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Hi everyone, so this actually happened a few years ago, obviously I'm over the guy by now, but I still wonder about it sometimes, and thought I might get some answers on here!

I used to fancy this guy who was a barman in my favourite bar. We had mutual friends and had chatted a few times. I used to wonder if he was interested, as he used to look over and catch my eye, and we'd smile at each other, and he would talk to me at the bar.

My friend told me that he was a bit shy around women, and he had only had one girlfriend before.

So I decided to be brave and asked him if he'd like to go for a drink sometime. He said yes, so I gave him my number, and then my friends and I left the bar to go somewhere else. (We were friends on facebook as well.)

I asked one of my male friends how long he would take to get in touch, if he was interested. He said that it would be a few days at the most. But I heard nothing at all from him for 3 weeks. I was really embarrassed and felt like I'd made a fool of myself, by asking him out when he wasn't interested.

So I went out with some friends and we ended up in his bar. Another guy started flirting, I liked him, so I let him kiss me near the end of the night. The barman saw. So then he started ignoring me, every time I went to the bar, he would turn and walk away. My friend saw what was happening, and agreed he was avoiding me.

The next time we were in the bar, he did it again. He kept walking away, and wouldn't serve me or talk to me, until my friend kind of forced him to, by coming to the bar with me, and shouting him, so he had to come over, and I started a conversation with him. After that, he did start talking to me and being friendly again, and things have been fine since (although we don't bump into each other often anymore).

So why did he get in a mood when I kissed another guy?

A few days ago I went out clubbing with my friends. When we were at a bar one of my guy friends I haven't heard from for a while ( he was my classmate in highschool) called me to ask me where we were at that time so he could come and go to the club with us. When he and his other guy friends came, he immediately came to me and hugged me.. Later, when we came to that club he was already sitting at a table with his friends and when me and my friend came he waved at me and told me to go sit next to him.. At first I ignored him so he called me once more and then I went. We were sitting really close to each other and our legs were touching (I think it was on purpose), but I was pretending I didn't noticed it.. He also wanted to drink from my glass so I allowed him to.. Later he said he wanted to go to the dancefloor, so me, my best friend, her boyfriend and him went to the dancefloor.. We were dancing and because I'm shy I didn't want to dance with him and rather danced with my best friend. When we went to order drinks, he was standing next to me and wanted to chat with me.
I should also mention I really liked him in highschool, but now that we don't see each other that often I kind of forgot about him, and he also has a girlfriend for almost 2 years now.
So what do you think, was he flirting and likes me or not? Thank you for your help! :)