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My teeth aqe brownish reddish yellow from discloarion due to anti biotics when i was a baby. they are very healthy and no caveties but they look like something is wrong. its expensive fixing them, but I've done the top 6 and ill be going oveseas to fix the rest. within the yea. bc its so muich cheaper.

thing is there's a guy i really like and he's begun courting me, but i keep stalling and trying to keep him as a friend though i obviuosly like him, bc im terified hell discover what my teeth look like in back, and hell dump me, or spread rumors. yes obvously if he's ths way i dont want him, but no one really knows what a person is like i dont kow him well enough.

now,. if i just wait a year hell never know, but i can't realy keep him waiting a year -its been several months since we developed clear interest. he's already starting to think im playing games- and i dont want to tell him why bc i dont want him thinking of me with yellow teeth-- i really just want to start over once its fixed. never klook back. I've waited 20 years.

you dont notice if im talking but i think if i was close to someone theyd notice. I've never been in a relationship bc of this, and now im an adult im going to get it fixed. i didn't expect to meet anyone till they were fixed. i just automatically avoid anyone i might be interested in, but he slipped through the radar.

i think i should wait bc im self consacious so even if he didn't notice id worry about it and itd fuck up the relationship. but of course ill lose him if i doint tell him why buyr i really dont want to tell him and i dont want t lie. anything he imagines can be really bad so I don't know. what to do?

So I'm a freshman in college and I've been talking to this guy named Adam for a few weeks now. Everything was going pretty good but then he heard rumors about me from his friends that he started to "sort of" believe. They were telling him that I was a whore but it was only because I wasn't giving them what they wanted.. So they thought in order to make me feel like crap for not hooking up with them they should spread a rumor about me. So now it's my word against theirs. Anyways, he believed them for a while until I told him it wasn't true. But then when we were hooking up, I accidentally called him the wrong name. Instead of calling him Adam, I called him Ryan. It was by total accident, and I think it's because I have so many guy friends with that name and I was so into what Adam was doing that I wasn't thinking straight. Now he won't talk to me and I've tried everything I think I should have to get him to try and see my side to things. I'm head over heels for this guy (corny, I know) and I don't want to just lose him. I'd try anything to get him back but I don't know if there's anything I actually can do... Any opinions or answers would be REALLY helpful. Thank you!

A few times when people brought up the ship he said"I dont want her she's shit" but another time he asked me what I thought about him (by text) I've caught him looking at me in class but 3/4 times im with my best friend who I think he might like.. Help what does this mean. My friends r telling me to let go but I can't. I go to school in asia so the guys are different than from other guys.

I've played it by the book for the past 4 years, referring to Emily Post etiquite guides everytime she has behaved disrespectfully towards me, my home and even my husband. I've kept my opinions to myself, rarely voicing my frustrations because I didn't want to cause issues.
A few weeks ago, she showed up at our house at 10:00 pm on a Sunday night with her 2 children (6 years;4 mos) and I hit my limit. I tried my best to be respectful in asking her to leave but I wasn't exactly patient or kind, and so she completely lost it, eventually storming out the door (almost an HOUR after arriving unannounced). Since then, she has spread aweful rumors about me to our circle of friends, going as far as telling my husband that I'm a bossy, lazy and terrible wife; and that since she considers him family she wants him to know that I am "disrespectful and rude".
When I tried to apologize for the miscommunication, she said some pretty nasty things to me, which now has me doubting myself. She's told me that she doesn't want me around her kids, but her husband still brings them over. I'm at a loss as to what I should do.
This woman has walked all over me for years and treats me like I'm the scum of the earth and as soon as I stand up for myself, I've validated it in her mind. I don't want to cause any further issues for them, but I also don't want to allow her the satisfaction of bringing me down. Our mutual friends have asked me what is going on, but I don't know what to tell them. I don't believe in gossip and avoid it whenever possible.

How can I keep the peace without losing my dignity? Is it even possible?
What do I tell our friends? How do I handle situations involving them and her?

NOTE: I've already talked with my husband about the things she said to him; He told me to ignore it because she's wrong. He was very sweet and listed everything I do for him, which is enough for me not to put any stock in her statement.

Was I wrong in asking her to leave that night? (Poll)