The Full Guide For Women (And Men) On How To Detect A Disloyal Partner

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The Full Guide For Women (And Men) On How To Detect A Disloyal Partner

OK!

So lets start first with the proper definition for "cheating", since most people think its just "physical".

When it comes to romantic relationships, or any other edge of intimacy.

The term "cheating" relates mostly to the act of physical love or platonic (unfulfilled love) towards a third person.

Despite what most people think, YES - cheating starts with the mind, and could absolutely end in texting a girl/woman which you've never met before.

This is why we jewish people have a saying:

"The heart and eyes are spies and emissaries to the body, and they pimp its sins"

(A moment of jewish wisdom. This is why we rather not putting ourselves in situations we migh not know how to handle.)

Cheating is mostly the result of a Non-Functioning relationship and fighting couples.

Even indifference, or devitalized couples can create and cause a silence of emotions/intimacy.

In some cases, cheating is an incarnation of a psychological congenital pattern, or a type of acquired behaviour within the cheating spouse, thus making "Cheating" an "Inner urge" more than a "Justified" action. In some other cases, cheating just symbolizes the revulsion from one's life routine, and the urge to break it, and experience something else "More thrilling".

Sometimes, the act of cheating is revealed by an accident, thus causing the faithful person to get in some shock, but yet - in most cases - you may sense some indications and symptoms which are gathered along the relationship, hidden or in front of your face.

First of all, lets stay reluctant. These next "signs" dont necessarily inflict or imply cheating. To each and one of them you may find a very perfect and reasonable explanation, but when it comes to a combination of some of them, you better treat it with lots of suspicions, and try to figure out the source of behaviour.

Behavioral pattern changes:

1. A drastic change in attitude in your partner:

This could be wooing, gifts or even compliments towards you, or alternatively - disrespect, disdain, clear impatience, accusations or unexpected wrath of emotional eruptions.

2. A change in the physical look:

A new type of clothing (mostly for the best, and prettier), or too much of putting an effort about their body-care, such as "Shaving" all of a sudden, or even putting makeup with no reason.

The will to actually stay beaituful in every time of the day.

3. Repetitive absences from home:

If they come home late, or going out for long periods of time.

Mostly, the common excuse will be "work", in every aspect of it.

4. Paranoid Behaviour:

That weird bizzare feel someone is getting from their spouse that is beyond normal.

A feeling they might hide something from you, or acting very suspiciously, or even making up weird excuses as answers for some standard question you've asked in the past.

5. Changing "Night Hangouts" to "Friends (from same gender) only":

When all of a sudden the "hanging out" is becoming private, and they let you know they might not be able to pick up the phone, or even text - beware.

More Examples:

- Going shower fast, the moment they come back home. (Suspicious only if you are not used to this kind of shower routine from your partner).

- They dont pick their phone in your presence, or stay far from you to pick up.

- Having phone conversations during the night, usually outside of the room or in the bathroom or some other rooms.

- Hiding from you their mobile phone, or even putting a fingerprint/password to open it.

- Deleting the history of each browser they use, after every use of the internet,

or even use "Hidden Mode" on chrome.

The Full Guide For Women (And Men) On How To Detect A Disloyal Partner

Intimate relationships and general SEX:

1. They touch you less and less. They stopped kissing you, or hug you. (Sometimes because of the fear you will be smelling something on them).

2. The apperance of weird objects in their pockets or in their bags.

Things such as: Matches, Business cards, Notes with phone numbers.

3. The Smell of a feminine perfume or a stain of a lipstick on one's shirt. (according to 1).

Psychological effects:

Since most of you probably hold accounts in some social media sites, I know its obvious to you all that those are the first things to "beware" from.

If they have new friends, or deleting conversations or "activity logs", thats a sign of course.

If they change the "Relationship Status" from time to time... And making up weird excuses for it...

The most important of all, is when they actually BLAME you for what they are doing, which leads me to....

What every smart and clever human knows:

That most of us will always blame others, when we feel attacked, or paranoid, but in this case - this part is very crucial. When most people cheat, they do something that is called "Projection", and they inflict their own fears and paranoia on others. Sometimes NOT ONLY their spouse (So always pay attention to some subordant details..). In fact, just because they "percept" their own behaviour as "normal", they will accuse you (faithful ones) with their own treacherous behavior. So if you're being called a "Cheater" too many times, whilst knowing you've never cheated, thats a very very very strong sign if it appears like a thunder in a shiny day. Furthermore, if they all of a sudden are very worried for their "bed qualifications", it might imply they wanna prepare themselves to a new woman.

