogynists later on funnily enough. This is a future "nice guy". Being a nice person is a good thing, but being a kiss-ass is not and women don't respect such men. Then these men get angry at the fact that women don't fancy them despite them being so "nice".

[Nadim171]

Thank you so much! I would never be like the sexist woman hating men on here, never!

And I am not a misogynist, stop with it. The only women who don't respect men who don't abuse them are the women who have no respect for themselves and tolerate sexism. And I would never think of dating a woman like that

[Opinion Owner]

That’s exactly why I said I hope he doesn’t become like that and told him some of the things he listed were too much. The hate can destroy you, and I don’t wanna see such a sweet boy hurt in the future.

The thing with guys like him is that they come off as fake to women once they’re older. We always assume they have a secret agenda, and we label them as weak because they’re willing to do anything just for some p*ssy. Comes off as desperate and pathetic. But now that I’m seeing this coming from such a young boy, I’m thinking maybe it isn’t an act. Or maybe it still is, since I’m sure it’s been years since he started developing an interest in women. I dunno. I guess it would depend on if he’s this nice to men and this mytake simply happened to be about women.

[Nadim171]

When I do nice things to women it's really not for p***y. I'm not a sex addict. I am nice to women because I feel like they're very unaooriciated and disrespected. Especially in countires like mine (Egypt) so I try to be useful and help them. I don't let hate influence me, I do what I do because I beleive in it

[englisc]

That's the thing, he's not as nice to men. Why do you think he says "I'm nothing like these other misogynistic men" - it's "look at me I'm so much better than these guys". That's literally the way nice guys think, that's their approach to dating women. They think that if they kiss ass enough they'll get the girl.

Now it might be genuine, often the guy isn't just trying to get laid, but women will still as you say always view it in exactly the same way: you won't respect a man who wants to kiss your ass to get you.

[englisc]

Nadim, you can be nice and respectful towards women without treating them as though the Sun shines out of their asses.

[Opinion Owner]

He simply said he’d never be like the men I referred to. I don’t think that was him hating on every other man. And he does seem to have a very good reason for treating women extra special. Lmao

But, in general, I would agree with you, Englisc, on how women should be treated.

[Nadim171]

@english with all due respect, no offense but women your type, who like sexist men who think they're stronger and better than women wouldn't date me because they think respecting women Is weak. But I don't care, that's why I tend to prefer more dominant women.

I've seen women being more on my side than most men due to the way I think, and everything i say i truly beleive in

[englisc]

Nowhere did I say that men are better than women. Stronger? Well yeah, that's basic biology. Common sense. This still doesn't mean that men are "better" than women though.

What I'm saying is that there's a big difference between respecting women and kissing a girl's ass, but you seem to think they're one and the same.

My girlfriend is a strong woman. Very opinionated, assertive, confident. She doesn't take any shit. She wouldn't be with me if I didn't respect her. I also don't have to be her bitch to do that.

Some women might be more on your side because this stuff mostly sounds nice. Like I said being nice isn't bad - but being overly nice usually does nothing but put people off of you for the reasons this girl mentioned above.

Let's just see how it works out for you as you get older. You're young so you have some silly ideas just as most people including myself did at your age, you don't get it yet. But you'll eventually realise that I'm right here.

[Opinion Owner]

Yea, it won’t work out to well for him, most likely. I just find it so cute, still. I remember those days when I was all naive and hopeful about men. Good times...

[Nadim171]

Well, most women like me more than men generally speaking, I mean women in normal life like relatives, old women, young women. And I only had one girlfriend on the internet but we were almost as close as in real life and she liked my views on women. I don't think I would change.

[morrowlow]

maybe these men that you talk about only hate YOU because of your attitude and not all women

[AircraftCarrier]

@englisc englisc I don't fully agree with you but I am definitely suspicious of Nadim171's beliefs.

[EdouardGaudette]

@morrowlow pretty sure you're right

[FeministDestroyer]

its actually a girl lol

[michael45]

I bought my girlfriend Starbucks today and it made her smile. I love seeing her light up. Bought my mother some flowers as well. The women in my life mean a lot to me and I show that all the time.

[GD360]

Your only 14 and you're already better then most men way older then you just by having that mindset. 👍

[Nadim171]

Thank you so much!

