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We talk on the phone every night (he wants to check up on me everyday and just to talk). Anyway yesterday night I told him "baby ima go to sleep early" and didn't get any response for a while so I decided to put my phone on silent and try to sleep. An hour later, I checked my phone and he gave me a missed call and multiple messages - he sounded quite angry.. in his messages he said this:
"i was sleeping so i didn't get back to u sooner. why didn't u call me instead of messaging me? next time just call!! you couldve woken me up so we can still talk. and you only gave me one sentence without an explanation. how do u think I feel? its so suspicious. you hardly call me. i always call u. i feel like you dont care about me and you never take me seriously. if you can't take me seriously just tell me and i will let you go and find someone who would be serious with me and take me seriously." and then called him to sort it out.
- I hardly call him (I only message him) because in my previous relationship, I used to call my ex at random times and he would tell me off and didn't like me calling him unless I message him first. So that is why Im abit nervous to call my current boyfriend at random times.. i never told him this though
Am I in the wrong here? ? Is he right to be upset?

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been online dating for almost 3 years. I love him so much and we consider our love and relationship to be real and serious well he says I'm his first girlfriend ever and that he never had a relationship before me. Well I remember him on another website (the one where we met from) before we started talking dating flirting and sending out flirt/love emojis and saying how awesome she is. When we first started he said she was his ex and that they made an agreement that when they found someone in real life that they'd break up. Ok, fast foward to 2 years of us being together he says that I'm his first and that she was a *pretend gf* and that made me think what am I to you then? He said I'm real and that I'm his first girlfriend ever he made me insecure, jealous, and made me have trust issues. I used to bring it up and get angry at him everyday for it til the point he said that same things over and over to be that I was his first that I calmed down but every once in a while it still eats at me and is in the back of my mind. Like today I was showing him my new laptop and I said "let me search your username on google to see what we'll find" then I seen what I saw a long long time ago that pissed me off his Yahoo answer profile with him flirting w/ that same girl. I couldn't help but click it and got annoyed which said he was last active 4 years ago. He was telling me to get off but I got upset and over reacted and was questioning what a pretend gf/date is. He hung up on me and I was calling him back and we talked a little. I got upset and started crying. I asked him if I messaged her and asked if you guys ever dated what would she say he said "Idk". I don't care it's just the fact he said "pretend gf* and said I was his first girlfriend.. It doesn't make any sense to me? I don't understand. What do you think and did I overreact or would you feel the same way I do? He just hung up on me and said his phone was dying even though I was crying. I think he fell asleep.. I feel bad now