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I've never had a boyfriend, so I don't know what's happening between us. I started "talking" to him last year. We met because my cousin pledged his fraternity (Kappa Alpha Psi) and they hosted this picnic thing for Black History Month. He just took his time getting to know me and he knew that I never had a boyfriend and he was all surprised and stuff. His fraternity was hosting a party one night and he invited me to come and I did. He asked me to come with him in this room and we just talked and then he kissed me and he tried to put his hand under my shirt. So, I told him I didn't wanna have sex yet because I was a virgin and wanted to "wait for the right one" and I didn't want to have sex and have him just leave and spread rumors (I'm paranoid) lol. He said that I was the only person that he was talking to and he said he loves me even though we've only known each other for 3 months. I'm talking too much, let me shorten it. Ok. I ended up having sex with him and he ignored me for 3 weeks and started talking to this other girl. I ended up talking to this other guy I met and he found out and texted me saying, "if i knew you had a boyfriend I wouldn't have been messing with you." I told him he wasn't my and asked him about the girl he was talking to and he said "don't worry about her." Come to find out, the girl is actually his girlfriend. I decided to just ignore him and not say anything to him because I cringe so much when sidechicks get mad and emotional at guys for having girlfriends. He called me and asked why I was ignoring him and I said.
"because you have a gf" he said "man stop playin she ain't my girl" but even my cousin says that she is his girlfriend and they have been together for a while. He just texted me "ILY" this morning. I honestly don't even know what to do. Sorry, it's so long. I'm informative. I'm 17 & he's 20, by the way.

So I work at Chick-Fil-A with a guy I use to date and be in love with. It's been almost a year since we've been broken up. Since last summer I've been threatened by a girl at work, I've had rumors spread about me, and my ex has been rude to me for absolutely no reason. When I told my boss about how he has helped everyone at work when they needed help she sided with him. He will talk and work with everyone else but me. When I try to ask work related things he just turns he back and ignores me. We had a great friendship even after we broke up but now he's just cold to me! It makes me very upset and sad! WHY?

So this guy named Kian and I are both freshman in college and we have been dating for a few weeks. This past Friday we both went to a party and got pretty drunk. When I showed up to his frat house, I found him but then didn't see where he went so I got scared that he had gone to the third floor with some other girl but he had just gone to sleep. I wasn't going to go to bed so I stayed up and all of my sorority sisters had left because I told them I wasn't going to leave without Kian, so I leaned onto my two friends Riley and Isaiah for support because I was pretty much left by myself since Kian was asleep in another room. During that time, Riley who is my (ex) boyfriend's best friend was trying to kiss me because he was just as drunk as me if not more. I had told him that it would be wrong to do that to my boyfriend, but other people in that house had spread a rumor that we had made out and my boyfriend got really pissed. We decided to go home and Kian would not talk to me so I called him the next morning and thought everything would be ok if I just talked to him about what happened but before I could he broke up with me and told me things were over between us because of what he heard. It's been a day since we've talked becaue I'm trying to give him time to cool off, but eventually I am going to talk to him and tell him my side of the story. He hasn't changed our relationship on Facebook yet so I'm hoping that's a sign that he's not completely done with "us" yet.. I honestly am so upset right now because I don't want to lose him and I just want to work things out without having to go through an actual break up. What do you think I should do with this whole situation? Anything helps, thank you!