Females On Social Media Are Trash

[ManOnFire]

Relax.

I’m not talking about all females. And not just any female with a social media account. I’m talking about all those ‘icons’ out there on Instagram, TikTok, OnlyFans, etc. They. Are. Trash.

Let’s just be completely blunt and real here: most women on social media are really not interesting and don’t stand out in any particularly new ways. They’re simply physically attractive. Or want to be. And that’s all they really want at the end of the day. I’m not going to sit here and say I don’t Like or follow some of these women, cuz I do, and a man does enjoy some eye candy on occasion. But that’s really as far as it goes for me. I follow an extremely select few of these types of women, and when I do I go for the ones who are more natural looking with their styles and don’t wear a lot of makeup. And unlike most guys I practically never message any of them, only once in an enormous blue moon.

They are disgusting

But breaking it down, I have no further interest in them than to check out a few of their photos now and then. Why? Because they don’t offer anything more than that, and don’t want to. They obviously do not have many skills, significant talents, or good sense of self to spend their time only posting selfies and hoping guys will honor their gift lists or subscribe to their OnlyFans. What kind of life is that? They’re just desperate for money and attention. Hell, I would never even date these chicks, and they are most definitely NOT relationship material. I don’t really care that you post a selfie of you eating at an expensive restaurant, drinking a bubble tea, or posing on a highrise.

The thing I really can’t understand is how so many guys find these females sexy because they honestly look gross and ghetto. And I’m not even talking about the black ones either. Their eagle talon nails are unattractive and I wonder how in the hell they even wipe their ass with them, and I sorely dislike their ridiculous-looking caterpillar eyebrows and bitch face poses. And I can't stand that look of wearing a baseball cap on top of long hair, and the ghetto twerking and ass shaking in their messy room. For me there is no interest in them as a person whatsoever.

They try to make themselves appear more important than they really are

Which may be the worst part about these social media divas, and is a major indication that they are self-absorbed and are likely very insecure. They are nowhere near being an actual “influencer” with any substance - though they are influencing people, mainly young women, and not in a good way. And putting ‘Public figure’, 'digital creator,' or ‘blogger’ on your page as your title is a cheesy way of basically saying you don’t have a real title or true importance, just that you post billions of selfies and goofy dance videos with face filters, and are doing OnlyFans on the side.

Another cheesy trick these girls will do - if you didn’t notice - is unfollow a lot of people so that they look more noticed or important than they really are. I’ve had a few girls on Instagram follow me from time to time out of nowhere, who I didn’t follow back because I either thought they were some kind of spam account or because they really weren’t appealing to me. But if you pay attention and let them follow you for a while you will see on their page that they have a lot of followers but are also following a lot of people.

Normal for most Instagrammers, right? Well, after awhile when that girl starts gaining more followers, if you keep paying attention you’ll see that at some point she will suddenly unfollow or remove a ton of people so that the amount of her followers heavily outweighs who she follows, because she wants to appear as if she’s more important or more noticed than she really is, and wants to appear as if she doesn’t pay attention to most people and that they just happen to be interested in her and her page. I have seen this with more than one girl on social media and it’s a really cheap trick. So don’t be fooled if one of them suddenly adds you out of the blue, and if you’re a guy she’s hoping you’ll be flattered enough by it to want to follow her back to give her more numbers, and then later on you will be unfollowed but stay following her so that it makes her look good.

Sad, single, and sappy

Ya know how relationship coaches and other folks try to tell guys not to be needy and clingy on social media, and not to post stuff that makes them look sad, pathetic, or like they have no life or interests? Well, I don’t know if it’s the same for guys vice versa, but I really can’t stand all the chicks on social media who are always posting a bunch of sad, pathetic stuff about their depression - and I understand if you struggle with it, that’s okay, but don’t post about it so people will feel sorry for you - being single, how their heart is broken, and always posting the same old sad, sorry, trite posts about “loving yourself,” picking yourself back up, people who "don't know your value," astrological signs, blah, blah, blah.

They are always posting this stuff simply for sympathetic attention. And to be completely blunt, as harsh as it will sound, I honestly get sick of these chicks and all their emotional bullshit. And we will sit there and tolerate it while publicly executing men for showing one drop of their hurt or heartache.

I’ve also found over the years that an enormous number of these types of girls are not as innocent as you may think or as they may portray themselves to be. A lot of them really are the real definition of ‘sluts’: they sleep with guy after guy in the hopes that one of them will love them and they end up getting used, or having a kid from it, or they slept with some other woman’s man and the whole thing got nasty, so some of these chicks will post a bunch of sappy shit without giving you the full details of what really happened, in the hopes that others will give her sympathy or some guy out there will see that she’s a “good girl” and will want her. I actually know some females like this personally too.

