Why do I feel like my boyfriend is doing something behind my back with another girl, whether it's talking over text or just seeing a girl. He's told me he's never cheated in his life and neither have I honestly. I believed him cause the way he talked about his past relationships of how they treated him badly and he's always wanted a girlfriend the right one. And hard to believe but he was a virgin until he met me. I wasn't a virgin before I met him. I had so much trust and everything with him cause the way he would treat me texting/calling/face timing me everyday and we're on our 5th month and he still does it. But when there's little change it makes me think I don't know if that's just me but I remember one thing that wasn't true... he told me that he doesn't have any of his exs as a friend on social media until he told me about an ex and said her name then I see her on his social media as a friend, kinda weird. He still treats me the same and been seeing his family a lot. Am I just overthinking? Whenever I say something that upsets me or don't like something he listens and does whatever to make me happy but sometimes I feel like he holds back a little.
Most Helpful Guy
trust your gut not your heart on that. because the heart will lie to you , it wants what it wants even if its bad for you.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you normally trust him and are not a jealous, paranoid, or insecure person, then I think you should trust your gut. You do have to differentiate whether these feelings are coming from your intuition or your insecurity though. In my personal experience, my gut feeling has always been right. It's just like suddenly something changes and something feels wrong but you can't put your finger on exactly what it is. Don't go accusing him right away, but just keep an eye out, be cautious. Follow your instincts.0