Sometimes there are behaviours that look too funny, and quite contrary from what it is supposed to be. For example, instead of fearing from you touching their phones, they look "Too comfortable", and too eased to let you hold the phone. This behaviour will slowly change the longer you hold their phones. Just watch their reaction changing slowly....

Needless to say -

When you are being cheated for a very long time, the outcome and inevitable situation will be happening: Your partner will look for reasons to pick on you, and fight. They will initiate such fights you already sealed and agreed on a day before. They will look for reasons why to hate you, and what you're doing wrong in the relationship.

Make no mistake, if they are flirting and make excuses how its "not" a cheating, it never ends well.

Once they find their new "Safe" spot in which they have a new "Partner", you will be tossed, and no way you could miss those rains of fire. Humans are like dogs, when sometimes you see them alone, they are very submissive, and once someone they know and trust sits next to them, they become feisty.

Remember that its a very common action to actually "look" for someone else, before you're having a breakup. There is a very tiny amount of people that will actually have the courage and valor to say "Enough is Enough", breakup with you and then look for someone else.

two main reasons affect this thing:

1. Like every other smart human being who holds a job, you will never resign your job before you find a new one.

2. Somehow people are much more "Wanted" and popular when they are in relationships. Even fucked up relationships in which they suffer and wither. So its much easier to use it as a manipulation on the third person who truly believes that you are a saint, and you partner is "Making you miserable".

Now lets move on to the fun part:

How the FUCK do we get to catch them?

The Full Guide For Women (And Men) On How To Detect A Disloyal Partner

There are lots of ways, which dont involve money and private investigators.

Lets start with the easy ones.

1. As i said before, if they are too casual with their belongings...

Grab their stuff (specially phones) and play with it and dont really try to look for stuff, since most of it probably will be deleted if they are smart.

But just look at their reactions. Look at them to see whether its important for them to hold it.

Make some fun game in which you hand them the phone and say "Ok, im bored. Here, you can have it." and the moment they reach their hand, take the phone back and say something "Kidding".. and keep playing it. Most of us won't get pissed if there is nothing imortant for us to do with the phone, and its actually funny. If they are aggravated too many times by that, BEWARE.

2. If they go out and you really got that feeling they are not where they are supposed to be...

Tell them to send you a location (satellites never lie), after you had tried some questions to figure out where they are and they acted evasively.

3. Act as if you discovered something shameful, and make a serious face...

Sometimes you will see that they all of a sudden are frightened to DEATH!

Someone with no reason to be afraid, might tell a lot about what he has done.

4. Always check some "hairs" on their clothes...

This is probably one of the oldest tricks in the book. A smart man will never cheat with a red head or a blonde, while having a brunette girlfriend. Same goes for short/long hair. If you got a girlfriend with short hair, never cheat with a girl who has long hair.

Same goes for different types of hair.

5. When you call your guy, and you're on hold, since he's in a middle of conversation...

First ask him who it was, in a nice and kind way, and if he sounds evasive, just take his phone later on the day, and look at the time you called him, if there's a "Missing" phone call, and you only see urs at that speicif time, you are probably sentenced to look for another man, since he probably been drowning in some other girl's attention.

6. (Very tricky to catch) Sometimes there are "Innocent conversations" in their apps/msgs.

Now, listen carefully. What most very very smart people will do when they need to "go" with friends, or meeting with a specific friend (which you guys know and trust), they will ask them to send a "msg" in which they describe what they are gonna do, those are called "Alibi Messages", and those very clever cheaters plant them on purpose, knowing you might be looking for stuff to lean on.

so those "out of the blue" messages are something to beware of.

REMEMBER THAT EVERY SMART CHEATER MUST HAVE SOMEONE OR MORE THAN ONE TO KNOW HIS SECRET. THATS THE FIRST RULE OF EVERY SMART CHEATER THAT DO NOT WANT TO BE CATCHED. So always suspect people that send this kind of messages. The hint will be - it looks the same, and its always the same person.

The Full Guide For Women (And Men) On How To Detect A Disloyal Partner
I really thought i will have more points to talk about, but since im typing all of this stuff from my mind, I will be glad if you recall more stuff, and I will probably recall as well with more opinions.

Have fun, and hope you won't find yourself in situations like this.

P.S

I know some of you might be feeling very weird after reading this, but its perfectly normal.

Im a cynical human being, and I believe that there is always a hidden intention behind every man's kindness, so I will just tell you all:

Take everything in proportion, and remember -

You cannot surprise the paranoid man, and you won't catch him with his pants down. (My quote. TM)

The Full Guide For Women (And Men) On How To Detect A Disloyal Partner
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