[FeministDestroyer]

Its a chick... posing as a dude

[Unit1]

"Obey your female teacher/boss"

I already do that every day... So like what? I'm making women happy already? That's easy.

"Be chivalrous"

Paying for a woman's time and presence isn't my thing (unless its an erotic massage or prostitution because i actually do get something in return) because i love splitting the bill and equality. I Call it having modern Mutual respect.

"Please your wife/girlfriend"

Who?

"Help your female coworkers/students"

Already do.

"Help a homeless woman"
"Tip a female waitress"

I'm practically homeless myself. Not without shelter but i "live" in a poor country unfortunately. This country is Not my home. I'm not in Germany. People are poor here!

"Give your turn to a woman in a line"

Equality. I'll give anyone a turn in line if it's fast and i have a full basket of groceries.

"Visit/help your mom"

I don't keep in touch with toxic people or bullies. She got almost all that she wanted but at the same time it's not what she wanted to have. Now its my turn.

"Offer a woman a ride"

No drivers license. No vehicle.

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I don't know what to say. Some women are happy. Some women are never happy. Some women are good, some females are trash. As a man you have to make a choice: To get involved with a woman or not. Alternatively a man can turn MGTOW but that comes with quite some nasty and potential risks.

[Nadim171]

You don't have to do all of them, just do even one of these

[Unit1]

That's too easy... Yet there are females out there, who like being grumpy. 😑

[Kiran_Yagami]

These range from stuff you should already do to outright stupidity. This is a dumb list.

"Obey your female teacher/boss"
Duh. I want to keep my job.

"Be chivalrous"
Chivalry is dead. Women killed it. I would never do anything for a woman I wouldn't do for a man.

"Please your wife/girlfriend"
Duh. I want to keep my wife/girlfriend.

"Help your female coworkers/students"
They can do their own work. They aren't helpless. I would never do anything for a female coworker/student I wouldn't do for a male.

"Help a homeless woman"
Hell no. I'll point her to the nearest job fair.

"Tip a female waitress"
Hell no. I'll tip her based on the merit of her work, just like I would a man.

"Give your turn to a woman in a line"
Hell no. Her time is not worth more than mine.

"Visit/help your mom"
Duh. I like my mom.

"Offer a woman a ride"
You should NEVER give a stranger a ride, period. That is outright dangerous. Everyone can be dangerous, men and women alike. Never expose yourself to danger, or potential danger, just to give yourself the feelgoods of being charitable. No one is charitable when they're dead.

[Nadim171]

Duh. You didn't read, because I said give your friend/relative/coworker a drive. Someone you already know

[Investigator]

Is there any particular reason to "make a woman happy"? Are we talking about any particular woman or just any random woman, and it is because there's something notable about her or BECAUSE she's a woman.

Between all the gynocentric social movements in the West, the predisposition to favor women in the legal and academic system, and the general trust of women no matter what they do, I think we appreciate women enough. Are you gonna make a "Make a man happy day" post to balance this guff out or is this take just one long collective ass-kissing?

As an aside, I love how this is filed under "Guy's Behavior", because apparently it is men who are solely responsible for not appreciating women enough and not also other women.

[Nadim171]

I won't do a make a man happy one because as I see men get what they want. Yet if I see a homeless man or a man bleeding to death in the street I will help him... if defending women's rights is "ass kissing" consider me an ass kisser

[Investigator]

"I won't do a make a man happy one because as I see men get what they want."

Normally I would ask "where have you been the last 5 years", but 5 years ago you would have been 9, which puts you in elementary school (you're 14 now, which means--since the academic school year just began--you are currently either in the 6th or the 7th grade). As such, let me posit you this inquiry: what is your experience with women and girls? How many interactions with the opposite sex have you had, outside of your immediate family and/or school environment? How do you see men and/or boys your age interact with said women and/or girls and what is the result of that interaction?

"if defending women's rights is 'ass kissing' consider me an ass kisser"

I don't think you understand what "women's rights" are: treating women like people is a basic decency, sure, but what you're advocating for here is to put women on pedestals and prostrate yourself before them on account of their gender and for seemingly no other reason. They haven't done anything to deserve this kind of special treatment, other than being born the opposite sex; getting a trophy simply for existing is not an accomplishment. Think about what you're doing/saying and then ask yourself if you are in need of a course correction.