They are not as innocent as they want you and I to think but are actually dealing with karma from some shit they did or a bad choice they made, and deep down they feel guilty about it, that’s why they put up sad quotes about not feeling loved, the need to love yourself, or stuff about “haters” as a way to put blame on them and not themselves. Believe me when I say that a lot of this type of stuff these girls post is often the result of her sleeping with someone or getting involved with someone she knows she shouldn't.

Do not be fooled, truly decent women don’t air their feelings day and night to get support and sympathy. And they already love themselves without needing to post about it every damn day either. They also will post content with actual substance or post things to make their page like a colorful scrapbook of their lives. Those are the women to pay attention to.

Not talking to people

This is the second most disgusting thing about social media whores, not responding to people who message them. And it’s actually even worse if they did in the beginning but over time they stop talking because they, again, want to create an illusion of celebrity as if they’re way too important to chat with anyone. They also turn off their read receipts and active status so that you can’t know they’ve read your message - and they do read messages, they just won’t respond. A lot of people, mostly guys, love saying the reason these women don’t reply is because they get so many messages from hungry guys or even both guys and girls, but honestly this is absolute bullshit. I’ll tell you why:

If you come across one of these women or “influencers” as they’re still growing in popularity and maybe you like something they posted or like their page period, and you send them a message, they actually will respond to you, and maybe have a conversation with you a little bit. I’ve experienced this in the past with a few. IRLrosie (Rosie Okumora) was one of them. When she was still coming up on Instagram I used to message her about how she did her super funny voice art videos, and we would have light convos about it and about her band Moderns, but then one day she stopped responding altogether. And she wasn’t the only one.

Some people will make the excuse that these chicks stop talking because they’re getting big and can’t reply to everyone. Not true. Even with their 100k followers they are not nearly as big or have as heavy of a schedule as a bona fide Hollywood star like Chris Evans or Zendaya. These are just women posting selfies or making funny videos in their bedrooms or on the L.A. street, how busy can they possibly be? They use silence as a way of manipulating your mind into believing that they are that big or being bombed with that many messages - and they might get lots of sexual ones or “Hi,” but none of this is still a reason to disregard all other ones that are not related to something sexual. Even if all you wanted to know is what was on her plate in the restaurant she was at, what catchy song she used in her video and now you can’t get it out of your head, or how she made some particular effect, there honestly is no excuse for ignoring everybody.

Another reason this isn’t true is because I also follow several women who are artists, because art is my hobby too and I love their work. They have wayyyy more followers than I do and some of them are from other countries, yet they will still message me, reply to my messages, and even watch my stories. Some of them are doing their art as an actual career and have wonderful pages displaying all their work, spending their time on this, yet they do not think they’re too important to notice you or speak.

Bottomline: the women who actively won’t respond to messages are the ones who want to excessively display themselves with a celebrity complex, and want you to think they’re that important, even if all they have is 3,000 followers. They are doing it to keep attention only on them, and believe giving any to you is beneath them or that it will go to your head. But the ones who have actual interests like traveling, cuisine, art, photography, etc. are generally not going to think of themselves as big stars who don’t talk to anyone, even if they do have 70k followers.

If you’re some guy who’s looking for a girlfriend or whatever, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment by continually validating these empty chicks. The women who are more likely to message you back are those with actual substance on their pages. But even then, you shouldn’t be trying to message every girl on social media.

At the end of the day, it all comes down to wanting attention

Most of us have social media on one platform or another. But it’s about how you use it and what you want out of it. A lot of chicks use it merely for attention, that’s what they want out of it. I can’t tell them what to do or how to live their lives, but what I can say is when you come across these girls you can clearly see there’s nothing else going on there. It’s crucial to understand that for a lot of modern females, they link importance with attention: the more attention and glorification they receive, the more they believe it is equal to them mattering or being important, even when they offer nothing of importance and do not show us any real impressive skills or depth of character.

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand with some users here. I mean I am one of theose who is active on fb and ig, but I know exactly what you are talking about. Well I’d just assume that they have never had any friends who are “influencers” or “ig celebs” lol so they have no idea how toxic these women can be. I have three girl friends who considered themselves as “ig stars” where two of them frequently borrowed some cash from me in the past. They shop once a week, go fine dining and holiday just to show off and take pictures. Let me tell you something that you probably already know yourself. Nothing that they portray on their social media is true. The truth is all three of them have miserable life. They can’t get a guy who is willing to take them seriously. They owe the bank so much money and living under serious debt. One of them happened to be sick last year and none of those simps/cucks visited her at the hospital even when she posted how ill she was that time. Another thing is 99% of their photos/videos are all photoshopped. I have seen them in real and they look nothing like
how people view them on social media. They gain nothing by promoting those products/brands that they claim to be part of
the ambassador because most of the time, they are the ones who offer themselves to be the “model” for that company 😄

[ManOnFire]

Yep, so true!😂

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

They are the ones offering themselves for the company? Woow... This is surprising!🤣

[YourFutureEx]

@The_Shadow_Dweller yes it's true. The companies say that they're giving them exposure in return and that's enough of the payment.

