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He dumped me out of the blue about a month ago. Obviously I was hurt and confused. During the breakup, he kept saying how he really really wants to be friends. We haven't had any contact since that night, except when I dropped off his stuff I left a letter explaining my confusion in his sciency terms "when something at work doesn't work you wouldn't throw it away, you'd inquire, analyze, collaborate" etc. The end of the letter was a P. S. saying I'm not ready to be friends, but I'd be open to chat when we're both ready for some open and honest communication.

He received that 2 weeks ago... I'm wondering if he interpreted the letter as I'll be in touch with him? I'm out of town for another week, but I really do want to sit down and chat with him when I'm back. Should I text him when I'm back? If so, what should I say?

His reason for dumping me was "I just never developed the feelings I thought I would" which I think is total bullshit. He's been saying I love you for months and months. The timing of the breakup was when he was super stressed with family and work, and I want to see if... now that things have settled down he would reconsider being together.

For me there’s no need to be in contact everyday with the person to have the same meaningless chats over and over everyday. My friend got dumped because she was texting her boyfriend every hour of the day just saying pointless stuff. I told her maybe she should give him space but she said it’s not a relationship if you’re not constantly in contact.

If I don’t text my boyfriend for 2 days etc it doesn’t mean I don’t love him during those 2 days I think about him but also I’m loving having my space.

A lot of people just seem so clingy and desperate to stay in contact. I think if you’re more relaxed about things the relationship lasts longer. What are your thoughts?