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So, my bf and I have talked about having children before, we even planned a pregnancy, but I didn't get pregnant. Ever since then, he's been really wanting to get me pregnant. He loves the idea of getting me pregnant, he even falls asleep while holding my lower tummy. I would love to have a child, but I fear I'm too young. At first I was completely for it, but I thought extra hard on it and figured it'd be hard with school. My boyfriend is about to be 21 and I'm 18, I know we're young, but he's very independent. He works 2 jobs and pays his own rent and car insurance and health insurance, he pays whenever we go out, he's also very chivalrous and opens all the doors for me as well as speaking to me with respect. I know we're young and life would be hard, but I'm willing. I think I'm going to wait, but I want others opinions. Also, please help on how to tell him.

Okay. Sounds crazy, long story short, they fell in love at a young age, had a kid, she left without a word. 8 months later i came along, sat through the custody battles, help raise his son and our life together evolved. there's just one small problem... i think they still love eachother.

I get that people who have kids together always share that bond, but this is different. His face lights up when he opens the door to her, when it's his birthday he gets cute little hand written cards from her and their son. The first person to find out that she was pregnant with her current boyfriend, was mine. Now, i might be being over the top here... but if i fell pregnant, the last person i would tell, if i were even to tell them, would be my ex.. not the first person i'd tell.

We've been together for 2 and a half years, rocky to say the least, but we've been through so much. Its just getting to the point where i feel like i'm being compared to what they had and i am never going to be good enough. I'll add that i have already spoke to him about this which resulted in explosive outcome :/

So, what do i do?