[proNutro]

I cringe SO HARD when I see these pick, attention seeking girls online, that’s all I’ll say. Thankfully I only get a random post on my fyp every now of these cringe girls and then but like 99% of the time it’s just cats, cottagecore, fitness, baking and pink things that show up for me.

[Thingsby]

At the end of the day... we're all going to die, so complaining about teenage girls and young adults who are fishing for attention is frankly... exasperating.

These social media faces aren't hurting you are they? If so, show me on the doll where they hurt your feelings. That is how it is in social media nowadays, I just filter myself away from that kind of content anyways. Don't you? Besides the algorithm, nobody is forcing you to look at these "influencers" are they?

You have thumbs, use them to scroll away. You have eyes, look at something else. Free will is a wonderful thing.

I wouldn't be so bold to show off my life on the internet for strangers to gobble up, but I can understand why others (like these women you've so brazenly exposed on your post) would. It could be their means of earning money, a hobby, or they feel inadequate about themselves and need the approval of strangers to feel fulfilled. Who am I or you to judge?

You can write an essay about how you look down on these women, but dude, who cares what you think... or what I think for that matter.

I'm just here to remind everybody that death is a visitor none of us can refuse, and all this bitching over something as trivial as thirst-traps is funny.

Peace.

[Nic81]

Why do I sense you somehow took this seriously lol or personally

[Anonymous]

I think this post is harsh to say the least, these are mostly young women you are talking about looking for validation just like you are looking for validation on your opinion regarding this rant. I would have a lot more respect for this opinion if you didn’t refer to these women as sluts, whores, thots, it is unnecessary and discrediting to yourself you sound hostile, as if your dealing with rejection, It is true young women looking for validation through posting pictures of there bodies isn’t positive but we are living in a time where women are trying to fight against objectification by posting their bodies, it does come off like they are doing the exact opposite but just like the 70s there were many people who looked down on the progressive movement and thought it was extreme and obscene in some aspects, yet it fought greatly against racism and went hand in hand with women's rights. What is going on now is very similar people are going to be so accustomed to seeing women like this it will eventually normalize and just like you are expressing men will start becoming less attracted merely by a women’s body, therefore making it less taboo. Gaining followers is also like currency in these times, I am can’t wait to see the day here in America women's bodies are viewed with more artistic and spiritual value than solemnly sexual, along with the realization of the downsides to social media and seeking validation through platforms, it’s only a matter of time before the realization starts to sink in that this behavior can contribute to depression and other unhealthy habits, it’s important to step out of looking at the individuals but the time we are living in altogether. Let people learn there is always room for trial and error but don’t disrespect them for having to learn because they are not just having their own life experience but contributing towards a bigger picture in this generation that is positive at the same time.

[Datboi65]

You lost me when you started talking about "the progressive movement". Really? Feminism and Black Civil Rights ARE NOT THE SAME. Feminism is based on white supremacy, and as a Black man I do not support it whatsoever. Did you know when Black men were allowed to vote, the feminists claimed they didn't want "inferior men" to hold power over them. White women are notoriously known for calling the police on Black men and women, but you wanna play this "progressive" bullshit and compare your movement that DESTROYED the Black community to the Civil Rights Movement that had many Black people die to end Jim Crow? The audacity with this one. I'm sorry, but saying we don't want to get shot and killed by Police is definitely not the same as a girl saying she wants the freedom to post her pics on onlyfans, not even close. White women are the most privileged group in America, but the are the one's that complain the most. Funny how that is, right? I could care less about the rest of your post, but don't be disrespecting our community like you did, that's not something I will ever tolerate.

[Opinion Owner]

I said they go hand in hand just like with the time period we are living in people are trying to step away from what they are told is acceptable, I’m not saying they are are responsible for any movement to end racism’s single handedly by posting to only fans alone but Thankyou taking that far out of context. I disagree with feminisms being based on white supremacy I’ve personally seen a enormous amount of feminist supporting blm and any movement they believe will end racial discrimination, but yes if you do come across someone racist they will tend to be white but the majority of white women don’t call the cops on black men for being black, I have to disagree with that statement. I agree white people were accountable for racial inequality in America , it’s something that has been going on for hundreds of years but they also undeniably played a part in trying to stop it, the fact our country had a civil war to stop slavery says something about that. So I don’t buy into the white devil concept. Historically are ancestors where ignorant and unfortunately some people still are when it comes to race but there is also something called elevation of consciousness that people have been having.

[Opinion Owner]

Also would like to to your statement of white women being the most privileged group in America, meaning men are less privileged than women, women have been suppressed in the past from education to the right to work. Now our struggle is the sexual harassment and rape how is that privileged?

