Search Results: guilt and shame
Am I a bad person?
I met an older woman online a few years ago. I was 28 she was 42 and unhappily married. We had Skype often and talked about meeting in person. I eventually flew out to visit her and see if we would get along in person....
So much anti-dating a guy short/shorter than a girl s*** on here isn't there?
Things that annoy me on this post 1) People who say it's 'werid' or awkward' Not all guys are supertall, not all girls are super shot 2) People who blame 'pre-wired genetics' bulls*** and say I have the right to like...
Girls, how do I get over my hatred of christianity?
I was raised as a very strict Christian as a child that put me in a constant state of fear and anexity, as a child I was told by my farther as I was learning in school if I told him that if I was learning about evolution...
The Realest Guide to Getting Over a Breakup
Nothing hurts more than a broken heart. Give this a read and it could inspire you. There Is No Shame In Loving Too Much You put your heart on the line. You were there willing to be there for them. But they let YOU down....
Freeing Myself From African American Cultural Limitations
Note: This post will make some readers angry if they choose to misunderstand and if they think their culture should be placed above the cultures of Black people who don't live in the USA.This is not about having pride in...
Why do women thoroughly abuse men, especially in private?
While only 40% of reported domestic violence is committed by women, recent studies (like at harvard) show that women are more likely to be intimate terrorists and that actually 70% of domestic violence is done by women to...
Do you ever feel guilty about everything? Even things that are not your own doing?
This happens to me sometimes, usually late at night. I'll think back to all the times I've fought with anyone and I'll hate myself for it. I'll think of every episode of anger I've ever had and feel immense guilt and...
Crying to relieve myself or enduring to keep building up my shell?
I know the title is not clear so I'll try and explain the best I can. It's been barely two months since I broke up with my girlfriend of three years and sometimes I feel miserable. We broke up in the worst possible way...
Why do women treat men so badly?
It's not just in relationships, but in society as a whole women treat men like pretty badly. To name a few ways: - Men are demonized by women - Men have to pay for the dates, open doors and hold bags even though the...
Is 3-4 months the perfect amount of time to keep a woman around?
By that time, we've had plenty of sex and we've had a good time together. We know each other as much as we ought to. But by that time we've also started arguing and becoming less tolerant of each others bullshit. She...
If you could take a pill that would block all your main emotions, would you?
It blocks fear, anger, hate, bitterness, sadness, guilt and shame but also blocks love, happiness, hope and joy. You would still have minor emotions like enjoying certain foods or feeling small amounts of pain....
How do I hurt my female friend verbally? She has dishonored me greatly?
Well I suppose you won't just tell me so let me explain briefly my situation... I'm a Phd student and she's my friend and classmate. Our group was working on a investigative project for my supervisor but she told her ex...
Is my crush using me to seek attention?
He just stares at me, long and hard, with these kind of looks of guilt/shame. I know that look. It's crap; guilty people usually look AWAY, this guy just stares. I think because he saw me stumble once, (verbally), he...
Will society ALWAYS be rigged in favor of women?
Womens' cunning intelligence is much superior to that of men. (maybe because they care and maybe because they are inherently superior) Women do not use direct communication or show off physical strength because that is a...
How do you get past the guilt of getting raped?
So it's a pretty heavy subject but I'm not able to get over it. I had some counseling right after but it did nothing for me. The huge issue is that it actually was my fault. I was on vacation in another country and the...
A Myth Disproved: Bullies Actually Have 'HIGH' Self-Esteem!
The Truth About Bullies A HUGE myth that's been going around for years is that bullies have low self-esteem, and that's what causes them to lash out at innocent people. However, the truth is that bullies actually have a...
What's with white shaming and guilt?
Why do some people shame white people, and try to give them white guilt? Why are we blamed for the doings of our ancestors, by people who weren't directly effected? And why is no other race guilted for what their...
What is the longest grudge you held?
The longest one I held was for my father and that lasted 14 years maybe even longer. But I don't talk ill about him he cannot help that he is a selfish bastard. You cannot reason with a narcissistic sociopath lol. I...
A new slate in life. Is it possible to truly start your life afresh?
Many of us, people who may have a bad past or secrets we'd like to forget, the idea of starting things afresh is an appealing idea. However, it's not as easy as it seems... Past secrets seem to find a way of coming back...
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