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I got out of a long-distance relationship where I was getting pressured into becoming a great cook or else he wouldn't come visit me and marry me.

Certain days, whenever there was an argument created by him mainly... it always felt like he wanted things his way and if I ever felt stressed out by him... he would promise he would stop caring about me and not speak to me for several days or so. One day he hung up on me during an argument, in which I was explaining how frustrated I felt. Somehow I always felt as if I was in the wrong till I had enough.

My mother by now is aware of all this. I told her. She told me she would rather get hit once (at least a bruise goes away) than feel with mental games and manipulation. According to her, she considers emotional and psychological abuse worse because bruises heal but your mind doesn't and it might take years to get over it.

People without the grace of God are full of egoism, mind tricks, silent treatments, manipulation, derranged thoughts, revengefulness etc. and the relationship fails eventualy. godly people have humility and always strive for true love (not lust), always forgive, always understand, always wait, dont care if their opinion isn't always first, so things can't fail with them if they are both deeply spiritual and not only appear so. Modern people change 30 parntners like that is gonna change anything. if the person isn't transformed from the inside out it will hopelessly seek the roots of its misery in external sources.