[ManOnFire]

Here ya go Why Does Feminism Seem to Matter to White Women The Most? ↗

[Starry487033]

@Datboi65 how are they are slutz. slut is refer to women who had sex with partners. that is backwards

[Starry487033]

@Datboi65 im half white and i dont do that:/

[Starry487033]

@ManOnFire how r they sluts there not having sex. those are called attention whores ;/

[Starry487033]

im half white and radical feminism is toxic they shame men and non feminist women for looking sexier

[ManOnFire]

The anon who answered is Subarugirl.

[Datboi65]

Do you not understand simple examples? I brought up onlyfans as an example, since it resembles the sexual liberation movement that feminism fights for. Black people fight for their lives, and they have more things to worry about. Also, white women do not speak for "all women", not even close. Ask a Black woman, they complain about "white feminism" all the time. White women are the most privileged group, they were the biggest beneficiaries of Affirmative Action, they make more on average than Black and Latino men, but they still manage to keep their female privileges, like getting a slap on the wrist for committing crimes, getting away with killing Black people (Amber Gugyger), getting away with lying about rape (google Emmit Till) and majority vote Republican. I'm not even a Democrat, but I find it hilarious you want to talk all this progressive shit, when you cannot even get your own group in line.

[Datboi65]

I never said shit about a "white devil", but the facts remain. Yes they ended slavery, but it took 246 years to do so, and they were the ones that started it. Should they really get credit for it? Should they get credit for ending a century of segregation that started after a very brief reconstruction era? Should they get any credit for trying to end police brutality, or would you say that's the right thing to do? There's a pattern of events here, after every disaster, there comes a new one. Should we really be giving credit to the "progressives" for that, when they are usually the one's who normalize White supremacy, by ignoring racism from right-wingers? Don't believe me? Who came after Ronald Reagan's war on drugs, and George HW Bush? Bill Clinton. What did he do? 1994 crime bill, locked up well over a million Black people. All of a sudden some decades after that, now he wants to join "prison reform". Are these efforts really genuine, or is it a popularity contest? It seems to me more like performative activism, and I ain't buying into it. Also, statistically speaking anyway while we are at it, Black men (yes, MEN) are more likely to face sexual harassment/DV than white women, or the average woman in the States at 40%. Yes, white women are privileged. Black women have it the highest, at 45%. Black men have a life expectancy of 69 years, the shortest in America. White women at 80, Black women at 76 and White men live up to 75.

[Datboi65]

Don't talk to me about privilege not being associated to women. Women are a protected class, meaning there might even be somethings White men don't have that White women do have, like perceived innocence, or more of a likelihood to be believed without evidence. I just don't buy into feminists being allies to the Black community.

[Opinion Owner]

White people aren’t the creators of slavery and racism it’s been happening since ancient history and their have been many slave owners of Spanish aka Latino decent and black as well, it has to do with different eras and how many are realizing it is and has always been wrong, you can have your opinion about feminism at the end of the day, I disagree, I think it has less to do with any movement and more to with where society in general has been. Luckily a lot of people are coming to realizations of what’s going on in America wether you associate that with feminisms or not and that’s what matters at the end of the day. trying to compare a black man’s struggle to a white women’s privilege, when white women experience very much sexual harassment, rape, human trafficking I think is fruitless

[ManOnFire]

And that's your problem, Subarugirl. White women are too concerned about sexual violence. White women experience rape, harassment, etc. less than women of color. You didn't know that, did you? Yet the white woman is going around acting as if she is the biggest victim in society.

White people didn't create slavery, but the way they lead it is what has been particularly brutal in history.

[Datboi65]

And this is why I can't take you seriously. You deflect, deflect and deflect. For a "progressive" you really try to shift the blame like conservatives do. Maybe y'all are the same after all. White women didn't start slavery, no shit. However, they didn't sit on the sidelines either, they PARTICIPATED. They aren't as innocent as you make them out to be. About Black people owning slaves, I never denied that there are house negros and "uncle Toms" in our community, but those are enemies as well, and they are the exception not the majority. MOST white women uphold white supremacy, not vice versa. In one way or another. They are either participants in the act, or enablers, so much so when they decide to be "allies" it's usually performative virtue signaling, nothing more. What pisses Black people even more, is trying to compare the Black struggle to feminism, when your ancestors have had a roof over their head, clothes on them, and flood on the table and were not treated like goddamn animals, lunched or made to work for hours on end. Black women were raped by their masters, 18% of the Black population can be traced to paternal white DNA. Wtf can YOU say about that? Huh? What about the lynchings done to "protect your honor"? What do you say about that? Even today, countless examples of white women weaponinzing their tears, calling police for petty things and getting away with criminal activity. And you wonder why we don't trust you? Where were you when Black women were dying from breast cancer and delivery? Where were you when Black men were thrown in prison en mass in the 80s and 90s? Where were you when Amber Guyger was given a 5 year sentence for murdering a Black man in his apartment? Where were you when George Zimmerman got away with murder? Where? Disingenuous at best, malicious at worst. Like I said, Black people both men and women face more sexual assualt and domestic violence than white women. I don't want to here none of it.

