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My best friend and I got into a fight recently. About a boy, I'm now dating and I really really like. To start off, I broke up with my ex boyfriend about three months ago and met my boyfriend when I went to my grandma's house for a two weeks and a half. Turns out he goes to my uni but is just in a different department. When we both returned from our vacation, we constantly met up after school, and I din't tell my friends because I was afraid they'd judge me for seeing someone right after my break up so I was waiting for the right moment.

Two weeks ago, my friend tells me she likes someone from her part-time job and everything. I ended up finding out it was my boyfriend. During that time, I stopped talking to my boyfriend and basically broke up with him but staying away from him hurt too much and we ended up getting back together.

Because of this, I decided to tell my friend I was dating him and she didn't react well. She got mad and called me a slut and that I was stealing every man from her because, she used to like my ex boyfriend too but he liked me. Before him, there was another guy in our high school who we both liked but he liked me instead and I decided not to pursue anything with him at that time.

I feel terrible towards her and now she says she doesn't want anything to do with me. Our friends found out and now, half of them are saying I'm at fault but I honestly don't think and I can't break up with my boyfriend because I seriously love him way too much to give him up. Yet I do want to make it up to her.

How can I fix things with her and keep the person I love? Is it really my fault her crushes liked me back? This isn't even a boasting post where I'm trying to look desirable. I never did anything to make them like me.

My boyfriend and I are in LDR. We were happy and sweet before. But lately we argued a lot. Sometimes it made me want to break up with him.

For example, He didn’t talk to me in between the day and just messaged me only two times a day for a week because he was playing video games with his friend.

He said terrible things to me like “ I’m gonna dump you if you won’t let me fuck enough.” and like “you’re boring”

Recently he promised me to send me a birthday gift since April. Now September, he hasn’t even shipped the present yet. He said he’s been busy. But he went to the amusement park, the zoo and went on mini trip on weekend. And he was on vacation for 2 weeks. And he just went to the amusement park again!

It made me feel like I’m not that important. If I am, he would have sent the present sooner and wouldn’t have made me wait for 5 months.

I haven’t talked to him for a while now. He’s asking me for forgiveness. But I really hesitate. I don’t know if he’s gonna treat the same or not. But I need a caring boyfriend.

What should I do?