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I hear a lot of guys talk about how this would make things so much easier, and I guess, somehow improve their chances of getting a chick. Maybe.

I was for the female approach thing - or rather - at least women making themselves more initiating in letting the dude know your interested.

I was thinking about the girl approach thing - and I wonder if this whole " male seeks female -" thing was set up like this on purpose.

1. Girls approaching doesn't mean you'll get approached.

It's just reality. You can't force someone to find you attractive or like you - if anything, this makes the girls even more in charge in this situation - because it will force men after a while of not being approached - to approach anyway.

2. Just because she approaches you - doesn't mean she's Miss. Perfect

In the small talk it takes to get someone's number - you don't have a valid idea of what type of person they really are. Sure she thinks your cute - but that doesn't means she's still not the biggest bitch, rude, spoiled, a user, manipulative etc - traits that don't come out until you get to know a person more anyway.

3. Male competition would get worse.

I've heard every guy who's presented this argument, say that men will not turn down a girl, half as much as girls turn down guys. Women have a good amount of different men seeking her - how would you feel as a man, for her to be walking up to every guy plus you - getting all your guys's numbers - and then ultimately still having " veto power -" because one guy out of your group rejects her 5 of you other guys will accept her. So now, you really have to step up your game against such a blatant circumstance. What's even more emphasized - is that your readily expandable if you don't get her favor.

I know I know - that sounds bad - but that's the nasty reality of veto power. Men are lax on their standards for women, so for a chick to go out and find a dude ( and all men have confirmed this that I've spoken too -) it's pretty easy. Even for women who aren't half way decent looking - there are men who will take them.

4. Sexual Liberation and Modern Mentality Women

Some Girls are just as doggish as guys - and the influence we have in men can make that aspect ridiculously more severe. You think it's bad now that a lot of girls open their legs up to guys so soon? Men give women sex easily - because they want sex badly - this idea of sexual openess on top of that - holy sh*t - not that I'm saying girls will instantly become whores - but sex is so casual in society - getting multiple guys for sex would be thrice as easy - even if they're just boyfriends because men aren't as picky with this.

Lets not exclude the femanazi - and hyper feminine ideas in society to add to that as well.

Men think women have power now?

I don't think this approaching thing will help more than it will hurt.

What do you think?

So, yes I'm tubby and I'm not afraid to admit it. I eat healthy and I barely eat much at all (my skinnier friends eat 2 times the amount of food that I do) but I have TERRIBLE family genes from my dad's side which has given me the trait of a hella low metabolism lol. I could gain a pound from eating an apple (slight exaggeration.. but you get the point lol)

For the past 3 months, I've been working my ass off at home to get my "energy level"/stamina up by exercising and eating even more healthy (ex: gave up soda, Haven't touched chocolate or ice cream, eating more things like special K cereal, drinking more water and green tea etc etc) So I hit my weight plateau and I had to amp it up. Now that school has started, I've been hitting the rec center's gym on campus. Even though I'm in a lot better condition than when summer started, I'm still way off my target --so I'm still "tubby" lol.

So my question is -- What do you guys think when you randomly see a little girl like me working out on the machines and doing weights and stuff? Does it make you think "what the hell is she doing here"? lol or are you thinking "about time woman!"? =)

just curious -- Because most people who go to the gym are in shape already and I'll be spending a LOT of time there on campus and I'm gonna have to be around a lot of cute guys. might be nice to know what they're thinking lol