[Datboi65]

@ManOnFire And that's their problem. They think this is some kind of oppression Olympics that they want to participate in, not real life. If this was a game, White women would win it because they are the best actors. This performative activism thing doesn't work. I just hate when they try and mix their feminism agenda with the Black struggle.

[ManOnFire]

@Datboi65 Yep. Drives me nuts.

[Opinion Owner]

I think all peoples suffering shouldn’t he taken lightly, all of them need solutions not being compared to which is worse because it’s really a never ending argument, peoples pain and suffering isn’t a contest no matter what their skin color is it all deserves to be validated.

[Datboi65]

Ma'am, I didn't make that comparison in the beginning, you did. You brought up racism, I replied. You seriously have no clue what you're talking about. There's no amount of discrimination that comes remotely close to racism and white supremacy, nothing. I hope you have learned that lesson, and please refrain from making such comparisons in the future. You are upset at the degradation of women? Voice your opinion, you have that right to do so, but please don't bring Black people into this.

[Opinion Owner]

@Datboi65 Let me correct you I made a slight association between black rights movement and womens rights/ how I feel one movement opens a door for others, my view is this is all collective suffering and every movement open doors for another, you have some good historical points that contradict that although I still don’t completely agree, nor do I believe in this day an age all white people are suppressors, I would argue that it’s more of a systematic problem in this day and age than anything, remnants from past political/societal structure. I think their are people that desperately want to be free of the past and and focus on moving forward and others who want to cling on to it and use it against people that weren’t even alive during that time, labeling them and their modern movements suppressive, and racist based on their roots but back then everything was suppressive and racist so ya of course but that’s not what it currently is, your comment about most white women calling the cops on black men. Yes we call them Karens and no one like them but its not a good generalization to have for white women and I definitely don’t deserve that, I feel like it’s just as racist to make those generalizations and if they were made against black people being one type of way.

[Opinion Owner]

I can definitely see where you are coming from in my stamens about historically the women rights movement did have its racist counterparts, sadly but there were also many women that did not fall in line with that as well and I’m glad both movements exist, I’m hopeful with time they can grow closer together especially for black women as a collective suffering of human rights and not be 2 isolated issues, human rights is one big issue every Movement should come together and support. I’m sorry you disagree

[Datboi65]

Let me make something VERY clear. Calling a White woman "Karen" is NOT racist, but calling the police on Black people doing normal everyday activities IS racist. Do you understand? Racism from a sociologically standpoint is a structural hierarchy that is built to keep one group at the top, while keeping another group at the bottom. Statistically speaking, Black people are at the bottom of most categories. Sociologically, Black people cannot be racist. Is it an inconvenience that they call you a Karen? Yeah. Does it affect your life the same way the n word does? HELL NO. Karen is not a racial slur. Also, I never said that all white women engage in that behavior, but make no mistake about it the majority of women who try and police minorites are WHITE. I don't see enough pushback from white women against these other white women, but rather mostly complaining like yourself about being "generalized", instead of calling out faulty behavior. How does that help your concern? White women want to separate themselves from "straight white men" so they can be seen as the innocent victims, but in reality they are just as complicit in racism as white men are.

[Datboi65]

Movements do not open doors for each other, you still have to convince people to join your cause. There are people that supported Stop Asian Hate and were anti Black Lives Matter, most of them White. There are racist feminists, and there are even feminists that don't support the LGBTQ (TURF). I don't believe in intersectionality nonsense, I go by whatever suits my morals and beliefs. I'm religious, so I do not support the LGBTQ. Nothing against them as people, but it goes against my beliefs. I don't have an opinion on #metoo, because it's a double-edged sword. It has done some good, and some harm. As far as Black Civil Rights are concerned, I don't fully support the organization BLM due to some financial controversies, but I support the cause of Black liberation, and I will stand by anyone trying to achieve that. The do not open doors for each other.

[Datboi65]

"I think their are people that desperately want to be free of the past and and focus on moving forward and others who want to cling on to it and use it against people that weren’t even alive during that time, labeling them and their modern movements suppressive, and racist based on their roots but back then everything was suppressive and racist"

This is beyond ignorant. How are we going to move on, if CRT is not even being taught in schools? We are being denied our history, of all the evil things that were done in the past, so we can understand all the current events of today. Tell that to the people saying that it is "divisive". It has already been banned in multiple states. How are Black people supposed to look at this and say white people have good intentions. Really? Racism exits today, and denial of racism is a form of racism. Yes, they are 2 isolated issues, because most White women that call themselves feminists can care less about Black death. Posting a Black square on insta on June 2nd of 2020, and then staying silent for 2 years. Yeah, like I am supposed to believe that.

[Nic81]

Please tell me you didn't just compare those two things lol

[dysrhythmicheart]

As I find myself single again, I feel disheartened at the dating culture I find myself in. This is one factor that makes things harder. People. Not just men. Seem so focused on the superficial qualities of others. And most of those qualities are so filtered on IG. We all want to be thought as attractive but I would hope that is not the main focus when seeking others. Seems like a very shallow existence. Looks fade and they will be left empty and their partners as well. Lately. It feels as if people and relationships are just throw away past times

[ManOnFire]

I feel the exact same way.