[White-American89]

Dude quit putting the Pussy on a pedestal.

[Nadim171]

Stop being sexist just for the sake of it. You like pissing off women for absolutely no reason. Instead of harassing women and telling them to "make you a sandwich" try to do something useful to them

[White-American89]

Treating women differently due to their gender is sexist ie pussy on a pedestal.

[Nadim171]

LOL.

[White-American89]

Sometimes you gotta take the pussy off the pedestal, dust it down and just fuck it.

[Nadim171]

I don't undertand what you mean by "on the pedalist

[White-American89]

Pedestal
noun
1.
the base or support on which a statue, obelisk, or column is mounted.
"a bronze bust on a marble pedestal"
synonyms: plinth, base, support, bottom, bed, foot, substructure, mounting, platform, stand, foundation, pillar, column, pier; podium, socle
"a bust of Shakespeare on a pedestal"
2.
used in reference to a situation in which someone is greatly or uncritically admired.
"it's as if I'm on a pedestal and he worships me—I hate that"
synonyms: idealize, exalt, lionize, heroize, aggrandize; look up to, respect, hold in high regard, think highly of, have a high opinion of, hold in admiration, admire; esteem, revere, glorify, adulate, worship, hero-worship, adore, reverence, venerate, deify
"at an early age one puts one's father on a pedestal"

[Nadim171]

So I should stop respecting women. No thanks.

[White-American89]

Believe me your future wife wants her pussy disrespected rather than gathering dust on the shelf

[Nadim171]

No, I don't like this kind of women so they won't be my wife in the first place

[englisc]

Yeah I don't know what's wrong with many guys on these site, they're complete pansies.

[White-American89]

@englisc Yeah, he wants a woman who doesn't want to be fucked.

[Nadim171]

I didn't say that, yet I don't want a woman who wants me to disrespect her. I used to beleive we didn't need feminism anymore. Until I met people like you on this site

[White-American89]

Even the feminists want their pussies to be abused

[Nadim171]

Go to a feminist March and ask them. Good luck with that

[DDpsy]

Indeed, if this guy is really 14 he will get eaten alive in the next few years. Freaking sad.

[Nadim171]

I am, and if I'd get harmed by anyone it would be either by muslims or men like you. And I'd be glad to get harmed for defending women's rights so that's not an issue

[daliah]

@Nadim171 can you please stop talking badly about Muslims and bringing them up for no reason? You're supposed to be an educated boy you always speak about sexism but what about your islamphobia? I get it that Arab Muslim men suck I knew tons of them trust me I do but when you bring up a religion for no reason just to attack it is not good at all. There are people who are good and unlike the rest of them so we don't like to be associated with them under a bad label. I have seen you do it so many times so please stop it. Besides all or most Arab men ain't sh*t not just Muslims it's more of a cultural thing than religious. You know the history of Arabs right? You do realize they were even worse before Islam. They were always like this, actually even worse they were like animals. So if you're gonna use a label use the label Arabs because it is what this is about it's their culture and history that make them the way they are.

Just wanted to point this out not attacking you.

[Nadim171]

I promised before to not get involved in religious debates on G@G. But If you don't mind I will explain to you in DMs. Saying they were always like that is incorrect.

[White-American89]

@daliah To be fair I think the asker is a persecuted minority in a Muslim country.

[daliah]

@White- American89 has he ever been persecuted personally or did he just hear that Christians are persecuted in Muslim countries? If he has been persecuted then I'm truly so for that I wish that some Muslims can stop being assholes and ignorant pos.

However just because a group of people did something to you doesn't mean that the entire community is bad. That's what I keep telling my fellow Muslims who generalize all western people to be biased and hateful toward Muslims I tell them to not judge an entire population by a small group and also remember the ones who are actually nice to you, cause we humans tend to only keep track of the bad in people but always forget the nice deeds and gestures.

Again Nadim I am truly sorry if you're ever been mistreated just simply for being Christian but I promise there are many of us Muslims who never discriminate anyone based on their religion or beliefs.

[PrettyRegular]

I partly agree. Women are beautiful and special. Some things I think went overboard in this take. I don't often go to restaurants, but I wouldn't give a tip based on gender and also all homeless should be helped. Also the school thing wasn't right, because homework is for learning and she couldn't learn if you copy for her. I would probably help, if somebody gets bullied, but obviously I wouldn't risk my life. Also it's too much to do somebody's work for them. Otherwise good points and it's important to make women happy.

