What do I do? I think my boyfriend may be cheating?

Question

I’ve been involved with a man for most of this year, I have deep feelings for him. He is culturally Indian (India) and I am from the USA. Within a span of three months, he has made comments or had behaviors that have caused me a o become confused about who we are to each other, and what his sexuality is. In our earliest conversations, he would say that gay/homosexuality was against the nature of God, that he is for humanity. But would also say that he does not enjoy physical intimacy/making love with me but does it for me because I want it and that Not the kind of intimacy he likes. Another time he said, he wasn’t sure what he wanted… then one day we were talking and joking and out of nowhere he says something about him engaging in same-sex intimacy and the “the guy takes it”… but he said later that was a joke. Then he started hanging out with some guy and when he would be around him and on the phone with me, he wouldn’t call me “babe” anymore, but he would call me by name and he would have a different attitude towards me. When I would address this with him he would tell me that there was something wrong with me… then there were a few times that my messages and phone calls would not go through and he would ask me why I used so many different methods to reach him (text, WhatsApp, Snapchat etc). And it sounded like he was not alone and one time while he was in a car with someone I heard movement and then he muted the mic for at least 15 seconds, then I hear a car door close and when I asked him why he muted me, he laughed and said the guy said something to his girlfriend. I don’t know what to think about his behavior, this isn’t all, but I can’t type it all here. All I know is whenever I approach him about something he says or did, I become at fault or he tells me I am wrong in my memory or understanding. I am confused and hurt, I don’t know what’s happening.

NibirX · Accepted Answer

I don't get a clear idea... but I would say always be straight forward while writing making bullet point what you think and what happened

Advise:

trap him by easing him or let him make a mistake a bit more... if you get strong evidence... break up with him...

you can try tricking his social media is passwords and phone call.

track his timeblocks where he stays

TommyMountainFigure · Accepted Answer

First thing you do is calm down and take 10 seconds. deep breaths.. Now detach your feelings from what you typed up there and read it again as if you are a third party reading those details for the very first time.

What advice would you give to her? My guess is you'd say turn around and run.. as fast as you can never looking back.. right?
Yep. That's my advice too

tatianamay · Accepted Answer

It's time to dump him. He's an asshole who doesn't deserve you. Dump him, don't look back and run

Anonymous · Answer

Okay, by brown standards his an asshole its. As someone whose well acquainted with this. You are being belittled and you are basically seen as a piece of meat. My Advice Run.