Wow okay so you're 14 now so I hope I can help you learn something I didn't learn until I was 18. She's a mean girl and a mean girl won't ever be a friend even if you are BFF's and sleep at each oher's houses 4 nights a week.
I was fortunate enough that all of my close friends were true friends until my sophomore year in high school. None of my friends would have done anything like this to me EVER. if they found it and thought it was me they would launch into damage control not recruit people for further embarrassment. She is intentionally making it up.
Friends like this suck and make life worse than it would be if you had no friends at all. It can be very damaging to you.
I moved half way through Freshman year in high school and it took a long time to find true friends because I was pretty, popular and smart. Most of the popular girls hated me secretly and befriended me either for their own social gain or sabotage. I came from a rich community where I was just average popular and had good friends in the dozens so I wasn't prepared for this kind of back stabbing.
Anything I told these girls in confidence they would leak publicly infront of guys while I was present. For me that was the end of our close friendship but for them it was normal behavior and even when I met them in college through mutual friends they couldn't understand what went wrong. To be fair if your Dad died or something they'd be there but only for attention. They will always throw you under the bus for social status.
I found three really good friends in high school. One was like me a pretty new girl that was popular, another was a town legacy but didn't hang with the partiers and we lived together in college, the other was a girl who also moved to town two years before me and was a cheerleader but we were friends through college and always went out of country on spring break together.
BOTTOM LINE If your friend embarrasses you are makes you feel bad about yourself when around she isn't your friend and you cannot hang with her anymore.
When I quit hanging with my mean girl I worried people would all pick her and I would t be invited to parties but that so wasn't the case. We did have friends that hit both parties but none abandoned me and I talked to them for years after high school.
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You should just confront her and tell her you didn't and if it's a joke she might as well tell you now because you're only going to be mad in the end.
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This would go under child porn and is illegal. You can take legal action
that s like bullying and child porn you should report this or so
Than report her ass!
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