Search Results: having the butterflies

Torn between my ex and new girl?

I met my ex earlier this year after being heart broken by my previous ex. She showed me a different light in life and made me really happy I fell in love with her. It was her first real relationship so she wasn't in love...

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How do you develop feelings for someone?

This is a pretty general question, kind of like 'research'... So, when I was younger, I used to develop feelings for girls pretty randomly. They were mysterious, I would have 'butterflies' around girls I was attracted to,...

ResearcherGuy

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How can I stop having feelings for one of my friends I used to hook up with?

I used to hook up with this guy on and off all of last school year and we developed feelings for each other. But, he was still having problems with an ex so it got very complicated and I moved on over the summer, or at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What am I? What is my sexuality? Do I like girls or is it just a phase?

I've liked guys for as long as I could remember I never really thought of being with someone who isn't a guy I'm a girl I'm in high school and i find my self feeling some type of way. Last year I met a girl who liked me I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I've liked guys for as long as I could remember I never really thought of being with someone who isn't a guy I'm a girl I'm in high school and i find my self feeling some type of way.

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Girls, how do I accept myself?

I often find myself desperate to experiment with the same sex... I have dreams where I get screwed by another male, even. I know the question is very... intimate. But I also find myself fearing intimacy - mostly because...

dude2520

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I'm a Libra why am I so dramatic?

I'm really wondering why as a Libra female I have to be so dramatic? Today I got the dreadful news that my co-worker moved away. I don't know why, but it hurt me sooooo very much! You see I'm an immigrant whose been...

Anonymous

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20 Weird Phobias You Might Have

Halloween is coming up soon, so I thought I would write a take on phobias. A phobia is fear of something. With the exception of a couple people, we all are scared of at least one thing. Some of us, whether it be from a...

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Why do you think my social relationships with other people changed so radically?

Let's put it this way... I've been unhappy since I was 8 years old and moved the summer before 3rd grade in 1997. Between then and now I have had varying degrees of unhappiness, ranging from having 0 friends to 4 at the...

RomanEmperor

Guru Age: 37

What do you think of my poem about my past love?

You and I's When we first spoke, my heart was still, No butterflies succumbed me, making me feel catastrophic, Instead, walls were dropped around me, trying to protect me, For I was not yet familiar of the world...

immjusttmee

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Do you think it's okay to date multiple people at once?

So, I've been seeing this guy right now mainly for about a month now, we get along well, share a lot of experiences with one another, we've been intimate, and he's even asked about a relationship. Although I like him and...

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So, I've been seeing this guy right now mainly for about a month now, we get along well, share a lot of experiences with one another, we've been intimate, and he's even asked about a

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Entertainment & Arts

Five Reasons TO Get a Tattoo

(I mean no offense. But you can't say this is wrong.) 1. It's a work of art. On your body. (I personally wouldn't get this. But damn that's pretty) Everyone (almost) has a certain level of appreciation for art yeah?...

BaileyisDarcy

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I'm too scared to talk to my crush?

We share gym class together, I am in the 10th grade, 5'7 and Asian. Looks don't mean everything to me as i am not the best looking but i am also not called ugly a lot, just known for having acne since the 8th grade which...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to get over fraternity guy?

I've had a crush on a fraternity guy I've never met for years. I've even wrote him a song: Jared, mmm hmm You're hair is perfect, it reminds me of the milkway You melt my heart and I'd give it away If you just say, I'll...

ImInLoveWithAFratGuy

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Is there a difference between having a crush on someone and being interested in them?

As I understand it, you can be interested in someone without having a crush on them, as in you would date them, but you're not necessarily actively pursuing them. While a crush to me, means getting butterflies in your...

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Shouldn't Harry Potter have ended up with Cho Chang or Hermione Granger?

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MAJOR SPOILERS!!! PLEASE GO BY THE BOOKS NOT THE FILMS (The later ones missed out several parts) Reasoning being: Cho Chang - his stomach always backflipped, he always felt nervous

MAJOR SPOILERS!!! PLEASE GO BY THE BOOKS NOT THE FILMS (The later ones missed out several parts)

Reasoning being:

Cho Chang - his stomach always backflipped, he always felt nervous and got butterflies with Cho Chang. The only time he didn't was when he was too angry about the whole Umbridge thing or distracted about Sirius/James Potter behavior or else under the influence of visions. Cho liked Harry since 3rd year, even in 4th she was blushing and in 5 it is clear she really really likes him. Harry also does like her, even in the final book they smile and he gets that feeling of butterflies again. Compared to Ginny (whose infatuation was partly down to Harry's fame) who is friends and more like a younger sister to him (since he is close to the Weasley's), Cho and Harry felt much more right. She was someone he clearly fancied. He wanted to impress her.

Hermione Granger - everyone including Dumbledore and Cho and at times Ron thought there was something there. Unlike Ginny who Harry was just friends with, there were moments in all the books where Hermione would cling to Harry or be close to him. She was also always loyal to him no matter what. Until the point in the later books where there seems to be her and Ron dating, it is actually more clear that Harry and Hermione are one of a kind and click. Cho got jealous at the mention of her, and only really saw her as a competitor. I mean aside from the fact that Emma Watson played the part so well and is pretty, this one also makes sense.

I think either of these two make a better match than Ginny. There is hardly any reason other than being a fan of the famous Potter or having been saved by Harry for the two to fancy each other. It comes out of nowhere. At no point in the first 5 books is Harry jealous of anyone dating Ginny, nor does he seem to care one iota. He cares about Hermione when Ron does bad things. He also clearly fancies Cho, not just physically, but in the times they can talk and are not distracted, they get on well. Ginny clearly knows they click, as she tries to prevent Cho going to the Ravenclaw common room alone with Harry - no doubt to stop them hitting it off again. After all they only really broke down over a one off argument, not over losing their feelings. Cho was still trying to make Harry jealous, and Harry was lost in his feelings of loss for a loved one.

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How do you know if someone is right when you are friends?

So we became friends in the early spring. We knew each other a little before. We talk a lot. He is soooo nice and actually one of the sweetest guys I ever met with a good heart. I can talk to him openly and honestly and I...

Anonymous

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The Butterfly People: A myTake on Asperger's Syndrome Awareness

Asperger's Syndrome; have you ever heard of it? It's a branch in the Autisim community where the majority of our people can be highly intellegent, yet socially awkward due to the abnormal wiring of our nureons-not to be...

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