[Nadim171]

You're right about the homework one, it was a mistake. As for the homeless yes, but I mean in context of helping women.

[PrettyRegular]

Yep. I think women are smart and cute.

[Nadim171]

That's so true

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Good myTake, some positivity we needed!
I already make plenty of women happy every day, sometimes at my own expenses.

[Nadim171]

That's great! Thank you!

[clonesclone]

God this is pathetic.
1. Women are constantly pandered to like this literally every day of their lives.
2. 99% of women are ompletely worthless and don't deserve to be treated like they're special.
You are enabling the cunt behavior of modern females with this attitude. Also, it's not going to get you anywhere, so give up if that's your goal.

[ShadowofRegret]

Good take!😉

I try to do things like that, not because of wanting sex as others have suggested (the women I have interacted with can vouch for me,) but because it makes me happy to put a smile on a lady's face (young or old.)

Keep on doing what you're doing, but a warning though, some women might be suspicious, try to take advantage of your kindness, or even lash out at you, and sometimes it can be kind of hurtful, I think it is a good thing to do what you are doing, but just be careful.

[Guanfei]

Sorry, i'm not a fucking submissive soyboy. If a woman wants me to make her happy, she has to deserve it.
Women aren't all queen, and many of them are pretty shitty persons.

[Nadim171]

I don't really get what the fuck is wrong with G@G men, You ain't a fucking submissive soyboy when you're kind to a fucking woman.

[Guanfei]

What you ask there isn't being kind. It's just being a carpet for people who did nothing than just having a vagina

[LinkxPeach]

I really don’t know how to obey my female teachers/bosses, be chilvarous towards them, I don’t have a significant other to please because I never really dated a woman before, normally I don’t have any money to give to homeless women is because I’m broke and not employed, I don’t own my own house/apartment so I really wouldn’t be able to visit my Mom, I don’t know how to help my Mom, and I really don’t own a car to drive my female friends around.

[LinkxPeach]

In other words, I really wouldn’t know how to make a woman happy.

[Nadim171]

First of all just obey your boss and do what she says. And help your coworkers

[LinkxPeach]

Yeah, but I’m not employed.

[hansukota]

I will be honest, I'm inspired. I definitely will try some of these today

[Nadim171]

Thank you so much!

[hansukota]

I did it and it made me and her smile so.. Thanks fr the inspiration😊☺

[Nadim171]

You're welcome!

[LeeLadDaBadLad]

I dont have any issues with treating women nicely and respectfully however if they treat you badly in return or take you for granted then you have every right to stand up for yourself and avoid that negativity

[Anonymous]

dude you're so lame. women wouldn't mind taking advantage of you if you're willing to treat them like that. you're going to be one of those losers who marry a single mom and have to stay home and look after the woman's kid while she's out cheating on them. i just hope you grow a pair when you grow up

[Nadim171]

No, some women are dominant by nature and don't need to cheat.

[TonyBologna25]

A human being doesn't deserve special treatment because of their gender.

[MarkRet]

I do a lot of these things anyway, except breakfast. I can't stand cooking.

[Sweatyotterr]

I will pass women don’t deserve special treatment just for being women

[Landshrk0068]

You are going to grow up and get crushed by reality.

[El_Heffe]

I am happy to see that all of these set goals are what I do in daily basis.

[Apple1996]

Ok but tomorrow has to be make a man happy day

[Nadim171]

Men are already happy, but of course you can make a mytake about it!

[Apple1996]

There are some unhappy ones out there

[TonyBologna25]

A lot of men are unhappy, given the fact that commit suicide a substantially higher rate than women.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Nadim171 nice delusion. Of course i am not surprised because it's coming from a beta white night who just want to get laid.

[Nadim171]

alright man, and knight*

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh you would know and you are one.

[TonyBologna25]

@Aiko_E_Lara He’s 14 sir. Get a grip.

[FeministDestroyer]

@Aiko_E_Lara whats funny is it is actually a 14 year old girl posing as a boy XD

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@TonyBologna25 So what about that thing I said? Doesn't matter if he's 14 but if that bothers you, maybe you should get a grip.

[DamnCurtis]

I do this every day. It’s called being a good human being.