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Am I just paranoid after his and I's past and problems or could it be that there's someone else?

I think I am being paranoid after finding out what he done to me seven months ago during our relationship. From cheating on me for two days to hurting my feelings by lying about something that I didn't do that ruined my reputation to many people that knows me. It's hard to forget and forgive someone like that who you thought loves you but still will hurt you. I love him so I forgave him but another lie then I'm seriously done. I'm don't giving him so many chances. He's literally touching that red flag already.

He was the one that called me in the first place after his rehearsal and I thought he should rest first. It's nice of him to call but I always tell him to rest first after rehearsal at least one hour. I really don't mind and I told him I'm not asking him to call me after every classes and rehearsals he had. But when some other girl/friend text him... he suddenly focuses on that person. Before he went to his college, he use to embrace me and give me his attention more often. But since he went to his college that he attends, he's usually on his phone texting other girls and friends. So, I get upset because what's the point of me visiting him 33 miles away to talk to him and hangout. Like, I'm here for a d*mn good reason and he's on his phone. Like, where is your respect and manners. It makes me upset how he have hearts on other girls' contacts and I don't that made me had the thought he was cheating last year but he angrily said "No!" But why would he get angry. I was just asking politely. Which made me more upset is that one of girl best friends was sending hearts to him and he was sending hearts back. :/ He's says that she's just his best friend but... not all best friends are like that... especially...

My fiance and I have been together for 3 years. We also has live together for more than 2 years.

Recently, he has a met this guy from work at his previous job. The first time that I met this dude, he was drinking and driving. He just don't seem like he has a good head on his shoulders. He comes across as someone lazy, irresponsible, and immature. You can tell this guy at a point in his life has went down the wrong path. You can also tell his family is well off and he is the only kid in the family who fell in a ditch.

They've only known each other for around 3 months. My fiance really likes to hang out with him. They don't work with each other anymore but, they see each other every week. This guy used to come over to our house every day until I complained to my fiance that it's too much. Now, he comes over around once a week and my fiance goes to his house once a week. My fiance asks him to chill at least 3 times a week but then his buddy was not available. Honestly, I can tell this guy don't really like my boyfriend that much. I have mentioned to him that there is something not quite right about this dude. The funny thing was, my fiance agrees that there is something off but not sure what. He really likes to talk, watch games, drink, and smoke weed with him. He did tell me that it's really just someone to chill with. I really don't think so. Ever since he met this guy, my fiance has lost some focus from work. He would rather be an hour late for work in order to chill with this dude. I am definitely not happy about that. Another thing is, this dude is single, lives under his parents roof, and has no commitment to anyone or anything.

What can I do about this?