[Datboi65]

Good thing I don't use social media that often. I don't have a tiktok, because god knows it's mostly young girls doing stupid dances and thoting it out. On insta, I mostly follow boxing content (I'm VERY into boxing), football (soccer) and cooking. No lame e-girls or "models" of any sorts.

Also, wonder why these girls are always traveling to Dubai? I don't know if you know this, but there was basically a story that came out more than 5 years ago about them "insta models" go there not really for vacation, but for some real nasty business. They get paid tens of thousands of dollars to let rich Sheikhs defecate on them, have sex with underage boys, copulation with a camel and the list goes on. Just disgusting. I don't know how simps worship these women after finding out about all of that stuff.

[ManOnFire]

Wow, I did not ever hear about that but I'm so glad to know it now. I knew the sheiks were into that stuff but didn't know these Insta thots were there for those kind of dollars.

[Datboi65]

There are 2 dudes who are content creates on YouTube, named Aba and Preach. They made a video on it. Just Google their name with the topic, and you will find it out. Really eye-opening stuff.

[ManOnFire]

I've seen some of their videos! I will search that out.

[Starry487033]

they are pedos

[DanaeAdam5]

Your "take" stops sounding like a take and becomes more like an extremely misogynistic rant, when you start referring to women as females or calling them names for simply having big followings.


( it also shows your huge ego for thinking that any of these women would be into you.)


What these women are doing is business. Yes most of them mostly use their good looks instead of personality to gain a big following, which... Doesn't have anything to do with you? Most women who have such big followings are mostly posting to gain money out of it (sponsorships, sending pictures to people in exchange of payment etc.) Instead of validation.


And even if they do look for validation I still don't see how it concerns you?



At the end of the day: If you don't like someone and what they post on social media block their account and don't interact with their posts. Simple enough.

[ManOnFire]

Sorry I hurt your feelings.

[DanaeAdam5]

My feelings aren't hurt but yours clearly are if you feel the need to write something like that.

You can have extremely intellectual takes about social media and how superficial it is, while adding your opinion on people who have huge followings simply based on their looks, without degrading women for no reason other than extreme insecurity.

[Heartache0405]

You’re right,@DanaeAdams5.

We should just be leaving these women alone. I mean, they’re destroying their own lives/ making themselves look needy and attention seeking anyway which in my opinion really isn’t a good look for them. Who are we to try to prevent them from doing that if that’s something they really wanna do? We men should just sit back and let the women that do this dig their own holes until they start begging to be let out. And we ain’t gonna do shit because people like you so strongly defended them and their own downfall. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[ManOnFire]

@danaeadam5 I guess you are one of them and got in your feelings.

"You can have extremely intellectual takes about social media and how superficial it is, while adding your opinion on people who have huge followings simply based on their looks, without degrading women for no reason other than extreme insecurity."
- I degraded the females on social media. Not women in general😊

[Siegram173]

seethe and cry more

[Starry487033]

@ManOnFire if these were men would you think otherwise?;/

[DanaeAdam5]

@Siegram173 for someone who gets offended over beautiful women succeeding online you sure have no problem acting as if I'm sensitive lmao

[Siegram173]

dnrd + cope. Seethe more :)

[ManOnFire]

@Starry487033 No. To me anyone doing what these cheesy chicks do is... well... cheesy.

[Nic81]

Another chick who posts the same thing and feels triggered

[Nic81]

Yes! Lol

[Nic81]

Succeeding? How about using your brain for that? Oh yeah too lazy for That

[Heartache0405]

Agreed. Females on social media are absolute trash. And they expect to be respected anyway. Which is ridiculous. Yet simp men defend them because they want something to stick their dick into. Maybe one day men will realize today’s women are trash and will reject them until these women change.

[ManOnFire]

Fully agree.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

They're absolutely disgusting, that's for sure. I totally agree that it wouldn't cease even if there were no "simps" because women have been going in this direction anyway. As I've said many times before, women are always pushing the envelope for what's appropriate behavior.

Don't mind the "yes men" in the comments who disapprove of your statements. They're the types that encourage this behavior from women and are there to lift these women up even when it isn't warranted or deserved.

[Starry487033]

so if boys do that should women applaud them

[Rebecca798344]

Its so satisying when guys on GAG who can't get girls in real life call beautiful girls on the internet "trash" its so revealing and pathetic LOLOLOl Its just so funny. Thank you for making my day :D :D

[Wraith_Cemetery]

@Rebecca798344 I'm married so... LOL

[Nic81]

@Rebecca798344 beautiful and trashy dont always go hand in hand you know. Classy isn't trashy

[Kaneki05]

Never would of guessed it's about attention and feeling more important. It's not like that's a striving normal goal for most average humans on this earth lmao.
Sounds like you may just have a problem with how humans are, and annoyed by people living their lives how they want to. Which is more your problem than there's. But good luck with your wasting time on ranting on about girls who don't even know you exist. Sure it will get you some credits in a fake bank account that = satisfaction somehow?

