How important for a guy to make the woman they like giggle/laugh?

[Kulotz]

I think guys value a lot to make the woman they like laugh or giggle. They really like to be able to do that. Am I right?

Whenever I laugh or giggle at my boyfriend's joke or comment, he makes a very proud face that I find very cute and funny!

[DishLady]

For the guy, it’s partially visual and partially emotional.



VISUAL: A person is most attractive when they’re smiling or laughing. They’re happy and others can see this. If the guy is the one making the girl happy, on some level (perhaps even only subliminally) he’s proud that others can see this.

EMOTIONAL: It’s partially about the girl looking and being more open to the guy, which then makes him happy at a new level as also more open to the girl, which makes for better conversation and interaction.

[jennifer_bloom]

I look for positivity and emotional stimulation in a relationship and humour achieves that in a powerful way, but I think kindness and mutual celebration and appreciation would do the same thing.

[NathanDavis]

it is a MUST

for me, definitely is

not only it's a big big part of life and happiness... but it's also a need for me to be with someone that has a sense of humor enough to "get me" because this is definitely a side of me, I do like to joke, I do like to keep it light and more casual rather than be always serious or too serious even

and also, there's a few layers to it... I swear not all my joking is that dumb and silly all the time, but well... that, and a few other things for a few to find out...

[SotiCoto]

This site really needs to quit the whole "featured question" nonsense. Why should some questions get more attention than others? Why should some questions be repeatedly shoved in our faces over and over again until we respond to them?
It is nonsense and I resent it.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Absolutely! It's how my boyfriend won me over. He was making me laugh from the get go. He still makes me laugh uncontrollably sometimes. I don't recall laughing so much in any other relationship and this is by far my longest and most meaningful one.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

That's so cute! And women likes men who make them laugh as well, perfect combination. 😄

[itsclearlynicholas]

They giggle themselves or smile themselves. Their (face) cheeks and lips 👄🫦 👀 must feel it most days that smiling all the time or grinning mmm or small smiles

[itsclearlynicholas]

They often don't need a man to help 😔😆

[Ehjoh1]

If you can make a girl laugh she will feel more safe and comfortable around you which really helps with falling in love, also because you make her feel happier.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If it isn't top of the list, then it is close to it!

[ProbablyClueless]

It seems to be really important. Women almost always say that they want the men in their lives to make them laugh.

[Keyboardkat]

If I find her laugh really sexy and endearing, I will try to keep her in stitches 24/7!

[CriticalCatDad]

My personal mindset is why make a woman giggle if she's already living in a country that makes her happy by default? Why make her even happier?

[genericname85]

I mean if she never laughs at anything I say, if assume she hates me XD

[Luopio27]

Comedians dont stand a chance against music men, in warming a woman's hearth.

[Caroline91]

Actually, the combination of both is killer.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Yes it is. He says as he trips over his drum kit whilst trying to find the bass!

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure and she laughs and laughs at the look on his face and thinks about how she likes him more than a double scoop ice cream cone!

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 A double scoop :O Wow, that's impressive. I would have been happy being liked as much as a single sco... oooh wait.. are we talking Vanilla or Chocolate? Because that's important

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure one dark chocolate scoop and one peppermint candy..:Yum!

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Blimey. Your fella and my missus are gonna wanna know why I've got bits of drum kit all over the floor and you've got dollops of ice cream all over your face, from excessive giggling :O

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure I'd just have to 'fess up to my husband that I saw a very funny guy while eating my double scoop!!

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Good idea.. And for my part? I'm getting a drum machine as that is WAY easier to explain :D

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Such a smart man!

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Thank you, and you have a great sense of humour. Your fella is a lucky guy!

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Thank you. I have to say the same about your Missus…that she is a lucky woman! Have a wonderful day with your new drum machine. And me…I’ll be out there dancing to the beat of my own drum mostly in circles around my man!

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 :D Thank you too, although I always feel like the lucky one in our relationship. You'd actually really like her.. She has a BA too. Hers is in Psychology.

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure I bet I would like her. We'd probably find a lot of interesting things to talk about. My degree is actually in Communication and Public Policy and the classes for the degree came equally from the fields of Psychology, Sociology, Public Policy and Rhetoric. I'm trained to analyze the written and spoken word, which means I have a BA in BS... As a result, I read. between the lines pretty well. More power to you for being with such a wonderful person :)

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 It seems I never run out of reasons to say thank you to you. Something about your degree has peaked my curiosity. You clearly recognise BS,, so how do you feel when you hear people use the words, 'triangulate,' or 'Blue Sky Thinking?' Do they irritate you, or do you throw them in yourself sometimes. The expression she uses for me is 'Lateral thinking' because I apparently think outside the box.

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Well since I often can’t find a word to properly describe what I think, I often create a new one. For instance to express my take on triangulate, I would morph the base word to tristrangulate. Blue sky thinking I think can be useful because it achieves its purpose of representing the concept of looking up and outward for answers. However, it fails to acknowledge that, from inside the box, thinking is limited by a strict, walled in structure. so that even looking up from the box is still limited to the piece of sky that is visible from your position in the box. So, no, I don’t use that phrase unless the audience I am trying to reach needs strictly defined concepts and isn’t ready to move beyond that yet. In my world, as I have stated elsewhere on this site, boxes don’t exist. I just put up a picture on my profile that is a good representation of how I think if I do get boxed in. I suspect it is a good depiction of your own lateral thinking, too. Tell me what you think?

