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So me and my boyfriend (of 2 years) were talking on the phone
This was the conversation:

Me - hey do you think a couple can last 4 hours in bed?
Him - no. Mayb if theyre on drugs.
Me - really?
Him - yeah. Why u asking? Who is it?
Me - nah just work friend
Him - girl or guy?
Me - a guy
Him - what the fk? And you're tlking about sex with him?
Me - no he just said it randomly
Him - yeah to get in your freakin pants! he's probably lying about lasting in bed for 4 hours. No guy would say that just randomly
Me - wtf? Why u so mad?
Him - ok look, what if i did the same? What if i tell one of my girl work mates about our sex life? How would u feel?
Me - i would be pissed off.
Him - exactly. So why do u think im mad?
Me - u think he's hitting on me?
Him - no shit sherlock
Me - but im not even tlking about my sex life to him. When he told me I just laughed and said ok
Him - you shouldve said "yeh my boyfriend last longer" then he would shut up
Me - he knows im taken
Him - so what? Some guys dont care. Some guys won't stop even if u do have a boyfriend. Omg you're so naive sometimes. Im so pissed.

What the heck?
Did I do something wrong here?

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago
We still stay in touch every week
And we also hang out every week
But I've been seeing this other guy (hes a mechanic/workshop manager) but my ex doesn't know
So today we went for dinner and went to watch a movie together
And then he drive me back home
This was our conversation in the car:
Me - random question, do you think mechanics earn decent money?
Ex boyfriend - that was random, are u seeing a mechanic guy?
Me - no im just asking
Ex boyfriend - nah there's a reason why u asking. Are u seeing a mechanic guy? Or ur planning to date a mechanic guy?
Me - nah just asking coz my brother is studying for it (*this is a lie*)
Ex boyfriend - nah i think you're lying, its obvious, you're seeing this mechanic guy, tell me, i dont care
Me - just dont worry about it
Ex boyfriend - nah tell me.
Me - im not seeing any guy
Ex boyfriend - so ur brother is studying for this? Im gonna ask him when I see him
Me - really?
Ex boyfriend - yep
Me - ok
And then we changed topic
Then 10 mins later:
Ex boyfriend - so you're going out with a mechanic guy huh, i still dont believe that you're talking about your brother, i think you're seeing a guy
Me - whatever u wanna think
Ex boyfriend - i would know if you're dating a guy, coz if i ask u to go somewhere and you say no, i would know that you're seeing someone
Whats his problem?
Does it seem like he cares or he doesn't actually care that im seeing a guy?

I used to like this guy. I was always nice to him and talked to him. I'm very introverted and to myself, so it's rare for me to do that.
He was very mean to me when I was nice, so I stopped being nice to him. When I talked about important things he would say I was rambling about nothing. His friend would tell people he didn't have anything in his brain and I needee to shut up and stop thinking so much. I found out about his horrible spending habits, drug abuse and large number of friends. I tried to encourage him to invest his money instead, go to rehab and choose his friends more wisely. He called me a gold digger, controlling and a stalker.

I had enough. He'd tell me he liked me. But I realize I was a toy and entertainment for him. Hed go back and tell his friends I was a stalker and I annoyed him, he didn't want to hang out with me. I confronted him about gossiping about me with his ex and lying about liking me. It was automatically assumed I was jealous of her because she's a model, tall, blonde hair and blue eyes. But I think I'm beautiful no matter what.

I cut him off and never looked back. Ill never know or understand why he did those things, probably will never. I've come to terms with it. he's shallow. He told me he trusted young people because he liked their faces and he spent $1000 on a pair of jeans and popped pills. I dont think he's rich enough to travel, spend that kind of money on clothes, buy drugs and live in San Diego.

Anyways, all his friends wanted to be rich and famous. I started noticing them hanging around rappers with large IG followings. Im assuming they bought expensive clothes to impress those rappers. But I was very done wih him because his friend talked about eating coke.

My dad died from drugs, drinking and partying. It never interested me because I know what it does to your body long term. Exercising, resting and eating healthy is essential.

Anyways, Im glad I cut off fake people.

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up over a month ago
He still messages and calls me often
I've never reached out to him first ever since the break up
He also initiates hanging out to the movies
So anyway he called me up randomly today and he was asking about if im dating other guys:
Him - so hows everything? Hows work?
Me - yeh good same old
Him -thats good. What other things u been doing?
Me -ah just some other things
Him - are u still watching tv shows?
Me - nah im hardly home
Him -oh busy girl huh? Youve been out dating other guys?
Me - *quiet*
Him - its ok you can tell me
Me - nah im not
Him -yea bull.. i know you're lying. You can tell me, i dont care
Me - nah why do u think i am?
Him - coz before we became exclusive, u told me that one day u kissed me and then this other guy at night on the same day
Me - oh wow u rememebered
Him - ofcourse i remembered.. but yea you can tell me seriously, coz you can do whatever you want
Does he really not care if im dating other guys?