"He has cheated behind my back." -- Well it's good that he didn't do it in front of you, because that would just be a complete relationship killer.
Honestly though, I know that once you have been in a relationship for as long as you have (4 years) you have very strong feelings. But being in a good relationship means that both people share those feelings. If he has cheated on you, and now is texting someone else then it is pretty clear that he does not share those feelings.
While it's a hard decision to make considering the time (and emotions) that you have invested, the best thing would be to move on, and get a man that doesn't give you such a serious reason to look for answers on the internet.
Best of luck!
I think forgiveness is somethin worth to look upon especially that you've been 4 years together. confront him ask him if he has done it before; if he answers yes leave him since he will do it again if he says no trust his answer this time and be alert. If he does it again ur trust for him is gone which will make it easier to end it
I agree you really need to let this guy go, if he cheated on you that is something you should not have to deal with ever. I could never forgive something like that ever. I know you still love him and you will always love him. To be togehter for 4 years is something great but if he doesn't respect you as his girlfriend and he is cheating, he doesn't really love you back. It will hurt I'm sure but letting go is the best thing you could ever do, because if you keep sticking with him then it will get worse and worse for you... I hope things will work out for you.
there is a better guy out there for you there is someone out there for us all!
goodluck
stephanie
Girl you need to let him go. And you said he has cheated before then let it go because it is not going to get better it will only get worse. And maybe you won't listen to my advice but I'm tellin you it won't get better. 4 yrs is a long time though and I know you feel like he owes you because you dedicated your time and effort. And you don't deserve it but I'm tellin you let it go. Slowly talk to other people and that will get him off your mind. Ignore him and he's in the army so don't hold him down if he doesn't show you love when he's coming back from the army. He might be using you.
once a cheater always a cheater. I think that says everything. if you can deal with not trusting him again and questioning whohe is with, what he is doing for the rest of your life, then go back to him, if you can't then you'll have to let go and know there's someone just as amazing (minus the cheating part!) you will find.
Talk to him,
Don't assume he's doing it and not talk to him, because that just says that neither you or him are worth the truth.
If he is cheating, then leave him...because you deserve so much better. You deserve someone who will love you, and respect the fact that he's with you, and not the entire city...
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"He has cheated behind my back." -- Well it's good that he didn't do it in front of you, because that would just be a complete relationship killer.
Honestly though, I know that once you have been in a relationship for as long as you have (4 years) you have very strong feelings. But being in a good relationship means that both people share those feelings. If he has cheated on you, and now is texting someone else then it is pretty clear that he does not share those feelings.
While it's a hard decision to make considering the time (and emotions) that you have invested, the best thing would be to move on, and get a man that doesn't give you such a serious reason to look for answers on the internet.
Best of luck!
unless you want him to cheat you again whn you 2 married then is fine or else! leave him! you can get hurt twice
yea cheating boyfriends are never worth it. no matter how much you care about him now, you can care for someone just as much if not more who won't cheat on you, and who is all for you.
No woman should put up with a cheating guy.
No woman deserves a cheating man,
if you do not learn to let go the only person that you are letting down is yourself.
i can tell that you are a person who is sentimental and treasures relationships so don't waste your affections on a cheater!
Confront him about it. Do not act like its not happening. Talk to him about it. You might have to end the relationship.
Honey. You caught him in it. Ok it's hard. the same thing happened to my friend. You will find someone who will love you more than he could ever. trust me. leave him.
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