Search Results: no spark at a date

Do some people just lack the "spark"?

Is it possible that there are individuals out there that have no chance of ever attracting anyone? I've approached hundreds of women, gone on a few dates here and there, but nothing substantial ever comes of it. In the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Dating a Friend's Ex: Good Idea or Bad Idea?

I think most people have heard of bro code or girl code, which states that "one shall not date a friend's ex," but is that always true? Is there a situation where dating a friend's ex would be totally cool? Bad Idea: Your...

BeeNee

Editor Age: 43

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Dating

Am I wrong if I DON'T WANT MARRIAGE?

Yes, I am overly done dating MEN esp after been hurt over and over by them.. I don't trust them nor want to invest in any more relationships. I have given up trying to date. Most of the men who come onto me just want sex...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Girls, Am I over thinking?

So went on a few dates with this girl, instant sparks from the first kiss. Texted everyday, said she wished i was there to kiss her every morning. Enjoyed cuddling with me all that stuff. She left for work, military...

Allbymyself85

Xper 5 Age: 41

Relationships

Are me and my hookup becoming too close?

Me and this guy went on a few dates and because we both felt like we got on really well but there was another girl who he wasn't really over/into we both mutually agreed upon a friends with benefits situation given...

katieeelmmdd

Xper 2 Age: 28

Relationships

Is my hook up getting too close?

katieeelmmdd

Xper 2 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Has my friends with benefits became blurred?

katieeelmmdd

Xper 2 Age: 28

Relationships

Is my hook up becoming too close?

katieeelmmdd

Xper 2 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend dumped me and broke my heart, now he wants me back but I have moved on. What should I do?

We were great together but from time to time he would get very cold and distant, and this made our relationship lose spark over the 7 years total. This last year together was very good, getting along so well. But then...

Zevenx11

Xper 4 Age: 29

Relationships

Is my friends with benefits situation too much?

katieeelmmdd

Xper 2 Age: 28

Dating

How to keep something open for a future relationship, after a badly timed fling?

I’ve just mutually ended a fling because the timing is off for both of us and want to know whether there’s a potential for something to happen in the future? For 6 weeks I’ve been seeing this guy (both late 20s) and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

Mutual interest between coworker and I found out. Need advice on how to handle gossip, and how to act around girl after this situation. Help please?

Okay... this is long, but I really need advice or i am going to go insane.. pleaseeeee help.😓 So my coworker and I have been working together for about 5 months and have gotten along well. At first i wasn't interested...

Ricky-man-man

Xper 4 Age: 31

Dating

No more sparks?

i’ve been on 4 dates with this guy, lots of “sparks” except on the 4th date there’s not intense sparks anymore... is this bad? he asked me to be his girlfriend i said yes but i’m scared.. why don’t i feel the same as the...

dumbblonde1998

Xper 5 Age: 27

Dating

Why do women hate me?

My whole life I've never had a girlfriend or even complete sex.. and it really makes me sad I need love and affection so bad, I just want a chance to have love and sparks with someone special. But no one has ever wanted...

Lemonz666

Xper 4 Age: 28

Relationships

So do you think I fail at life?

A girl I have been texting for weeks, went on 6 dates with her. I kissed her multiple times but could never hold her hand just ended it with me... I am hurt. Always hurt in life. She said she thought the spark would grow...

CorrectingMyLife85

Xper 5 Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

What can I do to get over my ex gf? I don't know what else to do?

Long story short, I made her mine and we were together 2 years with one break up halfway in due to her feelings hitting a wall. We got back, it was good, and then we broke up again recently because I was falling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is my guy friend not talking to me?

So I was seeing this guy for over a year and he decided to break things off a few weeks ago because he "didn't feel a spark" and didn't see a future with me. He told me that we're strictly friends now and anything I can...

Ddemm

Xper 4 Age: 28

Relationships

Keep That Spark Alive!

Ideas on how to keep the spark alive with your partner on a budget and when their is just not enough hours in the day. Now that's a thought. I won't deny it can be a challenge for some of us. Some couples have more money...

Lou1973

Xper 6 Age: 52

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Dating

Did our first date went well? Or it was a disaster?

This will get a bit long but I hope you could read it and give some advice. I'll be detailed as much as possible. I have dated this girl I like and I should admit, there is a point where my tongue tied when she asked a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did my ex post a selfie of her smiling the day after she broke up with me? Felt a bit insensitive?

Girlfriend (now my ex) started acting distant and taking longer to reply a week and a half ago. Our last date she was really cold with me but at the end she was acting really hot, holding my hand, passionately kissing,...

rambo_92

Xper 5 Age: 34