Why did a guy friend accuse me of sending nudes to men?

[Anonymous]

I considered this guy a friend and used to help him out with various things. We were never in any relationship. We had a fallout of sorts, and he baselessly accused me of being in the habit of sending nudes to men. I never sent any nudes to anyone ever in my life. Later that day he tried to force himself on me. I threatened to call police, left and cut contact. Why would he make accusations out of the blue? He was never rude or aggressive before.

[spartan55]

So you are more concerned about him saying you sent nudes then him sexually assaulting you? Why do you girls always focus on the least important component of a situation? It's like a superpower.

[DishLady]

(To be fair, girls usually aren’t this stupid tbh. I’m a little surprised by her post.)

[Asker]

I think the former is mental assault and both behaviors go together. I’m just surprised and disgusted because it seems so out of character for him

[Asker]

@DishLady I’m mostly just astonished this person would do either, as it is totally out of character

[Asker]

It wasn’t somebody I just met

[Asker]

I’m also asking because I’m interested from a psychological aspect to know what motivates somebody to behave like this

[spartan55]

What motivates him? Really? Wow you are really clueless. You should have called the police instead of trying to play armchair psychiatrist.

[Asker]

That’s victim mentality. I was treated badly but not harmed. I want to understand what motivated the lashing out, verbally and physically in someone who never did that before. Kind of the same interest I take in watching true crime shows to understand what motivates a serial killer.

[spartan55]

What is victim mentality? Calling the police when you were sexually assaulted? You are making no sense. You are also wasting your time trying to 'understand' this guy. You'll never know. And if you happen to figure him out then what? Nothing.

[Asker]

Nothing happened. If it had, I definitely would have reported it. It’s not about him. It’s about me wanting to gain insights into human behavior

[spartan55]

"he tried to force himself on me"
"nothing happened"...
Yeah, no one should believe a word you say. Smh...🙄

[Asker]

I told him no and he stopped

[spartan55]

But you said nothing happened?

[Asker]

Exactly.

[spartan55]

So, which is it? You know what don't answer that. You have zero credibility.

[Asker]

“Tried”

[Luckycharms12]

Probably jealous and into you

[Asker]

I think it’s weird. He never showed any aggression before

[Luckycharms12]

When you like someone makes people do silly things

[Asker]

This was worse than silly

[Luckycharms12]

Jealous

[Anonymous]

To hurt you.

[Asker]

Why would he even care to do that?

[spartan55]

@asker why do you care enough to post about a guy who sexually assaulted you?