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So my friend and I were planning all week to go clubbing today. She turned 21 two weeks ago. I invited my aunt along and my cousin. There’s a pre season football game so I told my friend it was a bad idea. My aunt suggested going to this farm show today but my friend isn’t into that kind of stuff. I told her maybe. I also have a boyfriend of two months that I see about once a week and I text and call him everyday, we get along really well. My friend kept spamming me with messages asking what are we doing today (for the past two days) and I didn’t know what to tell her because I didn’t know. My friend suggested going to this bar tonight and I said I would like to go but didn’t know for sure. She called me last night and gave me an attitude and my boyfriend called in about 30 seconds into the phone call so I told her I had to go. She texted me 4 times today asking what are we doing today. I was at work until 3 so I wasn’t able to respond and now I am at my moms house and I don’t know what I plan on doing later. Still no response from my aunt about the bar. I log into Instagram and she wrote this indirect nasty long paragraph towards me. My parents are super strict about what I do plus I have two younger siblings I might have to watch and she knows this. I haven’t even asked them yet. Her parents don’t care what she does but mine do. I hang out with this girl like 2-3 times a week. If I’m allowed to go, should I? Knowing her she’s gonna yell at me and be all bitchy and she’s also mad that I show up late all the time (as well as everybody else). Am I in the wrong? Or is she? I don’t know what to do? She doesn’t really have other friends either...

This girl and I have been friends for 9 years. We area both 21 and live at home. She knows my entire family. They have mixed opinions on her especially my parents. My parents are never mean to her though, and try to help her if she needs it. We have got in 3 major blowouts in the past, which resulted in us not talking to each other for several months at a time and blocking/changing numbers. Anyways, I try to hang out with my friend at least once a week but she currently does not have a job and her parents stopped giving her money so I’m having to pay for whatever we do that’s why I limit it to once a week unless she wants to take walks which are free. Recently, I started talking to a guy on a dating app and we hung out a bunch and I’m talking to him everyday and call him my boyfriend, I’ve known him for a month. I think my friend is jealous. She’s a pretty blonde girl and guys stare at her in public but she gives them Death looks and then they approach me. I decline. My friend wanted to go to a club tomorrow night but it’s in a bad part of town so I said no. I suggested going to the derby with my aunt and boyfriend and she yelled at me because she knows I have a family reunion on Saturday so I’ll see my aunt then and I care about my boyfriend more than her and she tried to call me but I had to end the call to talk to my boyfriend and she’s like I’m glad our 9 year friendship means nothing to you and I need to get my priorities right and I’m rude af. She’s also been persistent texting me but I was on a date earlier and she went off on me. I told her to try the dating apps and she doesn’t have any luck because she says all guys want is a quick lay or they stop talking to her and yadda yadda. She wants to go to this bar tomorrow night (we were supposed to go to the club) and I said I will see because I plan on going to the derby and she flipped out. And anytime I text or call my boyfriend when she’s around she gets all bitchy towards me and I have to walk away.

It was my cousin that cheated on her then boyfriend (now husband) way back in 2003. She was 19 at the time and he was 20. He caught her cheating with his friend in his house but then forgave. They worked it for years, he promised he wasn't going to bring back her cheating anymore and got married in 2009.

Their current situation:
They got two kids; a 9 year-old son and 6 year-old daughter.

According to what she's told me, for the past 3-4 months, he's been creating random arguments, has brought back her past cheating from 2003, has insulted her in front of the kids (calls her the C and W words), goes out clubbing and returns home at 3am drunk, has his cell set on private and even said that if he cheated, it would be even and that she would have nothing to complain about. Is he somewhat in the right in his logic?