I don't think I'll be wasting my time on making further opinions after this on such topic since i've said my peace and got better things to worry about. But hopefully you will learn to do that too and if not welp still good luck with whatever this is and what good it brings you.

[ManOnFire]

Thanks for your time lol.

[Rebecca798344]

This dude needs a good therapist. If he needs any recommendations; i can get him some names from the internet

[Nic81]

I smell a simp lol

[Emiliamazing]

Seems you’ve been found a way to express anger about some very childish behavior. It does seem like many young females are starved for attention and once they get it can’t get away from it. I think it’s up to those who follow them to perhaps not do so as that will lessen the popularity of such images and attention getting behavior.
If you give a mouse a cookie…. the behavior will continue as long as the habit is fed. There’s no need to break down why these girls, and possibly some boys have chosen this route to getting attention. No doubt some of these women feel like they want to be seen as bad girls, similar to their bad boy counterparts. Some people will always be drawn to that.
Kudos to you if you decide to move beyond this type of activity and viewership. It certainly is not going to find you the person that you are looking for as an individual.

[ManOnFire]

I certainly don't want any of them🤮

[carxali]

Like any of them would date you. The way you're using "females", ugh I can see what type of person you are.

[SlightlyEccentric]

It certainly says a lot about young women who crave attention like a vampire craves blood.

[ManOnFire]

@carxali I wouldn't date them even if they wanted to date ME😊

[Nic81]

@carxali triggered? Lol

[Nic81]

Another one who is taking it personally because you probably post like that also lol

[globetrotter22]

Social media has really brought out the worst in women. It’s the sugar high of getting virtual attention but it makes them miserable.

Not to say there are guys who act like dbags on social media. There definitely are. But we are held to a different standard when it comes to posting our minds and/or posting constant selfies.

[globetrotter22]

We have to be honest about one thing here. Guys ENABLE this crap. Never waste your time liking, commenting and following a IG model. If guys collectively stopped doing this then women would lose their incentive to stop doing this crap. But there are lots of idiots out there.

[ManOnFire]

I still think women would do it even if guys didn't acknowledge them, because the women would still do it to compete with others.

[globetrotter22]

@ManOnFire true. But only way you combat that crap is not give it attention.

Honestly I wish I could snap my fingers and make millions of guys “snap out of it”. Imagine if we woke up tomorrow and all the sudden men worldwide wide stopped giving women undeserved attention. Imagine if we men collectively had the ability to immediately recognize and reject friéndzone bullshit. Imagine if men knew immediately they knew the girl wasn’t interested before attempting to message her. Just a giant reality check.

Fantasy i know. But it would be a reckoning our society badly needs.

[ManOnFire]

I totally agree with you. That is definitely the kind of masculinity I wish existed.

[globetrotter22]

@ManOnFire it doesn’t help that boys and young men are being brainwashed to kiss girl’s asses.

[EmbraceThePain]

I agree brother


Being around these types of women, overtime, you realize how toxic it can be.


Most importantly, it taints one’s views on women overall.


It’s not healthy.

[ManOnFire]

"Most importantly, it taints one’s views on women overall."
- Excellent point.

[loveslongnails]

Most of them are just eye-candy, but the ones making big bucks are certainly not stupid. The Kardashian girls built an empire out of nothing BUT looks, and though they're moronic in one sense, they're not dumb when it comes to attracting money. What IS dumb is that girls idolize them and want to be like them, as if they're somehow enhancing society. That part is pathetic.

[ManOnFire]

Very true.

[loveslongnails]

Wait... someone is disagreeing that the Kardashians are NOT enhancing society? Or they should be idolized because... what, they make money? They're stupid, but they know how to make money. This is to be idolized?

[loveslongnails]

Or they ARE enhancing society?

[ManOnFire]

Lol. I would say they're a LONG way off from enhancing society.

[loveslongnails]

Oh yeah - not even close

[WonderBell99]

Take a chill pill. What exactly is your problem with them? It’s a business - to start a social media account and make money off of it. As long as they aren’t harming anyone, I honestly don’t give a fuck.

At the end of the day, it’s their choice. Leave them be. If they repulse you, don’t go on social media. Plain and simple. Surely, I don’t want to see half naked guys either. There’s more important shit than a bunch of social media influencers I do not concern myself with.

[ManOnFire]

@wonderbell99 What would your opinion be if I had actually written a Take about the cheesy guys who worship these women? Would I be shaming them? Should we leave them be and let it be their choice?

