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i think most Mothers are unable to help their sons about dating and finding a girlfriend. She can't see things from his perspective and she can't objectively help it. Girls most of the times simply function different from mothers and mothers seem to have forgotten it completely or how it was when they were at that stage of life.

i heard there are many fathers, who also can't teach their sons how to find a girlfriend.
and the worst of all is that these sons may resort to pick up on some boastful picking up women courses, that apparently sell so well.

I've come across a lot of women in my life and I'm easy to talk to so they tend to open up and share personal details of our lives. In addition, I have a lot of female friends in my circle and have good insight into picking up on human behavior.

One thing I've notice is that a lot of girls who have issues with their dad, whether their dad left the family when they were young or they just had a poor relationship (aka resent him), often tend to be heavy alcoholics. I've also notice that said girls tend to be party girls and easy picking for fuckboys/players.

For example, I once knew a girl who just finished college and wanted to party her ass off before she officially started working. She got tricked by a guy who gave her a place to stay for the holidays and promised to show her a good time if she blew him. Needless to say she did it and the guy after getting serviced by her kind of ignored her ass and she spent most of her trip obsessing about this guy and how much of an asshole he is. And this girl's father is in her life but she considers him an asshole.

Another girl I know for example is heavily into fitness, social media and also drinks a lot. She has a bad relationship with her dad who she claims was abusive to her mom. Now she is in a relationship with a male who keeps their interaction a secret and has like little to no social media pictures with her. Basically keeping her as a secret booty call on the side, so that his main girl doesn't find out.

I have more examples but just wanted to know if women in general who have issues with their dad tend to gravitate towards fuckboys/players?

Now let's say you see a guy/girl that looks super cute.

What would you watch for when you want to pick a first date with someone?
How much would looks or status matter for you?
What are important personality traits they should bring on the table?