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 That's such a clever visual representation, but I'm not sure with the way my mind works I've understood it's true meaning. What it means to me is, if someone tries to box you in, the best they can hope for is a draw, because they have no option but to play by the same rules

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Good thoughts, but did the game really end in a draw? Here's what I see: The X stayed in the box and you, the O, found the one way out without even breaking the rules of the game, serendipitously also resulting in an unexpected solution to the problem of a draw and winning the game in the process. You refused to accept that a draw was the end result of the game and you sought out
and found a creative solution. Also, now that you are outside of the box, do you stay out? I mean, you just escaped unremitting repetitive thinking because there are only so many moves that can ever be executed if you stay in the box. But you are now outside the box and, thus, presented with limitless opportunities for anything else you may wish to address.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Is there something I'm missing? I don't see any winner, just a box containing what looks to be a draw?

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Go to my profile and then click on the picture and the whole pic will come up. Yes, if you just look at the avatar box you don't see the whole depiction.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm curious. The OE of tic tac toe is cut off.. that's making me wonder if anything else is not being displayed?

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Argghhhhh lol! I wish I'd have seen the picture in it's entirety before reading your answer to my pitiful logic of what I thought was a draw! That changes everything, well it would 0 and O were the same of course.

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Sorry I wasn't more explicit in my directions! I just thought you had somehow not seen the o in Toe. And, in fact, you had not. So anyway, that's how I think if someone ever does catch me off guard and boxes me in and I suspect it is a good representation of your lateral thinking. But like I said, I can't really say I think outside the box because I refuse to have boxes in my world at all... unless they sneak in unnoticed and then, I will not be held responsible for my brutality in ejecting them! by the way... is that Argghhhhh, as in pirate?

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 lol, no there was no 'Jim lad' after it :P and I don't have a peg leg or parrot either for that matter!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Oh and I get sea sick :))

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Well, I can understand no 'Jim lad" or peg leg, but no parrot? I'm so sorry to hear about your other malady. I don't know what I would do if I were prone to sea sickness. I grew up on the Pacific coast, less than a stone's throw from the frigid waters. My father wanted to teach me to sail, but in my 13 year old snottiness, I refused. I wanted dance lessons!! He even bought me a sabot sail boat which I refused to step foot on for over a month until one day, feeling lonely, I went down to the dock to at least sit in my boat. But, alas, it was nowhere to be found. When I asked my father, he told me since I had shown no interest in it, he had sold it and, in an act of truly good parenting... I was never privileged to have another. Lesson learned: Don't be a snotty 13 year old. So, instead, I took up bodysurfing.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Hahaha Who needs a parrot? I already have someone in life who answers back and squawks at me.
Bodysurfing? That's riding waves without a board? My stomach is queasy at the thought of it. As for your dad's parenting skills. Spot on, I learned the hard way when I thought I was being clever too. I smoked a cigarette at a wedding, I think I was about 10 or 11 Waiting staff would get into serious trouble for handing out cigarettes to kids these days. My Dad caught me picked me up by the scruff of the neck and dragged me into a room and lit up about 10 cigarettes, and told me to smoke all of them. I could barely see anything after just half a cigarette. I promised I'd learned my lesson and have never been able to go anywhere where there is smoking, even a vaping smell makes me feel sick!

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure I sincerely hope your wife does not see that post. You're just asking for every squawk and back talking word you're gonna get from her, man!! Well, I never went in if the waves were over about 12-15 feet... waves by the way are measured from the surface of the water, not the ground, so if I'm already up to my neck, that's 5' plus 12-15', well you can do the math, but that's how high above me the wave was towering. I tell you, I could hold my breath for about 2 1/2 minutes which was enough if I got held down. But when you catch a wave just right and pop up to the top and you're 20' above the ground and the world is flying by and then... you crash down over the falls and get thrown around like a rag doll in a hurricane... THAT'S living!! Sounds like you had a good dad, too.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Yeah, he was the best. we both had great dads., . As for the missus? She sees everything I type. I don't hide anything. She would think I was ill or something if I DIDN'T say things like that. We insult each other all the time. Just last week I referred to her as my Pet Dragon, and she called me her ex husband. We have a similar sense of humour you see.

In the confines of a swimming pool I love the water. but as I was reading what you do up there ^^^ oh dear... definitely not for me.

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure Yeah my husband and I have a total transparency agreement. It can be difficult to adhere to at times, but it does keep the marriage strong. We have passwords to each other’s accounts, including social media. Bc he is out of the country a lot, it is one way we keep up with what’s going on with each other and then discuss things when we are able to bc we can’t always be in contact. I don’t even know where he is right now and I was going a bit crazy bc I thought he might be in Gaza, which he was able to assure me that’s not the case. I mean I really like the guy!!

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 No relationship can survive happily without transparency, survive yes maybe, but not happily..
I realise you cannot say TOO much, but is Hubby in the armed forces?

[Caroline91]

@TommyMountainFigure No he’s not. He works for an agency that carries out humanitarian projects all over the world. Some projects are more sensitive than others particularly because of some silent partnering with government agencies. Anyway, I think he’s in Egypt.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Caroline91 Phew.. Thankfully, Egypt is at peace with everyone at the moment

[handsomelad70]

Tell her a joke or anecdote which will appeal to her girly, sorta bubbleheaded side.

[hafinjun]

I do but then I try to make everyone giggle and laugh

[FuqUFggt]

I have never had sex with a woman I didn't make laugh

[justabuddy]

• It is, nobody wants to be in a relationship with a person who is always grumpy.

[Wise4myage]

Making a girl laugh is very important.