[WonderBell99]

@ManOnFire It's your opinion. People have different opinion and that's ok.
If those cheesy guys want to worship these women, then its their choice. I won't give a fuck either way

[WonderBell99]

opinions*

[ManOnFire]

@wonderbell99 "It's your opinion. People have different opinion and that's ok."
- So then this Take shouldn't have been an issue for you since it's my opinion.

[WonderBell99]

I never said I had an issue. I'm cool as a cucumber. You are the one who seems to be cross with my opinion.

[ManOnFire]

@wonderbell99 If you were cool as a cucumber you wouldn't care whether I wrote about it or not. I'm just asking you what would it be like vice versa.

[WonderBell99]

and I answered your question. I don't get why this conversation is dragging on. You wrote about topic A, and I opined on it, just like many others. You asked me what my opinion WOULD HAVE BEEN if you had written about topic B and I answered accordingly. My opinion on everything related to social media is the same: I don't give a fuck about it

[WonderBell99]

Bold of you to assume that I would get pressed over a silly MyTake lmfao

[ManOnFire]

@wonderbell99 Experience.

[WonderBell99]

@ManOnFire your experience has seemed to fail you in this case 😊

Hope you have a phenomenal day today! ^_^

[ManOnFire]

@wonderbell99 Lol. You as well.

[WonderBell99]

Thank you kindly. Much appreciated (:

[Nic81]

Simp

[WonderBell99]

@Nic81 sure, that’s your go to response for every damn person that doesn’t agree with you, right? You need more creativity, honey.

[jennifer_bloom]

Being beautiful does not mean your happy and I would assume that a happy woman would not need attention from strangers on Instagram or Facebook. I don’t blame them since they are probably empty and lonely inside.

[numscul]

you're right... but we all have to find our own way through life one way or another so it's better not to judge right?

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

People make their choices and that’s their lives , if there’s a demand then they’re going to be the product. It’s a “business” and it’s not my place to judge how someone pays their bills and put food on the table.. or being send to Dubai. I just ignore them and go on with my day. It’s not my life and frankly I don’t have the mental bandwidth to care, there’s more important shit happening in the world 🤣

[Anonymous]

TL;DR: "I'm obsessed with ig/tiktok women, I follow lots and lots of them, and I message them and wish they would pay attention to me. In fact some have responded but then they get bored because I'm boring and stop talking to me. I am now mad at them so here I am venting my frustration and talking about how unattractive they are even though I am messaging and following them because I'm attracted to them."

[ManOnFire]

Lmfao!😂😂😂 Not even close, my friend.

[Anonymous]

You are a doll!!! Finally a man who understands Tick Tock idiots and Attention getters. Plus hoes.

[Starry487033]

what if they women who share art are they hos?

[RealMarek]

Imagine how many men are wasting their time and money following these women, watching porn to excess, playing videogames to excess... This is a difficult time for many reasons, but a man who stays grounded in the real world and grapples with real challenges instead of falling into these traps stands a good chance of being a very competitive man.

[Anonymous]

This is very long and trash is kind of harsh but I think it's weird they do this for validation even though it's the opposite of what most guys would find attractive, especially long term. It's like advertising "I'm not dating material and to leave me alone because I only do ons"

[Starry487033]

if guys do this its ok? there not hurting anyone if they promote cp then its bad

[Opinion Owner]

@Starry487033 It looks more cringy to me when guys do it. Maybe because I'm straight but they look so goofy when they flex in front of their expensive cars for a picture lol. But if they're not hurting anyone it's good as long as they don't complain to us about people not wanting them

[Rebecca798344]

The problem is is that there are a minority of people that give this author any power and value his "opinion". A pseudo "opinion" based on anger for being rejected by pretty girls. Its actually pretty sad. I feel bad for him.

[MzAsh]

It’s just funny how you’re basically like “these women are trash. Ok so I follow a few of them and I like to look sometimes…but they’re still trash.” Lol ok home slice.
Do you realize these women are millionaires off of their audience?

[ManOnFire]

So I noted that I follow a very select few of these chicks with loads of selfies, but they are still not anything like the ones I was talking about.

They're millionaires because they have graphic sex with Arab princes and sheiks. Not because they actually worked their asses off for it. How would you feel if your daughter was one of these millionaire Insta-hos?

[MzAsh]

For me, it would highly depend on her age (she’d have to be legal) and the context of the content. If she’s doing Only Fans, she’s going to be living on her own because I’m not housing someone’s who’s making over well enough to house themselves.

[ManOnFire]

But what the ethics and lack of intelligence? Wouldn't you want your daughter to be an upstanding girl who goes to school and works a legit job, has great personal skills, and values herself beyond needing attention? Wouldn't you want her to not be lazy and cheap making dollars from doing nothing but sex pics and vids?

[MzAsh]

Oh I definitely would want my daughter to be those things. That doesn’t mean she can’t also be an IG model while she’s good looking enough to do it. I had modeling days myself. Of course, I’d encourage her to be classy about it though.

[Nic81]

Um no Madonna is a millionaire , these girls want to be lol